What follows are two excerpts in a piece by a wonderful woman called Charlotte on THIS WEBSITE. Mistress Nicola brought the website to my attention. She is very much into female supremacy, and feels it would do no harm at all for all males to know what it feels like to be thrashed by a female, just because she can, just because she enjoys so doing.
The author of the excerpts appears to be an awesome dominant woman. The whole article is here.
I am sure that my both caring and loving but unmistakably authoritarian and controlling style contributes to my husband’s willing subordination as well as his contentment and actually happiness with my rule; males like simplicity. They hate to discuss and being made to understand and agree with common sense but prefer uncomplicated rules and simple orders even when they are annoyed with the rules and orders. If my husband asks for instance if he can go on a weekend trip with his angling club he is of course disappointed if I say no but he would not only be disappointed but also sad and humiliated if I instead bothered him with a long discussion inevitably ending with him agreeing that he made a silly request and of course he cannot have permission to go.
He is no different from other males but likes to have clear and unsubtle rules and when I consistently enforce rules, expect his attitude to be compliant and respectful and insist on obedience it increases his trust in me as caring and responsible head of the family. Inconsistent, forbearing lenience would only confuse and frustrate him and he probably would mistake lenience for weakness. When I consistently chastise him for even trivial violations of rules and discipline him whenever I disapprove of his behavior one of the effects is that he experience the reprimand or punishment as reassurance that he can trust that I am in control and do not neglect him or my duty to care for him.
It was at this time I decided to equip him with a chastity device and at first he seemed happy with it. He thought that it was just an erotic game to spice our sex life but when he realized that my serious intention was to restrict and control his sexuality we experienced the first serious incident of obstinate unruliness. It was necessary to force his submission and obedience and without hesitation rob him of all desire to object to my rule. For the first time I not only reprimanded and slapped him but gave him a real and very thorough spanking. As expected he suddenly was much more sensible and amenable as soon as I had blistered his bottom. Although his rebelliousness flared up a few times and I had to spank him again it only took him a couple of months to fully get used to not having a sexuality unless I wanted it and wanted to use it. Ever since then he has accepted it as just a fact of life that he has no control of his sexuality and this ‘emasculation’ has made him much more compliant and easy to control.
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I put my back out recently. Not too bad. Probably 10 days and Ill be OK. However, Mistress Nicola had arranged to come over and visit. That worked out very well. Mistress Nicola was able to apply the punishments I could not. Quite devastating markings to bitch-boy’s buttocks and thighs and hips with agitation whip, quirt, paddle, cane and dressage whip. It was a deterrent punishment, he had not done anything wrong.
She is an unashamed sadist and sees submissives as simply available to suffer at the hands of dominant, sadistic women. She says it is what these men were born for. No pity or mercy. It is about her pleasure. And my pleasure too, watching bitch-boy suffer because that is the authority I have given her. That is my power; to pass him on to another to suffer.
Later, after much humiliation of bitch-boy, it was time for nettles to his clitty. Once the nettle blanket was in place, a thorough and enduring whipping with nettles took place. No mercy or pity or any hurry for it to end. Mistress Nicola was seriously enjoying what she was doing and ejoying bitch-boy’s pitiful begging and sobbing. It went on and on and at the end his little clitty, kept stiff throughout by very short breaks for skilful manipulation, was covered in little red nasty spots of agony. It was about her pleasure; and my pleasure too.
We were also taking into account that the nettle season is as good as over, so had to make the most of those we had. Mistress Nicola was quick to point out to bitch-boy though that Deep Heat, and even worse, Linnex; would be taking the place of the nettles to deal with his little clitty as soon as the nettles season was fully over.
So bitch-boy got the treatment I would not have been able to deliver without the help of my ‘carer’.
I wonder if submissives can comment on this post for me. As always I am keen to continue to learn.
I will present as a primary example my nettle blanket use, as it has come in for so much use this summer! I believe that a submissive is more affected when certain tortures are very keenly focused on a particular body part rather than be generally struck over many body parts at the same time. The difference between a scalpel and a spade or the difference between a sniper rifle and a shotgun.
For example I use the nettle blanket when applying stinging nettles to bitch-boy’s clitty so the stings are exclusively on his clitty. Not his stomach or thighs, just his clitty. He seems very affected by this. There seem to be more Dommes online using nettles in photos and videos lately, which I welcome, but I notice they almost always use a very large bunch of nettles and as well as the male’s clitty getting a few stings, his thighs and belly are inundated with stings.
I would think surely this would reduce the impact of the stings to the clitty and so be less scary and affecting?
I also use the nettle blanket when applying my mini whips to his clitty. Again his stomach and thighs are protected and all the pain is felt in his clitty. Is this more affecting than if his stomach and thighs were also being whipped at the same time? I have to say bitch-boy’s reactions in each scenario suggest my theory is correct. Do other subs agree?
Professor Marston and the Wonder Women 
This movie is NOT a superhero movie and is really interesting. No special effects or superheroes. It does show the 1950s prejudice against bi-sexual women, poly-households and bondage.
The eroticism is well done but those scenes are brief. I found it a good movie with a BDSM theme, which is quite rare.
Its about the writer of the original Wonder Woman comics and his love life. And its a true story!
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Following on from yesterday’s post, This Image is possibly my favourite Tumblr image of all time. It certainly reflects the themes of much of my relaxation time!
She in everyday clothing. Him naked and shaved genitalia. (She has no intention of dressing to satisfy his potential fetishes and thereby minimise the CFNM humiliation). She utterly relaxed and comfortable, a glass of wine in hand. Him gagged, in extreme bondage and suffering intermittent electric shocks to genitals and butt. She taking no more than mild amusement from his, extreme discomfort, uncomfortable helplessness, intermittant pain and fear. She likely watching a flat screen TV on the wall above him. Engrossed in the movie and forgetting him from time to time, reminded of him only by his pleading whimper at the surge of yet another pulse of the electricity. Her eyes stay fixed on the TV though.
An advert break in the movie, her attention is drawn to him. In total relaxation, she twiddles a knob a little and the electricity increases in power for each surge. The gagged whimpering becomes desperate and distressed. She allows the desperation and state of distress to continue for a couple of minutes, smiling, mildly amused. Adoring her feeling of power and heartlessness. Then the advert break comes to an end and she twiddles the knob back down to its standard, but taxing level. Her attention is again wholly with the movie……………
Link to my journal 12.
So in less than three months, follower numbers of my Tumblr blog have grown from 16,000 to over 17,000.
As I wrote before, I think this does show the gap between what the femdom porn industry and many Dominatrices provide online and what submissive males are actually affected by. My Tumblr site almost never features dungeons or warehouses or women in PVC or women in uncomfortable underwear or corsets. It mostly features women in comfortable clothing, sometimes sexy too; but nothing a woman would not wear in a vanilla situation. Women, often relaxing and focussing on what they get out of domination, not what the male might fantasise he wants.
My three biggest peeves!
# Mentioned before, are the videos which focus in tightly on the topic of the video and thereby fail to show the expression on the face of the dominant woman. Acts of CBT, pissing in the mouth, forced oral worship, licking spit from the floor or boots, licking boots and shoes clean of food or detritus, spoiled orgasms, caning, paddling, cuckolding, etc. etc.
# There cannot be a much more crass thing to do than add a music track to a femdom video; like some trashy 1960 porn film.
# Amateur videos, (probably my favourites because they are so REAL), BUT hugely spoiled because the TV is on somewhere in the background and the volume is high! Sometimes so high you cannot hear the dialogue. And so often the video does not depict a spur of the moment activity but rather something that has involved some preparation.
Does anyone disagree about these peeves?