Femdom or Lezdom or both??

I am seeking feedback. In my very latest journal and the one before, I provide accounts of my use and abuse of my female slave as well as all the latest tribulations bitch-boy must suffer for my pleasure and amusement. However I am fairly sure that 99% of the readers of my published journals are either submissive men or heterosexual Domme women. So I would really appreciate feedback. Should future journals only cover what I do to and with bitch-boy, or should I continue to include the things I put little Play-toy through as well?

I would really appreciate the feedback as I am open to whatever my regular readers would prefer. This is your chance to tailor what I include in my journals.

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24 Responses to Femdom or Lezdom or both??

  1. tøsedrengen says:

    As a submissive man, my input would be that I’m more of the former than the latter; more submissive than man, that is. Therefore, any insight into the mind of a Dominant woman is inherently interesting to me regardless of who her “victim” is, and I can relate to the torments of any submissive who submits to a Dominant woman.

  2. donald says:

    You should include one or the other or both. What I would like is a bondage set-up involving in both parties (b.b. play toy), in a predicament bondage, maybe something like a 69, where as one is comfortable but the other must move to get comfortable making the other suffer. Os maybe b.b been try down in a way, where he is gaged facing play toys pussy, and she needs to piss. But if she does then she gets punisment. Something in that order.

    • I have made the decision that bitch-boy never gets to see Play-toy being dominated. I want him to experience her only as Governess Lexi. There are things, like acting out your suggestions, that I lose out on but I do not want him to ever witness a female under duress.

  3. armando says:

    Mistress Scarlet.

    What I appreciate most from your journals is the authenticity, to the extent that sometimes I almost prefer you to include the mundanity of every day life (as well as the smoking hot femdom). So, for me, I’d like both the femdom and the lezdom, as it seems most honest.

  4. Joy Ride says:

    BB is living my dream.
    I do have wonderful girlfriend/mistress and we have great time together. But it has alwas been a dream of mine that she finds herself a female lover that is submissive to her but dominant to me.
    So please, keep your toy included.

  5. donald says:

    Another scenario would be tie b.b to a chair at the table and have play toy force feed him a messy gooey meal. And she have a certain time line to feed him by spoon. IF for some reason she does”nt finish the meal at the set time then she must eat the rest

    • I have thought of having Play-toy supervise bitch-boy doing cleaning chores. And if a completed chore is not of an acceptable standard to me, we both punish bitch-boy and I then take Play-toy to somewhere private to punish her. So, in time, she is utterly ruthless in her disciplinary approach to supervising bitch-boy. Just a thought.

  6. jerigirl says:

    i am a submissive little sissy slut Mistress and i would love everything You decide to embrace us with. as a sissy, i am never allowed any grace, as i am subservient and my wants or needs are unimportant other than to serve the needs of my Mistress💗
    humbly speaking….
    kisses where permitted
    sissy ivy💋

  7. Sue says:

    Hi Mistress Scarlet. I love your blogs so please keep them coming! I am a bi female with a very unadventurous sub male. I tell him of the things I would like to do to him and just the thought of it makes him cringe. One day I will do some of the things that you do to bitch boy.

  8. Richard Jameslon says:

    Dominating a male or a female is hot..

  9. Downlow says:

    I like reading about both. I’m interested in your sadism and it’s impact on the victim, not who the victim is. I also like when you team up with others to put BB in greater torment.

  10. Mistress Hannah says:

    As a bisexual Domme I am certainly interested in both male and female submission. However I also feel that actually I read your journals as I am interested in your lifestyle and all that it involves.

    Hope this is helpful x

  11. sissy jamieanne says:

    I love Your journals as they are Mistress Scarlet…showcasing the lifestyle You and bitchboy share. As a submissive male, i enjoy the F/m dynamic most. I could suggest a compromise in which You describe Your torments of Play Toy in a separate journal.

    Most humbly,

    sissy jamieanne

  12. Ms Tammy says:

    Femdom can include male or female subs and slaves, so I would continue the way you have been, you might gain new folloewer.

  13. A Bitch and Her bitch says:

    Hello

    You know our thoughts on the matter…

    We skip over the posts involving Playtoy. We happen to have many close friends who are lesbians. They just don’t get Femdom or have any interest in anything involving men! We find Playtoy a bit unlikely and implausible for that reason. Straight women dabbling in same sex is a bit mainstream porno and tired, we feel..

    We are sorry if our previous message seemed unkind. We love your blog and wish you well.

    Les Biches. xxx

    • I too have lesbian friends who have zero interest in men and who would never in a million years have an interest in BDSM, but have you never looked at a BDSM contact site? Every possible combination of sexuality and kink is out there! And I have found people change too. My friend Mistress Jane is heterosexual and was surprised how much she enjoys torturing Play-toy. I considered myself hetero for years and then I found I wasn’t. I am amazed that you take as your evidence your group of associates and dismiss the evidence of the internet, or visits to BDSM clubs or fetish fairs. I assume you do not live in the South of England. It would have been amusing for all concerned for you to meet bitch-boy, Play-toy and I somewhere.
      Anyway, thank you for your kind words and I am pleased you enjoy my blog.

  14. tomilina says:

    I would agree with you, Mistress Scarlet. I for one, skim over those lez dom scenes as I do the scenes where bb is punished or tortured. I much prefer to read about his humiliations and his shame at being introduced etc. I try to empathize with him in those situations, and don’t care much for the infliction of pain or bondage. I may be in the minority, but since you asked I thought I would off my opinion.. Perhaps seperate publishings of the various activitoes? Just a thought.
    tomilina

    • Very interesting, but as you can tell from most comments on the blog, you certainly are in the minority. Thank you for your comment. I was wondering about separate publishings myself until I received the results of my feedback request.

    • fluffy says:

      agreed IMHO
      the torments & suffering of BB is far more interesting
      especially when you have guests Ms Scarlet or hand him over to your sisters for supervision – Ms Sarah featuring being a hugely exciting treat to read about 🙂

  15. slave c says:

    i love the way You dominate Your bb and Your play toy. i totally agree never let, bb see or hear You punish play toy. Thank You for Your blog. Please keep it up. i only wish my Owner was as strict and cruel to me Ma’am.

  16. derek says:

    You have already had a large and varied response but to add my two pennies worth, I feel that your journals and Your blog benefit from being the complete and unexpurgated diary of Your life as a dominant woman. As a submissive man my female side can relate very well to your domination of Playtoy. I enjoy reading about the reality of Your daily life and look forward to reading about the gradual and inevitable demise of poor bitchboy particularly how the dynamic is likely to change when You are at home full time. So in conclusion I would request that You do not edit out events because they do not fit into the stereotypical Mistress/male submissive scenario. Thank You for all Your work in producing the blog and the journals.

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