I know some readers of my blog and journals doubt the whole truth that this life, as described, is actually led by bitch-boy and I. This does bother me a bit because I want all women to know just how relaxing and exhilarating a life with a real sub can be, when you adopt it and then ensure it evolves fully over the years. Below I evaluate some of the doubts that have been expressed to me. I always welcome these doubts so that I get a chance to address them. (Keep them coming.)
Too much for one man to take. Firstly, bitch-boy did not go from zero subjugation to where we are today. I evolved, and my lifestyle became more extreme over – coming up for – 15 years. So, much like how – if you slowly heat a pot of water to boiling point with a frog in it, the frog never jumps out – bitch-boy has been conditioned to just take more and more, his evolution of deepening acquiescence following my evolution of ever greater control and cruelty. Secondly, he is deeply, deeply submissive to women and has been since before he was 11 years old. So when faced with say, me and my two sisters for the first time taking utter control of him – three, tall, attractive, highly intelligent, very dominant women – his submissiveness overwhelmed all other traits in him and despite the terrible humiliation on that day, he was a deeply submissive rabbit caught in the headlights of intractable female dominance. (And having submitted once, the future led only one way.) Thirdly, he has managed to compartmentalise, mentally, the different aspects of his life. Within half an hour of the most terrible humiliations, he is able to, just about, deal with a business call. He can switch either way with only a little duration of transition. Fourthly, there are our practical lifestyle arrangements. He is awake for an average of 122 hours per week. Running his business takes only about an average of 22 hours per week, most weeks, (he works from home for 90% of that), leaving him 100 hours. Chores, garden and yard work take about 21 hours per week. This leaves 79 hours per week – when I am not at work, to use and abuse him. Deducted from that is vanilla interactions with family and friends about one weekend in four. So, it is not too much for one man to take. And I know of real Dommes, some of whom I have met, who have a lifestyle considerably more extreme than mine!
It is fantasy that you would have the sisters you do and meet the women you have met. Practical matters. (A) In the world, there are millions of families that consist of a mother, father and several daughters. It is a statistical certainty that a percentage of these families will be led by a dominant mother who raises very dominant daughters. My family is one – even if such families are rare. (B) The children have all flown the nest and live some distance away. We moved to the countryside leaving all our family members and friends some distance away, we also have only a cordial nodding relationship with our few neighbours. This all means we never have people simply drop in to see us. All visitors are by appointment. (C) See above, bitch-boy runs his own business, works from home 90% of the time, and we both earn very good money. (D) In nearly 15 years, I have met only a handful of women who have wished to join me in my life with bitch-boy. Some moving in with us for a while, (one at a time! over the years) – most visiting regularly for a while. (Plus my sisters and Akesha). Life is change. The women move away or abroad with work, they move for family reasons, they meet a sub of their own and stop visiting – so these are transient relationships. Over such a number of years, is this small number unbelievable? Given I have been on a number of BDSM contact sites and I visit fetish fairs and fetish clubs such as Club Pedestal. (And yet again, here is an invitation to any woman who wishes to join me in the use of abuse of bitch-boy (without bringing a man with them) although I am happy to have them come to me alone and then, me go to them alone, if they would like to double-domme any sub they own. (This is just how I like to take pleasure – a single male the absolute centre of attention! – Its my thing – I don’t know why.)
Equipment and apparel. Look on the internet or in the high street. All equipment I use is out there and most of it (not including BDSM beds) is quite low cost.
So in conclusion. My life is real. Ladies who have a sub as a partner – try it. Ladies who have no partner – find a sub and try it. (There are 100 male subs looking for each Domme!)