Give you something to cry about!

I read this tiny snippet the other day in an otherwise mundane piece. But this snippet really hit the spot! A DFT Domme was explaining one facet of her punishment regime. (DFT – see 26 July blog post).

At times, I choose that my husband has to be silent during a punishment. I instruct him to be so. I then make sure he fails to be quiet. It is such a pleasure to then use the phrase: – ‘I told you to be quiet or I’d give you something to cry about. Well, you failed to be quiet, so now I will give you something to cry about, you pathetic little girl.‘ The punishment then continues to an extended level and he is free to make as much noise, and to cry as much, as he likes!

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10 Responses to Give you something to cry about!

  1. fluffy says:

    which why I suspect most of your male readers will all love mischievous women!

    respect from
    fluffy

  2. pantymaid says:

    Dear Mistress Scarlet, I offer my deepest, humblest curtsy from afar.
    I scrolled back and respectively read the July 26 post. In doing so I came across an attitude that is often displayed which also baffles me – “Their sub will look very unhappy and submissive and be wearing a chastity device”. These are not just your words but often others, too. The chastity device is a given and I understand the appropriateness of one, certainly. What I don’t understand is the attitude of, unhappy. As an innate submissive soul I find joy in serving women while they relax in a mundane setting. I fully understand strong discipline for wrong doings, as well as, maintenance discipline, both of which will leave me feeling very well properly placed. Silent humility is always percolating when standing nude or completely sissified in front of any superior but I am not unhappy. It just seems nicer to me to offer a pleasant, polite little smile when serving a beverage than an expression of drudgery. What exactly are some superior women trying to prove, if anything, by making another human being unhappy? And why would they want such an unhappy environment for themselves?
    Thank you for allowing me to humbly, but happily, ask from a place of proud servitude.
    With respect and a deep curtsy, pantymaid.

    • There are a number of flaws in your comment.

      The first is that my description – ‘…Their sub will look very unhappy and submissive and be wearing a chastity device….” was not written to represent my attitude! It describes an imagery I would like to see in femdom visual material in place of of the majority of images we currently endure where the male is smirking and showing off his big cock and jock body. The words were about femdom porn and not my attitude. So you might offer your deepest, humblest curtsey and sign off with respect but there was no respect in you inaccurately linking my comments on porn to my attitude.

      Secondly, you say what are some superior women trying to prove. That is a very disrespectful comment and suggests superior women can’t have a preference simply because they enjoy it, but it must indicate low self esteem and a need to prove themselves. So your deepest, humblest curtsey and sign off with respect is insincere.

      Thirdly, if you were truly submissive, you would be acceptant of whatever the Domme wants. If she wants to see a miserable face, and an unhappy sub, that is her prerogative surely?

      Lastly, when my sub is unhappy, I can assure you that there is not an unhappy environment for me and my girlfriends! Far from it. (But there might be for him.) If you obey your Domme and want to please her, you adopt the expression she wants you to adopt, not the one you want to adopt – surely? And when a sub is put through unhappy times by his Domme, this frequently means, that night, he will sleep the sleep of a most contented man with his submissive soul fully at peace.

    • pantymaid says:

      Dear Mistress Scarlet,

      Well, I said exactly what I meant and you can interpret it anyway you wish to fit your needs. Your are correct, it is a woman’s prerogative (preference) . If she choices to make a devoted person miserable she certainly can.. Your rebuttal is simply your post rewritten with different words. Obviously, you feel if a woman wants her subject to be miserable then he or she should be miserable if they want to please her. I still ask, why would anyone want someone to be miserable.

      I suppose I am wrong in confusing the superior female and female lead relationships with Sadomasochism desires. But it is the latter that continues to keep former in the dark ages.

      With respect to all, pantymaid

      • So sad to receive your response. I thought at lest you would read and absorb before answering.

        You fail to miss the key point that the majority of true submissives need spells of being made miserable, to prove to them that they are being truly controlled and have no power and that is the only way their submissive souls become contented. Why don’t you address this point.

        • pantymaid says:

          Dear Mistress Scarlet,

          I do read and reflect on your responses, respectfully. Your latest post reinforces my feelings. Instead of the slave repeating something positive, such as, “The mistress pleasure always comes first…or… I do not serve well when I try to top from the bottom….or…. Being the Mistress sissy maid is an honor,” yet, this woman wants to be served regularly by a worm of a human being.

          I fully understand peoples needs for humiliation. I also believe these needs have a root in puberty when the experience was coupled with an unconscious inner pleasure, ( I know this is true for me). Each time I stand in front of a woman when purchasing panties or pads humiliation is peculating but I am there for the panties not the humbling experience. Humiliation is part of the price, especially when a young, flip cashier makes a remark, (not often but it does occur). Each time I serve a meal or clean a woman”s home in a work maid uniform or my finest petticoats there is always the societal pressure that something is wrong here but that is the price of being me. I then try to clean or serve to the best of my ability because she is allowing me to be the “sissy” that I am. I will be honest and say that there is an added…POP… to the experience because it is supposedly wrong. (Fire-crackers do seem to POP louder when they are ignited in a county that considers them illegal.)

          The mind is as weak as it is strong. It can be built up or torn down. A woman can be called a whore for pursing the same pleasure a man pursues. If she hears it enough she may begin to believe it. And anyone can eventually become a worm or worse, if that is what they are regularly fed. So, again I wonder why anyone desires to reduce and live a life with a worthless worm.

          Thank you Mistress Scarlet for the opportunity to speak

          With respect and a properly stationed curtsy, pantymaid

          • You do not understand the needs of true submissives at all.

            You continue to miss the key point that the majority of true submissives need spells of being made miserable, to prove to them that they are being truly controlled and have no power and that is the only way their submissive souls become contented. Why don’t you address this point.

  3. Sweep says:

    Dear Ms Scarlet,
    You, your blog and your responses to comments are just the bee’s knees. Please don’t ever stop blogging!
    Kind regards,
    Sweep

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