Femdom Videos

Am I the only one who has a problem with most femdom videos – even when they involve any of my favourite femdom activities?

Once the video images have established that the slave is having his cock pulsed with electricity by her, or is eating cake from the soles of her muddy boots, or is having to eat the fluff and dust from the floor that she has swept into a pile, or is having his mouth filled with spit, or is having his cock smacked with a ruler, or is being urinated on – then I want to mostly see her face – not just a continual close up of his cock or the soles of her boots or his mouth full of dirt or urine.

Seeing the expression on the face of a relaxed, cruel woman while she enjoys inflicting the torment is surely the most pleasurable aspect?

Some video makers such as Balkan Brat and Barefoot Princess, either by intuition or conscious intent, ensure that their beautiful cruel faces are in shot 90% of the time. Surely the erotic beauty is in the expression and demeanour of the cruel woman, not in the endless close-ups of the tormented body part of the male?

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15 Responses to Femdom Videos

  1. armando says:

    As a subby boy, I completely agree. I like the reactions, pleasure and exhilaration of the Domme. Otherwise, the guy might as well be doing everything to himself.

  2. andy says:

    Good Morning Mistress Scarlet
    I am inclined to agree with your view, expression of the Dominant and their engagement mentally as well as phisically is of prime importance in such portrails.
    I have to admit I have never yet seen many “genuinely real” porn or fetish videos of short films that feel real.
    As you indicate most have a serious imbalance of the inter actual situation.
    Thank you s

  3. Scott says:

    I couldn’t agree more! One of my favorite videos that I watched years ago had two women whipping a man. At some point he just couldn’t take anymore and collapsed on the floor. At that point the woman with the whip grew a huge smile on her face and started whipping him harder.

    I can’t stand fake cruelty in most videos that are just wank bait for men with a fetish. Femdom is about the pleasure of the woman. I want to see real cruelty, real pleasure of the woman, and REAL suffering of the male–not wish fulfillment!

  4. dave94015 says:

    the expression on the face, like other aspects of character development is rare in most porn presumably because customers prefer the action (money shots). Maybe you could create a script that would have more of the POV of the woman?

    • A script for whom to use?

      • Scott says:

        There shouldn’t be a script in my opinion. The woman should do whatever pleases her and male should endure/obey as expected.

        That’s the whole problem with a lot of. Femdom porn–it’s fake! Finding ones that are real is hard.

      • andy says:

        Good Afternoon Mistress Scarlet and reader respondents.
        Maybe Mistress, a script by you for a bespoke film not for sale mainstream distribution, but for application only audiences?
        Making any sort of video is not difficult or expensive these days. ?? Using an average camera and tripod with good lighting would produce results good enough for all but massive screen replay oils be quite fun ….. Or extremely intense !! And unforgettable .
        Thoughts a

        • And who would make this film and who would be the actors?

          • andy says:

            Mistress Scarlet
            Begging your pardon Miss
            Not sure I have the answer to that question. My response would be
            are there other respondents to this thread who might desire to take part in such an activity? and would have permission?
            It needs to be either shot in real life or with very good actors who understand the dynamic and can genuinely play the part.
            Thoughts a

  5. Jarrod says:

    I am really glad you brought this subject us Mistress Scarlet, I think you have a VERY good point.I Totally agree with your comments Mistress Scarlet and judging by the other comments made here it would do video producers good to read these comments and provide less of the “fake” films and more of the “real”. It really annoys me when I see the male sub actually enjoying the punishment, smiling and even commenting!!!! There is no struggle and the begging certainly isn’t genuine its all too staged. Why? Probably because we are watching actors, not true Dominant Females or submissive men but actors and it shows dramatically. Amateur films home made with real genuine people like yourself would have much more impact on there audience I am sure!
    And Finally I am 100% behind your comment about the smiles of satisfaction, power and control a female has when she has her pet completely at her mercy begging for relief is a major part of the film. The impact is just so flat without it………… :(:(

  6. ravi says:

    womenhurtmen have got a good collection of vedios. They almost always capture the expression of the dominant.

  7. westfalen says:

    Really good point.

  8. slutmarcus says:

    i also agree. When i’m watching Femdom videos i really love it when the Mistress is clearly enjoying Herself, otherwise it can sometimes seem robotic.

    Don’t get me wrong, it’s good to see the strap-on entering the bitch boy’s ass for example, to see him taking a good few strokes. But overall i’d prefer to watch the Mistress enjoy his humiliation rather than 5 minutes of close-ups.

    One of my favourite Femdom video Mistresses for this reason was Mistress Jennifer Lemonde. She was always laughing at the slave, mocking him and clearly getting off on his degradation.

  9. westfal says:

    Some of the old OWK vids and more recently a lot of the ClubDom videos would meet this criteria as they generally focus on the sadistic Domme(s) especially the latter:)

  10. sissy jamieanne says:

    You make a very valid point, Ma’am…Female Domination is about the service to and the pleasure of the Domme…full stop! Unfortunately, as others have mentioned, most Femdom films are wanking fodder for males, and don’t portray a true Femdom lifestyle! I’d love to see a Femdom film in which the sub was truly suffering for the amusement of his Mistress and Her pleasure, joy and amusement were clearly shown in Her smiles, laughter and expressions!

    Most humbly,

    sissy jamieanne

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