Monthly Archives: December 2017

Photos of me, Nicola and pansy-piece

A delightful visit to the house of Mistress Nicola yesterday to humiliate and abuse her submissive pansy-piece.

As a Christmas prezzie to all followers I include some photos. Heavily edited I am afraid to obscure all distinguishable features. But I am sure you will get the gist and pansy-piece will be suitably humiliated as his Wife-Mistress desires. And of course they rub bitch-boy’s nose into his cuckolded status too.

An enforced tea party for his little toy friends while we sit on the sofa and chat. To start with, he has white noise ear buds under his bonnet.

An initially punished butt.



Relaxed pitiless Mistress-Wives.




A Happy Christmas.




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Happy Xmas Dommes and subs

To all you followers of this blog, I hope you have a great Xmas break and Santa brings you some lovely BDSM prezzies, or none as the case may be.

I hope the Dommes are waited on hand and foot, get to satisfy their depraved and wicked tastes and have lots of lovely orgasms.

I hope the subs, are exploited, and used and abused, suffer for the pleasure of their Domme and remain full of the desperation of unrequited  sexual desire – denied release until at least the new year. They will sleep the deep contented sleep of the dominated, abused submissive.

Subjugating Xmas pressies

Thank you to all who responded to my last post. Some great ideas. I list my favourite 4 below. Links are in the comments section of the previous post.

  1. Nothing. No presents at all. And given the number and expense of my pile of presents, how cruel!
  2. The dildo from which liquid can be squirted. So good for face, anal and oral humiliation training of a cum-dumpster. Perhaps 2 of them for spit roasting by my girlfriend and I. We could ‘spurt’ at the same time!
  3. The top of the range metal cock ring, full of  spikes. The KTB.
  4. The tally counter, (stuck above a mirror mounted dildo).

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Xmas presents for the slave that has everything

Most years at this time of year, I have posted about the presents I have bought for bitch-boy. Implements for torture and discipline, items for humiliation, equipment for sensory deprivation bondage. BUT this year, I seem to have just about all I need. No items spring to mind that would increase his subjugation beyond its current extreme level. Perhaps a result of a Femdom relationship now over 15 years old.

So I throw open to you dear followers a request for ideas. I hold out little hope for a suggestion that I will act upon; such is my contentment with my array of paraphernalia, so please don’t be offended if I don’t act upon your suggestion, BUT  who knows, you dear followers often surprise me with fantastic ideas and suggestions!

Obviously when it comes to me, there is no shortage of things I can and will be bought. Perfume, lingerie, handbags (purses or pocket books in the USA), boots, shoes, gloves, dresses, skirts, blouses, tight fluffy sweaters, jewellery, champagne, flights for city breaks, etc, etc.


Praise indeed

I finally have a review of my BDSM manual on the Amazon United States site. And it is 5 star and very kind indeed! I am so pleased and very grateful to this Amazon Customer.

Amazon Customer

This is the best book ive read about how to embrace domination, and it is very practical as well.

 Wow. I have several books about domination, and Ive been practicing the lifestyle for several years, and this book is still amazingly helpful for me. It is very practical and real. I love the perspectives, the dinamics and the psychology. Im loving it.


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‘lesbian’ cuckolding

Labels are a problem.

I wanted to post on the subject of a Domme wife or girlfriend of a male sub and the Domme wife or girlfriend cuckolds her male sub through a relationship with another woman, involving sex. And the male is in chastity, does not get a full orgasm often and never gets to have sex of any sort with his wife/girlfriend. I think the label of cuckolding properly applies, but either one or both of the women can be bisexual instead of lesbian.

So, labels aside, hopefully you know what I am describing. You understand the scenario. It is my favourite thing in the world and I get disappointed by the limited amount of relevant material there is on the internet. At one end of the spectrum, simply two women watching TV, hand in hand, or hands at the top of each others’ thighs while there is a male in the room, naked but for a chastity device, facing the wall, or in a sissy maids uniform with chastity device on, awaiting a command, or ignored and in bondage and recovering from a recent serious caning.

Or at the other end of the spectrum, two women naked on a bed making love and the male tied to the bed rails by his balls with wrists secured behind his back and enduring a tearful, sobbing torment of a recent application of Linnex to his cock.

My Tumblr site has a few images and videos, (possibly all that can be found on the net?), the wonderful blog of the wonderful Mistress Rebecca features this cuckolding as does this blog, but compared to other femdom stuff, there is very little around. I wonder why because the impact on the poor male sub is off-the-scale. Sexually so desperate and seeing his wife or girlfriend more intinmate with the ‘other woman’ than he is ever allowed to be. Doing things to his wife/girlfriend he is never allowed to do, his wife/girlfriend doing things to her lover she never does to him. Delightful. Not a male getting any pleasure in sight. No male bull!

This scenario does feature in most of the later of my journals and I devote a chapter to cuckolding of every variety, (including faux cuckolding), in my BDSM manual.


Pitiless Robot Domme

I watched a TV programme on the development of sex robots yesterday. Trailer here. Robot dolls that among other things, can engage in interactive conversation, use facial recognition to differentiate between people they ‘know’ and display distinct emotions through expressions in their facial ‘muscle’ movements. In time, the dolls will be amazing I have no doubt. The developers were focussing on doll personalities that would be highly sexual, wanton and lustful in nature. BUT……….

I immediately thought about how beneficial they could be as robot Dommes for submissives who cannot find a real life Domme. I thought about how I would love to provide the programs and phrases the robots could use in various scenarios. To start with tease and denial.


I imagined the robots could be remotely programmed by me. Holding in their memory the combination of a key safe which holds the key to the chastity padlock. Programmed to add a day to the relief period, each day, if one hour’s begging at the feet of the doll was not performed each day. 100% sure the doll would never show mercy and relay the combination of the key safe before the LONG DENAIL duration had been met. And they could insist the submissive spend a long time taking in all those perfect feminine shapes. Mocked for knowing it has a functioning cunt and mouth, but never ever being allowed access to them.

I also thought about them overseeing the submissive writing hundreds of lines or overseeing the submissive playing with dolls. The punishment period would be implacably enforced while the doll sat and watched, occasionally verbally humiliating the submissive with phrases written by me. The doll asking the submissive if it is a pathetic maggot or pin dicked sissy, and following up with more verbal humiliation when the submissive answers.

Immediately my mind moved on to what great helpers as babysitters they could be to a real life Domme like me, used in combination with a camera, the output of which is accessible to me via a smart phone anywhere in the world. I could sit in a girlfriend’s house and bitch-boy, alone at home with the doll, would have to perform a little girl dance for the sitting, smirking doll, which my girlfriend and I watch via the camera. At the end he must ask the doll if it was sissy enough dancing, the doll would be programmed to respond, ‘NO! Do it again.’ Perhaps programmed to respond that way, five times consecutively before finally saying, ‘Sissyish enough maggot, now get to colouring-in with your dolly for the next two hours.’  Poor bitch-boy having no option but to take instructions from the robot with me watching and chuckling.

I can see that in 5 years from now, if not sooner, the possibilities will be endless. I wonder of I could get a job as a developer of Domme Dolls, rather than the slutty submissive dolls currently in production?

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