Well bitch-boy has spent many, many hours in Total Sensory Deprivation (TSD) bondage this holiday. So relaxing (for me), while I watch TV, deal with emails, or read.
I had heard of using white noise to block all other sound from the slave’s awareness but suggestions of finding an old analogue radio or a Dictaphone on a loop setting, all seemed a lot of hassle. But I found a simple solution, partly thanks to a suggestion from an acquaintance.
I had an old smart phone, not connected to a network, but still connected to my WiFi. On the YouTube App there is a 10 hour (yes 10 hour!) audio file of celestial white noise. So with the Audio file playing on the smart phone via the Wifi, and the ear plug ear phones inserted into bitch-boy’s ears, with the volume quite high, and the industrial ear defenders over the top, he has now been experiencing TOTAL audio blackout. He hates it!
I am so perverse to take such pleasure in leaving poor bitch-boy in his TSD bondage for a minimum of an hour, and often soooo much longer, with a urine ice chunk in his funnel gag and a fresh coating of Deep Heat to his cock, before I walk off and leave him to endure his TSD. So perverse, but I just can’t help myself. What a full-on Christmas holiday poor bitch-boy is having. Easily his most ‘challenging’ ever. There will be several more posts and some journal entries to capture all that has been happening.
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Your bitch-boy is a very lucky bitch to have such a caring Mistress.
Dear Mistress Scarlet,
Please be sure to remind bitch-boy for me just how lucky he is to have You as his Mistress, owner and wife! i truly wish my wife understood my need for submission and sessions like he is lucky enough to receive!
By the way Mistress Scarlett if You would like to make things even more interesting for bitch-boy try adding some hot pepper sauce like Tabasco Sauce in with the Deep Heat and then applying it to his cock and balls! It will be more intense and last even longer. It will also be a lesson to remind him that despite what he thinks, things could always be worse and perhaps then he will be much more thankful for a simple application of Deep Heat alone! In fact the first time You decide to use this new ointment on bitch-boy have him smell each of the components individually about 30 minutes before it will be applied and then tell him that You will be mixing them together for application in a while and tell him to think about what will be happening to him in a while. That combination won’t kill him, he’ll just wish it had!
Sincerely and Respectfully submitted,
Oralslave4Tng
Thank you very much for being here, sharing your insights and lifestyle. You are a breath of fresh air, with your up-front acknowledgement of your sadism – not that other dommes are not up front, but, rather, that you make it okay to enjoy inflicting pain. There is a genuineness and joyfulness about your whole program that sets you apart in the best way!
I have read the first three quarters of your WordPress site, and I am a third of the way through the four Journals of yours that I have bought so far for my Kindle. They are outstanding, and a blessing. But it looks as if you are omitting something my wife and I could really use, and I will respectfully ask for it now:
Can you integrate a little more of the vanilla parts of your life into your writings? I read that you draw upon his judgement sometimes, and that he is your protector. So you do touch upon these subjects. Still, questions arise. Do you sometimes just stroll hand-in-hand while shopping? Do you share jokes and laughs? Do you sometimes enjoy the warmth of an affectionate hug? How vanilla do, or would, things become, should there be a crisis within your extended family?
My wife and I tried FLR for a year or so, but it fizzled. I believe it was because she just couldn’t let go of her desire to give me the FLR she thought I wanted, when, of course, what I want should not be considered. I had introduced the idea of FLR, and whatever knowledge she had in it was through me, as she doesn’t like to go read stuff. There were, however, many times when she seemed to enjoy applying the implements.
That was months ago. Now I have discovered your site and journals, and am thinking that perhaps reading those to her will inspire her to build her own version of FLR. And I am guessing she is going to want to know more about how you blend your lifestyle with the outside world.
If I have read sloppily, and simply missed lots of the info I seek, I apologize. In any case, Thank You!
Sincerely,
-gqn
I decided at the outset that I would try not to bore readers of my blog or journals with the mundane. Even some of the FLR blogs I like, have too much detail about a sick pet, or a family argument or other mundanity that could be read on a million facebook posts or blogs that have nothing top do FLR. So purposefully, the mundane is excluded from my writing. To help you, a little, you pick a great example – a crisis within our extended family would mean all domination instantly ceases (apart from a few 24/7 rules and the chastity device). I would want the full weight of his assertiveness and experience and wisdom brought into force – and if part of that experience was walking into a hospital together to visit a relative – yes we would be hand-in-hand.
We have a default of extreme FLR but there are a variety of reasons/times when I might declare a state of zero FLR (apart from a few 24/7 rules and the chastity device) and that could even include walking on a beach enjoying a beautiful sunset. I hope this helps.
Perhaps the best way to explore your wife’s position is to ask what she has enjoyed about the FLR times and what she has not, and work out compromises, rather than read her (some would say) my extreme FLR material? And obviously wait on her hand and foot all the while to the extent she would miss the attention and service were it to reduce.
Dear Ms Scarlet, pray may I ask what those ‘few 24/7 rules’ are? Beyond the chastity tube, what rules stay during vanilla times – even serious vanilla times? Also thank you for your new book and the promise of the next one. Happy New Year.
Rules like – opening doors (including car doors) for me. Him wearing his chastity tube. Always putting the toilet seat down. Generally him waiting on me hand and foot when we are in private.
Thank you for your prompt, thoughtful reply. I understand now that the omissions of vanilla aspects of your life are because that stuff can be found everywhere. Thanks, too, for your advice about advancing my FLR with my wife.
I am spending a lot of time in your works lately. As I enjoy them, I also am trying to puzzle out what makes your journals and web site so much more attractive than the others. With respect, this explanation:
That you actually get off on the misery you inflict is incredibly powerful. Not only is it every sub’s dream to have such a governess, but your pleasure makes enjoyment okay for other women. It’s huge; groundbreaking!
You respect your readers, sticking to an articulate, honest presentation of the lifestyle at which you so excel. There is eloquence in the way you omit trashy words and behavior. The whole thing has a “dressy” feel to it. You set a magnificent example, conducting your FLR with consistency and creativity, but also joy, glee, whimsy, and fun!
And under it all you are showing us a pure form of love and mutual respect. That you and BB love and adore each other shines through with every stroke, every humiliation, every time that you give attention or non-attention, and every moment he serves or endures.
Of course you are just people. But as FLRs go, yours represents the best of us – at once the highest bar, the loftiest goal, and the most beautiful. No wonder people like to hang out here!
Sincerely,
gqn
Thank you for your appreciative words.
Hello, have you ever condidered adding some kind of exfoliant to the deep heat cream? Nothing that could tear skin but perhaps do more to open the pores, and it would also feel rough on bb’s clitty when it’s applied. I would assume that the overall effect is more pain. Other ways to open pores include use of heat, perhaps hot water could be annoying but maybe a heated flannel or the hand wipes they give at indian resteraunts. Hope I have inspired you to properly cleanse bb’s pores, and should you try it out, make sure he knows it’s a beauty technique every girl should adhere to.
Thanks for the ides. Ideas are always welcome. However, as set out in my various journals, I have done/do do the things you suggest. One of bitch-boy’s presents this Christmas was a pair of exfoliant gloves for me to wear. Suggested to me by MaidaSissyinPinkPanties. I have already given bitch-boy a very rough cock teasing session with them while he was in the bath, until he was begging me to stop and whimpering how sore he had got. Once he was out of the bath and bound helplessly, I applied Deep Heat Muscle Rescue (The worst of the Deep Heat range) (or best! LOL) And oh my, so much sobbing!
Having a smart phone myself (iPhone) there are a few good apps which have the White noise, one particular app is called White noise and has various different types of white noise ranges, including a mixer to put different noises together, maybe when bitch-boy is having the urine ice block with funnel a sound of the waves (beach/sea) could be played, another idea is blue-Tooth headphones allowing you to remotely change sounds, control volume limits too, though these headphones do have a limited battery charge, mine play about 4 hours
Very interesting and I will look further. However, I currently like the thought of plain, tedious white noise, fixed volume, blocking out all other sounds, for hours and hours.
Mistress Scarlet *curtsy*
After an enforced break due to various reasons, i spent last night in my first TSD for about eight weeks. Serena used the white noise method for the first time (headphones used in place of ear protectors, though ear plugs were inserted bdeforehand). It proved to be much more effective than expected. Her arrival and subsequent attentions arrived without any prior warning. Equally, i lost count of the number of times i thought i heard Her in error. She assures me it will become the norm, and sends Her thanks for this insight.
Wonderful to hear that Serena is again enjoying using you.
Hmmmm…..all that white noise in bb’s ears probably really exacerbates those urine chunks and deep heat effects!!