Favourite Femdom Images

I was trying to work out what it is about some Femdom images, (photos or drawings), that I find so much more affecting than the vast majority of images. I think I have determined the two factors that do it for me and it made me wonder whether the two factors do it for me simply because they represent key aspects of my life, or whether others may share my predilections even when their lives are absent these things.

Images I like the best have the following things in common. The setting is an everyday home. The Domme or Dommes are utterly relaxed, no matter what they are doing. The sub is clearly being dominated in a manner in which he would rather not be. The Domme/ Dommes are dressed in relatively everyday clothes, (and ideally, have heels on, or flat heeled faux riding boots or Uggs. The sub is naked or dressed in a very humiliating way, or is in severe bondage. For perfection, the sub is being partially ignored, which I have mentioned before. I think these attributes, for me, represent the perfect Femdom lifestyle. It goes without saying that were images to be taken in my house, they would just about always portray these attributes.

It is shame then, that comparatively speaking, so few Femdom images on the web contain these attributes. So I was wondering whether I am in the minority and the ration of such images represent that. Or am I in the majority but the image creators are out of step with the majority.

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14 Responses to Favourite Femdom Images

  1. John Watson says:

    I absolutely agree with your preferences. I think much of it goes to whether F/m is viewed as game (not that there is anything wrong with games) or whether it is a deeper component of an on-going life style. I vastly prefer the latter; the Domme is the one not making adjustments. in her life, her time, or her clothing. All such modifications or sacrifices of his time, his labor, his clothing or lack thereof, his denial or suffering are the sub’s burden.

  2. locked120 says:

    Ms. Scarlet,
    The images that You speak of, have always been my favorite as well.

    Most pictures , with a female dominant theme, tend to be the fantasy fetish dominatrix type.
    These photographs seem to always be more about the style of clothing and the tools of the trade , so to speak ..mostly because that type is driven , in my opinion, by the more pornographic male fantasy.

    There is an image that still sticks out in my mind from many many years ago . It is of a woman, (although top less ) that is standing in front of a set of dressing mirrors, in a very elegant old style mansion ..she is wearing a scarf around Her neck, jodhpurs and riding boots and holding a riding crop horizontally across her buttocks. For me this symolized a classy authority amd power.
    It also seemed to suggest She was perhaps pondering Who was going to be the recipient of Her attentions . Even though She is alone in Her dressing area it seemed implied that someone was going to be visited shortly. Of course that could be total speculation on my part as the viewer.☺

    Hopefully more women will have photos taken of themselves going about day to day activities,
    all the while, clearly dominating their subjects.

    Best regards,
    locked120 / kevin

  3. addamms says:

    I agree with you completely. If the sub is not being ignored and the Domme or Dommes are interacting with him, a smile or laughter, or even a smirk, adds much to the image.

  4. darkhorsesub says:

    I don’t think you’re alone at all, I’m sure there are lots of people who find the litany of femdom images online (where the dominant is putting in all the effort, having squeezed themselves into uncomfortable looking clothing) to be tiresomely inauthentic. Sardax produced a lot of good drawings along these lines though.

  5. Red says:

    I absolutely agree, there are very few images that really truly portray what we see in our minds eyes and lay out in our very own scene to indulge in our own sadistic femdom pleasures. Such beautiful I believe we create and see in a glimpse and by the time you’ve finished marvelling it the image has moved on and the little slut is scrubbing away at some stain or making you a fresh pot of tea.

  6. Steve Mayew says:

    You are describing what I call ‘domestic’ femdom. I have found it so hard to find, I have taken to writing my own stories or captions over ordinary images, in order to capture the exact thing you are talking about.

    ‘Jonny’ is the closest I have found – with some stuff by Namio and Kami Tora also in the mix.

    Really what we need is femdom art drawn by women!

    • Well there are, of course, my journals! LOL.

      I think ‘domestic femdom’ sounds too tame for what is actually the most extreme femdom in terms of its 24/7/365 total tyranny and exploitation nature. Perhaps Domestic-Fem-Tryranny would be better? Or Domestic-Fem-Exploiting? There must be a better label.

      Do you have any links to ‘Jonny’? BTW, the art of Lady Carol often fits the bill. LINK & LINK

      And as DarkHorseSub commented, Sardax too. But even with these, as a ratio of all femdom material it is very low.

      • darkhorsesub says:

        I’ve started to think that viewing ‘Conventional Femdom Porn’ and ‘Domestic-Fem-Tyranny’ as two aspects of the same thing, or perhaps, two extremes of the same spectrum, is a doomed project; they are so fundamentally at odds with one another as to make any form of comparison a fruitless exercise.

        Perhaps, instead, we should celebrate what we might call ‘The Scarlet Doctrine’ as a different thing entirely, and refuse the temptation to think of the rubber-clad, sub-centric Domme as a simulation of what it is that we’re really interested in.

        That said, we’re still left without many decent images and videos 😦

  7. trainingboy says:

    Mistress,
    This post really hit home for me. I do not like elaborate Domme outfits and settings in imagery. Part of the biggest mental thrill for me in D/s is being made to do something, especially wear something I am uncomfortable with while my Mistress goes about her day. My bondage does not have to be elaborate, but we both like it tight and humiliating. Also, while I adore and worship the high heels of my Mistress, I find her equally enthralling when she wears her Uggs, Converse sneakers, or Hunter rain boots and jeans. I’m not sure how many subs have an Uggs fetish, but I do. Thank you.

    TB

  8. westfal says:

    I agree with your sentiments here also as while growing up with all sorts of FD fantasies, i was a bit discombobulated by seeing what is generally portrayed as the lifestyle out on the web ……..one website which kind of portrays a bit more of the domestic scene, kind of scratching at it though still in a porn-y way is All Men are Slaves.c, which might be worth perving for your opinion…….it would be a challenge to come up with a new theme -title for your more genuine lifestyle with bb and should be fun figuring out what that might be!

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