As so often happens, Christine M makes a comment on one of my blog posts that I so enjoy and appreciate, I must make it a blog post in its own right . Here is that blog post. I will follow Christine’s comment with some thoughts of mine.
I had to smile when I read this post, I so love being unreasonable. Only the other day, when he was getting dressed, I called him over to check his defect was still snugly locked away. I closely examined his chastity, as he fretted. “Hmmmm…” I exhaled, “it looks like there is a little too much room to spare in there… What do you think?”
He was really shivering in concern now as he advised, “It feels really tight to me, Christine. It’s ever so uncomfortable and it really drives me mad when it tries to erect and can’t,” he whined.
“I didn’t ask whether it felt comfortable or not!” I snapped, “it’s not meant to be comfortable!… I asked if you agreed there was a little too much wriggle room in there now! I’m thinking you’ve shrunk a little!” This of course made him feel even more nervous as his whole body trembled. “That’s probably just because of the cold,” he tremulously advised.
I continued my close inspection, remarking, “I think we need to go down a size, … maybe even two sizes… You know I want it locked up really snug and sound … plus… I am thinking… if we keep taking the cage size down, so it is always a really tight fit … it will keep the shrinking going… What do you think?”
He was really upset at this. “Please, Christine, please don’t… It’s ever so tight and uncomfortable already… and it’s hard to lock it on!”
“Nonsense,” I curtly remarked, “There is definitely way too much room in there for my liking. I’ll get on to Lori tomorrow…. If we’re going to keep shrinking it, we need to make sure there is absolutely no room for any growth. None whatsoever!… I want it down well under four inches… which I am sure we can manage now it is kept locked up all the time… if we keep reducing the cage size!”
He was trembling and started to whimper about not wanting it to shrink. I brusquely fuelled his anxiety further by advising, “It is none of your business what I do with your little defect…. And, if I want it down below four inches, then I expect your full co-operation in achieving that! It’s not as though there is any purpose for it. I most certainly have no need for it, your tongue does me. Why didn’t you let me know it had shrunk?”
(Let me stress here, David’s penis isn’t really shrinking but, because he doesn’t get to see it when it is erect, it is easy for me to convince him that it is! So it is a great mind-fuck! Mind you, it is definitely a little smaller than it used to be when flaccid, since it used to fit ever so snugly into the current cage. I really was surprised to see it was no longer fitting as snugly as it used to.)
I then put on a show of becoming really livid with him, making him ever so panic-stricken! I furiously remarked, as I cupped his caged defect and pulled hard on it, “I AM REALLY NOT HAPPY WITH YOU!!!!! YOU MUST HAVE KNOWN IT WAS SWINGING LOOSE IN ITS CAGE AND THAT IT COULD GET A TINY ERECTION! I AM ABSOLUTELY FUMING THAT YOU DIDN’T LET ME KNOW JUST HOW LOOSE-FITTING IT IS!”
He tried to interject, but I just cut him off. “DON’T YOU DARE TRY AND MAKE EXCUSES. YOU KNOW FULL WELL I WANT THIS LOCKED AWAY TIGHTLY AT ALL TIMES! THERE SHOULD BE ABSOLUTELY NO ROOM FOR MOVEMENT. IT’S NOT MEANT TO BE HANGING FREE… AND IT IS MOST DEFINITELY NOT THERE FOR YOU TO PLAY WITH!
YOU ARE EVER SO LUCKY I HAVE OTHER PLANS FOR THIS EVENING!…. BUT TOMORROW WE’LL BE GETTING OUT THE VICTORIAN LINIMENT… LET’S SEE IF YOU STILL THINK YOU WERE CLEVER HIDING THIS FROM ME AFTER THAT! He was now ever so distraught and tearful.
And, yes, we have ordered a smaller size cage!
I love so much about Christine’s comment from the unreasonableness/unfairness to the concept of implying a goal of shrinking David’s penis as it no longer has any sexual purpose.
I also received a comment on my last post querying the difference between the two words: unreasonable and unfair. As a writer, words are very important to me so I looked at online dictionaries to shockingly find that each dictionary provided quite different meanings to both the word unfair and unreasonable. So here is my two-pennies-worth: In the context of domination and submission, I see the quite subtle difference as follows. (I know I will be shot down but hey-ho.)
Unreasonable: Where there was no more than an absolutely minuscule chance the submissive could have avoided failing, but quite understandably fails. AND: When a punishment is far in excess of what would be in keeping for the infraction.
As an example of the first application of the word, I would cite in my last post, that bitch-boy could have noticed the tiny crevice the length of a hand I had never noticed before in many years. And he could have had the brainwave of pulling off some cotton-wool from a cotton bud thus making it small enough to clean the crevice. Him not doing so was entirely understandable, so my deciding it was infraction not to have done so; was unreasonable.
As an example of the second application of the word, he was then given a serious thrashing far in excess of what his ‘infraction’ deserved; unreasonable.
Unfair: Where the submissive endures entirely unequal treatment from his Domme in a given context.
There are so many examples of this:
On one theme, firstly, I have many, many orgasms each week. My bitch is lucky to get an orgasm every ten weeks. And it would take him more than two years to have as many orgasms as I have on any single one of the several full-on DS days that happen each week. Secondly, my orgasms are generated with care and attention to ensure they are maximised in intensity. my bitch’s orgasms are under the sole of my shoe and utilitarian and humiliating.
On another theme, I am free to do whatever I want with as many lovers as I want, indulging in reciprocal, mutual, intimate, sensual, sexual activities. My bitch NEVER gets to enjoy reciprocal, mutual, intimate sensual, sexual activities and he never, ever will.
On yet another theme, bitch-boy does all the chores in our house, I do none.
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