Monthly Archives: October 2014

Viagra helping to abuse him

I am becoming an expert in the use of Viagra – or more precisely, the cheaper substitute I have begun using – Sildenafil. It takes 30 minutes to kick-in on an empty stomach and around 55 minutes on a full one. It lasts about four and a half hours from the time it kicks in. For those Dommes who have not used them on their subs, I will take this opportunity to explain the effects I have found drugs like Sildenafil actually have.

I will first destroy a myth. The fact is that if there is no arousal stimulus, there is no erection!

If you have read any of my later journals, you will have come across my description of the phenomenon I refer to as beast-of-the-farmyard behaviour. This is a reference to how male farmyard animals will become aroused when faced with an arousal stimulus despite whatever else is involved in their circumstance. The beast-of-the-farmyard phenomenon has always amazed and disgusted me in equal measure. In a typical demonstration of it, bitch-boy may have been sexually denied for 10 days in the run-up to it, he may have my slender, cool fingers expertly tickling and teasing his sensitive, shaved balls and clitty, I may be dressed very provocatively, and so he becomes erect although he knows the result will be some pretty extreme penis torture or other. Perhaps nettles in a pouch or Deep Heat embrocation cream or multiple smacks with the ruler, (or more likely a combination of these things!)

So why do I bother with Sildenafil at all? Three reasons. Reason One – there is a limit to the beast-of-the-farmyard phenomenon. If his little clitty has already been made dreadfully sore, he can fail to become erect despite the other stimulating factors. In addition, if his humiliation is at a profound level, he can fail to become erect despite the other stimulating factors. What drugs like Sildenafil and (I assume) Viagra do is to greatly increase the response to arousing stimuli. So the balance of arousal versus disincentive, is tipped very much further into arousal. So with the use of Sildenafil, the beast-of-the-farmyard phenomenon overcomes more disincentives to arousal than it otherwise would.

Reason Two – Because the drug’s action, once there is arousal, is to open FULLY the blood vessels, the erection becomes absolutely granite rock hard! 100% rock hard, which overlaps with reason Three.

Reason Three – a wonderful feeling of extreme control for me that even bitch-boy’s little clitty becomes hard on my whim and he can do nothing about it – even in the absolute worst of circumstances for him, when, without the drug, he may manage to remain flaccid.

A note of caution. I did make bitch-boy go through a prescription process (although his was online) with a doctor from a reputable company. I think it is a bad idea to just obtain these drugs without having gone through the proper medical checks!

I most recently used Sildenafil when Mistress X visited. One thing we did was use a pouch full of stinging nettle leaves. It was amusing that his little clitty was so very rock hard at the moment the pouch was pulled over the clitty and the drawstring tied home at the base of the clitty.

Help needed!

Four years ago I bought 5 pairs of false eyelashes for bitch-boy and I published a brief blog post about doing so.


They are / have been fantastic. Over one inch long and just ideal. However I am down to my last pair as the others have all been damaged in some way or another. (Please note for instance, you cannot secure an effective blindfold over such lashes without ruining them!). The website I bought them from no longer exists and I have been searching without success for replacements. I do not really want realistic ones. These wonderful lashes look ridiculous and that is what I want. Perhaps the sort of thing a comedy drag queen might wear?

If anyone can point me in the direction of a good website I will be very grateful.

Punished penis and more

Just a very quick post on how successful yesterday was. To quote from a thank you email I had bitch-boy send Mistress X this morning, she was ‘very beautiful, frightening, astute, eloquent and very cruel’. bitch-boy was so utterly subjugated and shattered by the end. He had a very, very sore red and bruised bottom and such a SORE LITTLE CLITTY. Oh dear that little sensitive tube of flesh came in for a great deal of much deserved (as its so small) torment! Multiple applications of nettles, of Deep Heat Muscle Rescue, of the ruler and of the plastic penis flogger. The Sildenafil worked perfectly. I had just the most fantastic time and I am fairly sure that Mistress X did too. She certainly was in no hurry to leave when bitch-boy was strapped down on the BDSM bed with the gynaecological stirrups holding his thighs wide apart and the funnel gag strapped into his mouth.

Of course, much of the time involved such deep humiliation in his little girl outfit too.

I am busy writing a journal entry for Volume 8 of my journals as I don’t want to forget anything and there is so much detail to include.

A new Domme for bitch-boy to endure

I have a wonderful new Domme visiting my home tomorrow to assist in making bitch-boy feel very sorry for himself and be reminded yet again how inferior he is to dominant women and how he must suffer for our amusement and pleasure. Mistress X (as I will refer to her in this post) is young and very attractive which makes it so much worse for bitch-boy. She is also highly intelligent, articulate, creative and stern. She has been experimenting with dominating a part-time slave for around a year. I believe she is very cruel. In an email to Mistress X, I explained how fretful and miserable bitch-boy was contemplating the forthcoming event and the things I had planned for him. I mentioned to Mistress X that he may well be reduced to tears just by the humiliation I intended him to suffer at our hands, let alone the painful aspects I planned. Her emailed response to this truly could not have been more perfect! Mistress X wrote – ‘It would be an absolute dream to watch him break down and cry.’ I am very excited I have to say. Despite the recurring visits of my sisters and Madame Victoria, for some reason, bitch-boy finds his exposure in all his finery to a NEW Domme to be the end of the world!

I will be reciprocating her visit to me by visiting her in London soon and assisting in an evening of abusing her sub.

I have absolutely no doubt that, with Mistress’s X’s permission, my written account of her visit will be included as a long entry in Journal No. 8 which is already three quarters completed.

On the agenda for Saturday is bitch-boy dressed as a little girl, performing nursery rhymes with actions, playing with his dollies and probably doing a short, very little-sissy-girl dance. Of course, he may have to do his dance a good number of times! (He has a new little girl dress which, by good fortune, arrived this week. It was made to measure and cost a lot of money. As you may expect it comes down only to his hips, it is pink and has incredible frills. (I will be posting separately in due course with a photo of the dress.) Mistress X has asked to try out my leather two-tongued tawse, a leather paddle and a wooden paddle. This will happen with bitch-boy strapped face down over the dining table. Mistress X has also asked that we use nettles on BB’s little clitty. I have decided to demonstrate the use on his clitty of Deep Heat Muscle Rescue too. I have purchased some Viagra (or more accurately – Sildenafil) to make sure he is very hard for this. I have already tried out the Sildenafil. It is so amusing! (There will be a blog post on the technicalities of Sildenafil too in due course.)

There will be a demonstration of TSD bondage on bitch-boy – with the use of the funnel and urine and/or semen ice cubes and also the gynaecological stirrups, although his clitty abuse will probably be in the sitting room, with him hanging from the ceiling beam.

So much for bitch-boy to look forward to – he is a lucky little sub!

Careful what you wish for ……..

Followers of my blog will have read in the section with the tab above, marked ‘Advice‘, of the progress of Mistress Serena and her sub Tiffanymaid. I thought the evolving regime as currently described was worthy of a blog post. So below, I set out the recent report to me.

I replied to what is reported below. One of my comments was as follows.

‘I think regretting what you wished for is an inevitability when dominated by wonderful Mistresses such as Mistress Serena. As is being bored. The slightly paradoxical combination of boredom and humiliation is a current favourite of mine for bitch-boy to endure which is why he has to spend hours playing with his dollies while I virtually, but not quite, ignore him.’



MsScarlet curtsy
As ever W/we trust You and bitchboy are well and all is pleasurable.
Following a very active Sunday i thought it correct to update You accordingly, indeed, prior to leaving for a midweek break with Her lover, Mistress Serena instructed me to do precisely this.
i have often read & heard the saying, “be careful what you wish for”, and whilst appreciating its meaning, i have rarely had occaision to experience this…until now.

Once again taking Your guidence as inspiration, Serena had me, following a 50 stroke whipping, in extended TSD bondage. She took massive oral pleasures before applying the muscle rub and funnel gag (ice block pee). Further into the session She applied the nettle pouch which worked more efficiently than previous. ( This maybe due to the transplanted nettles becoming more mature and firm).
After three to four hours Serena replaced my TSD with an evening and overnight as “tiffanykins”. She double diapered (nappied) me and dressed me fully in sissy pink babywear, (bootees, plastic pants,frilly diaper cover panties, bib, dummy, bonnet and dress ). She led me down to lounge and set me the task of colouring in the same Princess colouring book bitchboy has, my first attempt ( the bride & four bridesmaids pic 2/3 into book) was not wonderful, and i found it most humiliating and somewhat boring, but Mistress maintained Her dominance and after over two hours i completed the colouring in.
My night was spent dressed as described and inevitably after 12 hours in diaper/nappy, i was very wet, but the double nappy did it job.
This morning i have spent tidying and cleaning throughout, with addition of bells attached to my chastity cage beneath my skirt, no panties. Again, i was surprised at just how humiliating having bells jingle aloud as i move could be. Serena loves it, i hate it. So She has set off with Her lover and i have a long list of chores to work through (including this message) which will keep me occupied throughout.
Mistress Serena sends Her grateful thanks for Your continued support, and in turn i hope this message is of interest.
Yours respectfully and in obedience,

Omitted to add, prior to Her departure, Mistress administered a strict paddling and cropping to keep my focus.

Mistress Scarlet curtsy

In my haste to update You on recent “tiffanykins” session, i omitted several points that may have been of interest. Most significantly was the introduction of the inflatable sheep.
Serena introduced me to “Sophie the Sheep”, and had me nurse and kiss her (Sophie) with affection. Serena has yet to introduce dollies or soft toys, so i was instructed to tuck Sophie under my arm and sat her next to me throughout my colouring in and the evening. ( i have yet to show Sophie my “affections” further ! )
Several baby bottles containing cold tea on one occaision and Serenas Golden Nectar on another were consumed before bedtime.
i shall try not to forget things when i update You next Mistress Scarlet.

Obediently, tiffanymaid/tiffanykins



Femdom Videos

Am I the only one who has a problem with most femdom videos – even when they involve any of my favourite femdom activities?

Once the video images have established that the slave is having his cock pulsed with electricity by her, or is eating cake from the soles of her muddy boots, or is having to eat the fluff and dust from the floor that she has swept into a pile, or is having his mouth filled with spit, or is having his cock smacked with a ruler, or is being urinated on – then I want to mostly see her face – not just a continual close up of his cock or the soles of her boots or his mouth full of dirt or urine.

Seeing the expression on the face of a relaxed, cruel woman while she enjoys inflicting the torment is surely the most pleasurable aspect?

Some video makers such as Balkan Brat and Barefoot Princess, either by intuition or conscious intent, ensure that their beautiful cruel faces are in shot 90% of the time. Surely the erotic beauty is in the expression and demeanour of the cruel woman, not in the endless close-ups of the tormented body part of the male?