Things I will never get bored of.

Although I have been dominating bitch boy for over 11 years now there are some wicked pleasures that I have never grown tired of and know I never will. As I am in the fortunate position of having some time to relax at the moment I have allowed my thoughts to wander to what I most enjoy doing to torment my sub for my pleasure.

I should probably mention that as I type this he is kneeling on a square of coir matting that is about 12 inches by 12 inches. His arms are secured behind his back in black leather bondage straps and he is facing the wall. He is facing the wall so that he does not have the distraction of watching me type in my figure hugging, short green dress, gold dangling earrings and sky high patent shoes. I want him totally focussed on the pain in his knees. He has begged and whimpered a bit now that over thirty minutes has gone by. I told him whimpering is OK. Begging is not.

I have identified five amusements that bring me never ending entertainment.

One: Unsurprisingly my first pleasure is the ability to have orgasms on demand. Whatever time of day or night, I can just say “I am going to have an orgasm now” and that is exactly what happens. I can choose whether I have my orgasm on the bed, on a chair or outside on a sun lounger, for example. I can also chose whether to have him lick me or finger me to orgasm and indeed how many times I want to come. There are not many women in the general population who have this degree of control and it is a very good reason for taking charge of their relationship and their sub.

In terms of discipline there are two actions that I turn to time and time again. The first is dickie discipline and the second is a sound caning of my subs bottom.

Two: I read about dickie discipline many years ago and it immediately appealed to me and I have since introduced several other Mistresses to its pleasures. One of the benefits is its simplicity because I consider that at its most fundamental it simply involves a ruler. To have my sub bound and stood in front of me, while I relax in a chair and alternately tease his clitty so that it becomes hard and then smack it firmly, all over with a ruler is indeed a joy. The clitty soon turns a lovely red colour. I love the fact that even though my sub knows the only reason that I am stroking his little clitty is to enlarge it, so that I can smack it all over, he just cannot help himself getting hard. This game can be augmented, by including the use of Deep Heat embrocation cream, or lemon soaked bandages and sometimes I also use a pack of cards. If I turn over a red card bitch boy gets smacked, if I turn over a black card bitch boy gets teased. The odds can be changed by removing some of the black cards!

Three: I have many different types of implement for dishing out a sound beating to my subs bottom including a tawse, several different types of paddle, several crops, a quirt, training whip and a red leather flogger. Although I have spells of preferring one implement to another, it is my red velvet handled cane that I like the best of all of these toys and to which I return time and again. It is my cane that hangs by a loop round the door handle in the dining room so that I can access it quickly when bitch boy executes a sub standard curtsey for example. It is also my cane that is on the coffee table now, ready to be picked up and used should bitch boy make too much noise while I am typing or should he dare complain again about his knees hurting, which they must be terribly by now. I like the fact that the cane is light, some of my implements are quite heavy, and the cane is very easy to handle backhanded. I also like the fact that it can be used to give an all over warming effect or stronger strokes leave the bottom with attractive stripes. No wonder it is such a winner.

Four: Total sensory deprivation gives me a real power trip. I fix bitch boy to the bed using cuffs, body belt, collar and chains so that he is completely immobile. I also use wax ear plugs, a blind fold, a gag and a leather hood so that I can also secure his head in place. I make sure that he cannot move at all, not an inch, and then I draw the curtains and leave him. I put him into a nappy as I sometimes leave him over four hours at a time, but I keep the video baby monitor with me so that I know that he is secure and not coming to any harm. I know that bitch boy truly does not like at all being restrained in this way and this adds to my pleasure immensely. It is wonderful to be able to make somebody submit so totally to my whim.

Five: Making my bitch boy wear knickers that he has had to decorate with ribbon bows still amuses me every time I see him in them, which is every day. I love buying the knickers and presenting them to him as a gift because he always looks so crestfallen when he takes them out of the bag. Then I have the fun of watching him sew the ribbon on once he has turned the ribbon, which is always pink, into large bows. He is extremely subdued when he is sewing, which just makes me laugh. Then finally I have the pleasure of seeing him in the dreaded knickers every day unless he has a doctor’s appointment or similar in which case he has to ask permission not to wear them. It never fails to make me smile when I tell him how pretty his knickers are and I see his demeanour change to downcast and embarrassed.

With these delicious pleasures available to me, is it any wonder that bitch boy knows that we will never go back to a vanilla lifestyle. I simply could not countenance it!

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21 Responses to Things I will never get bored of.

  1. Great post, I enjoyed reading it.🙂

  2. Frans says:

    What a thoughtful touch on #5, making him sew on his own (pink) bows, and of course teasing him all about it. It is best to make them work for their submission, isn’t it.

  3. curiouslyanxiou says:

    Thank you for sharing the five amusements you never tire of. I was struck by the way you’ve striped your delights to their essential nature. Delicious, elegant, inspiring and exciting.

  4. Didi Rim says:

    This is pretty hilarious, bitch-boys continual “descent” in hierarchy, however, while I agree his sense of reality has shifted, in the same vein your sense of reality has also shifted, he is a trained dummy, in another way you are a trained mistress, your entire existence revolves around him, you are as much his puppet as he is yours

    • My sense of reality has not shifted. Far from it, I know exactly how, and how far, my lifestyle is at odds with society values. How can I be his puppet? He has no control over what I say or do, ever. His existence revolves around me, yes. My existence does not revolve around him. I take female lovers and slaves at my whim. I invite other women around to add to his humiliation, at my whim. I enjoy my work. I enjoy the company of my friends and family. Your perverse appreciation of the facts leads me to conclude you are sadly insecure with the concept of true dominance. It simply causes me to shrug my shoulders. I am the happiest most content and fulfilled person I know. Are you?

      • servileslave says:

        Mistress Scarlet, Ma’am

        On my knees to You.

        Mistress Scarlet is absolutely right – it is about your insecurity. Why else would you seek to mock in that fashion; except something that so frightens you? Which makes me think that primarily and deep down, you want exactly that – true and real DOMINATION of the kind bitch-boy has no choice but to endure from such a Female as Mistress Scarlet.

        Why else come onto this site in the first place: ‘Real Life Female Domination’? you are scared of what you most want and need and know is right, absolutely right – to be a slave, a real and powerless SLAVE to a powerful and liberated Woman and therefore She is right again – you lead a life riven with your fear and denied true self.

        With great respect to You Mistress Scarlet.


  5. Goddess' -pet says:

    wonderful sounding lifestyle for you both!

  6. Sara says:

    Great post and stories…
    I’m lucky Wife hasn’t figured out I need to sew bows on my panties yet, whew!🙂

    • Your also lucky I do not have her email address. I cannot collaborate in any way with males, in duping their superiors.

      • sissy jamieanne says:

        This simple sentence shows in great detail Your integrity, Mistress Scarlet…You cannot collaborate in any way with males, in duping their superiors…it is clear You have loyalty and respect to Your fellow Mistresses/Superiors!

        In humble submission,

        sissy jamieanne

  7. Didi Rim says:


    I read what pleases me, esp on the internet as I like to stay abreast of human depravity, as to your assumption of fear on my part, I say yeah sure LOL

    I disagree that I mock the lifestyle, I’m merely critiquing this particular interaction without emotion as it seems the element of choice (in the case of bitch-boy) is absent here.

  8. Didi Rim, perhaps it would be best to pursue your own life’s intersts rather than to feel the need to be a self appointed critic of other peoples lives and relationships. If they are “puppets” ( your word) to each other and are happy, what business is it of yours to cast aspersions of them? I happen to enjoy reading her blog as do other people….if you don’t…..go write your own.

  9. anonymous says:

    I’m curious

    While nurse nastoy seems your prefered way of release for bitchboy and you never cease to humiliate him you have never mentioned anything about using one of your dildos on (in) bitch boy. I find it curious as its the most huliating thing you can do to a male (not a gay one) as you make him receive the phalus.


    • Your personality and attitudes may mean it is the most humiliating thing that can be done to you. But people are different. Other things are more humiliating to other men.

      • anonymous says:

        How fascinating.

        I am currently away from a computer so I apologize for making this both short and crptic. Its not”only” the humiliation that that is implied by havin a dildo up your ass (preferably one bigger than your own natural one. Is what being raped like that means its not just the pain, its the inaqueacy feeling he will have. You have stated he will never fuck you yet while under your dominion you have never fucked him? Though before I mentioned humiliation there are many aspects to it (some to long or subtle to wrtie with a handheld device) but I will try to expand on those on a later date.

        So to make it short:

        1) Feeling of inaquacy
        2) Pain
        3) Rape this also can be done in public (say in front of nadine or any of your lesbian lovers or dom companions) or as well done by others in front of you as a way of reinforcing the concept of property. (As you could be lending him for the pleasure of othersas you would lend someone a book.
        4) Complete domination of both his body and his mind.

        There are more aspects but I hope to continue this conversation.

        Thank you

        • I understand the facets of the event in question which you appear to identify well. However, as I commented before, and I am sure you understand, all people are different – including submissives. To suggest that it is the most humiliating thing for all submissives, is like suggesting all people prefer chocolate cake to lemon cake.

  10. anonymous says:

    Even a lowly male like myself understand that a coment like that menas the end of the conversation even though it could have been fascinating to hear opinions from other people both doms and subs.

    So after mss scarlets coment this dog obeys.

    Woof, woof

    Wagging of the tail

  11. Oh what a lovely mistress you are. I would love to be your sissy baby girl. I think all weak husbands with tiny a tiny 3 inch erect pee pees need to be dressed as babies but not baby boys but baby girls.Nappy,plastic pants frilly pink satin panties, frilly pink satin dresses and baby doll nighties just like my baby clothes. just google.sissybabysusie to see what I wear.
    When sissie’s are dressed this way they seize being a man and relinquish all manly privileges so of course any sexy wife will require the attentions of a real man. don’t you agree mistress?. I wish more was written on this sissy baby cuckold theme because its quite common in the AB?DL world. I have never seen any form of porn that gives this fetish real focus however if anybody knows where I can find such material please let me know via tumblr.
    Thank you once again mistress and I promise to be a loyal sissy baby girl follower .

    sissybabysusie xxxx

  12. sissy jamieanne says:

    i loved this post, Ma’am…and confess it made my own little clitty stir within its plastic cage! i love that bb was kneeling on a small piece of coir matting, facing the wall, in pain, forbidden to beg, while You (of course comfortable and relaxed) wrote this blog entry! This is in true Mistress Scarlet fashion!!! You are simply the very best example of strict, severe, and no-nonsense Female Leadership this sissy has ever had the privilege to encounter!

    In worshipful awe of You,

    sissy jamieanne

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