Dommes’ Letters

The letters in each of the sub-menus to this menu tab, are reprinted verbatim from publications, I believe, of the 1980s and are provided for interest.

One sub menu choice is of Mary from Maxstoke and her husband pansy.

The other sub menu choice is about Pamela and her slave boy Candy Floss.

 

43 thoughts on “Dommes’ Letters

  1. Eu só posso dizer que você é simplesmente o sonho para todos,poderia me dizer como faço para encontrar seus contos completos,obrigado e aguardo sua resposta.

  2. I do feel that you are rather cruel with the insertion of the dental brush without using any lubricant why not next time lubricate the brush with some nice deep heat cream first lol
    Love Jill
    owner of hubby sissy maid candyfloss

    1. my mistress read this and instructed me to thank you and let you know that I am begging her not to do this but must tell you she will try it and I have to go and buy the cream I dread this weekend xx

  3. Thank You so much for sharing these letters, Mistress Scarlet! Mistress Pamela does indeed seem to be a very cruel Mistress and poor sissy candyfloss led a harsh life of domestic drudgery and constant work under threat of severe punishment…very appropriate treatment!

  4. Hello Honorable Miss Scarlet, i was a 24/7 maid, sexual toy, in UK
    Moved recently to North DC area,
    is there any Lady You know of, Who’s interested in a maid?
    i am ready to be owned as a property for the right Domina
    Please assist me!

  5. Dear Mistress Pamela I read absoutly everything you write.
    Your writings are so true an straight forward. I’m a total submissive lil White fem pussy boi that lives to be on my knees servicing huge black cocks.
    Unfortunately I could not be your slave merly because when my boi pussy is full of blk cock I sqjirt my lil 2 inch clit
    I know your slaves don’t get to orgasm
    So until I find my black mistress I’ll do the next best thing, that’s look pretty but slutty an keep my big black daddy’s happy. I’m meant to be used as a cum slut for all black cock.
    Alexxx

  6. Is it likely that you will be posting more of these marvellous letters from other ladies? I would be particularly keen to read about “mary from Maxstoke” and her “pansy”.

      1. Mistress Scarlet, is there a way for you to share the HTML formated letters? I’d dare to call myself computer savy enough to be able to try to help you with separating them into text documents.

  7. I think on wordpress if you just cut and paste the HTML file into the new post form, it will display correctly. The 24/7 thread and these letters are really priceless, so hard to find stuff like that on-line. The old magazines do come up now and again on ebay, but pricey.

  8. Ms Scarlet
    Firstly, thank you for reprinting the lettering from Mary…a truly scary lady, her mother and friends too also scary.
    To be in her puppets shoes? There is a part of me that is thrilled by such a prospect, the irony of it being sexually exciting too, yet in my heart I know that to live such a life would be truly awful. The continual slavery of work and the only respite being masses of humiliation and pain.
    I do feel sorrow for her puppet, yet if they really wanted out they could just walk away, so in a way the sorrow is misplaced.
    Her puppet clearly must accept it’s role in Mary’s life and that is so it is.
    One wonders where the people are now.. I’m aware faggot went to Canada with his owner and there was some correspondence on a sissy/maid website. The others?
    Curtsey
    Sillymaid

  9. It seems to me Mary’s letters cannot be real life accounts. The combination of 18 hours daily slaving and all the Domme group activities centred on diapering the sissy and keeping her in a lockable bed seem to contrast too much. What Domme would like to wake up before 5am just to free Her sissy from her bed and send her to work in an old folks’ home? Seems more like male fantasies to me.
    How would i find myself in such a situation? Because of the above it is hard to imagine. It seems that noone coul cope with that. But real life 247 sissy slavery does feel tempting to me, and i am willing to give away my right to decide where i allocate my time.

    1. Thank you for your considered comment.
      I think part of the sense of disbelief over the content of the letters is explained by remembering that the letters cover about an 8 year period. So old arrangements would end and new ones arise. Also I can advise you that some post menopausal women do wake at around 5:00 in the morning, its a thing, so that element is believable of Mary’s mother. I do think though, there may be some exaggeration but it is otherwise based on real life.

      1. Thank you MsScarlet for your reply, i appreciate it a lot!
        Taking into consideration the letters cover an 8 year span, and having mother-in-law live in i now understand these could very well be real life accounts.

        i am too a born submissive, i noticed the tendencies very early, making slave shackles from paper at the age of 7. i read Madame magazines in my 20’s, and still have a few. They were an important vehicle in my development as a sub. Serving my Wife in a maid’s uniform is enough to make my juices flow under my 247 chastity belt and a pantyliner is needed.

        i would love being a cuckold or being group humiliated like in Mary’s letters. my kink can be summed up easily: it is being forced to do things not decided by me. Things that are not pleasant (doing chores, total chastity, being caned), things that are outright repulsive (dog food, male cum eating), and perform stunts that remove all my creditability as a male once and for all.

          1. Thank you very much for the reply, MissScarlet !
            Dog food was a fantasy element currently (Mary’s letters invoked that), otherwise yes. I keep a journal at slave2mywife.blogspot.com where i have posted many accounts and pics of O/our days, and there is also a fiction/fantasy collection there. i welcome You to please take a look there!

              1. Thanks for the development idea for the blog. i must add an About-us section as all the basic info is buried somewhere among the posts.

                Anyway, W/we are a couple with two grown up kids “Mats” anf “Lina”, married since 1989, living together in O/our house in Finland. Been in and out of D/s some ten years now. i work full time, my Wife part-time.

  10. Thank You for sharing everything Goddess! i especially love the drudge’s arduous work schedule, “Pansy now has an eighteen hour working day including Saturday and Sunday!”
    Floss sleeping on the kitchen floor in a sleeping bag while her owner has sex in their luxurious bed is sublime.
    i can’t wait for all of the Miss GP letters exploiting faggot to appear on Your blog.
    Have You worked out the HTML problem? Perhaps we can help in some way?

    1. Happy Holidays Goddess,
      i can’t wait for all of the Miss GP letters exploiting faggot to appear on Your blog…will there be at least one for Christmas? Thank You Goddess.

  11. Mistress Scarlett,

    My Mistress (wife) and I have been reading your blog and books for some time now and they have been an invaluable resource for us. We would not have got as far as we have without them as they guided us into a sustainable FLR whereas before it would only work for a short time before we needed a break. Thank you.

    My Mistress wished me to write to you a little about our current situation and future. We are not nearly as advanced as yourself or many of your contributors but we hope our story so far is still of interest to you.

    My Mistress requires that I am always in chastity apart from for cleaning and teasing, and I am allowed ruined orgasms every two or three weeks. Full orgasms are much rarer, which is still difficult for me to accept but I understand that my Mistress wants to keep me aroused as my submission drops a lot otherwise and also to try and keep my mind aware that I need to focus on her pleasure.

    I am tasked with doing several household chores though not as much as my Mistress would like, and she wishes to increase the amount I do. We have a young child so it is difficult to have anything very obvious so I wear her collar only at night but we do look for other symbols of her authority that I can wear in addition to the chastity cage.

    She has really taken on board some of your ideas around curt instructions and handing over items respectfully with a single hand and a thank you. She does struggle with the curt instructions still as she does not want to be rude but she gets a thrill and feels bolder when she uses them.

    A punishment that was very effective and was also inspired from you was to make me kneel in the bathroom and bind my hands and wrists and then blindfold me. She then setup a camera pointing at me and put headphones over my ears which had a message about how I must be obedient looping over and over. I was told to listen to this and to repeat every minute out loud for the camera that I must obey my Mistress. It felt like it lasted forever as the position was very uncomfortable and the room was quite warm. Eventually my Mistress came to get me and asked me to repeat the words that had been playing in the headphones. I could not do it precisely so she ended up also paddling me. The whole experience was very powerful and made me feel incredibly enthralled and submissive.

    My Mistress is considering making me a BAV but she is not sure if that is a good idea so early (we are in our early 30s) and if she should not make that decision until we are older. She considers that perhaps the possibility of sex is a good incentive, though she also knows that at this point just the possibility of an orgasm or ruin by her hand is a strong incentive as she normally makes me handle this myself. If she did want to make me a BAV is that something she can also have added to your site as it was such an inspiration for her.

    My Mistress also would love your opinion on what you think can be the most effective way to keep a submissive feeling dominated when there is not much time in the week for regular DS sessions. She tries to make it work with making it a task for me to browse BDSMLR and reblog content she would like (another one inspired from you!) and in the evening to make me wear the collar.

    My Mistress wishes you well and hopes to provide more updates in the future as progress and try to bring more of your ideas into our relationship.

    1. Regarding your question, ‘…what do you think can be the most effective way to keep a submissive feeling dominated when there is not much time in the week for regular DS sessions?..‘ I have to ask questions first before assisting, as curt instructions and chores are one facet of helping in this area.

      I do not understand why she does not want to be rude with curt instructions, despite, getting a thrill and feeling bolder when she uses them. The whole point is to be rude because she is all powerful and you have to take being disrespected on the chin. (And being disrespected by her makes you feel in awe of her and worshipful to her and it ticks a submissive box of yours.) Curt instructions are free, easy and powerful, AND she can experiment for free. Spend a night or weekend being VERY curt and not saying thank you! I just don’t understand her position. I think it will be difficult to move on unless this is bottomed out. Ask her, what is wrong with being rude to you?

      You say, ‘..my Mistress is considering making me a BAV but she is not sure if that is a good idea so early (we are in our early 30s) and if she should not make that decision until we are older.
      She considers that perhaps the possibility of sex is a good incentive, though she also knows that at this point just the possibility of an orgasm or ruin by her hand is a strong incentive as she normally makes me handle this myself.
      .’ This is easy. She makes you a BAV now and I will publish that on my register. I knw as a male, your incentive is massive to get a real orgasm instead of spoiled. Most importantly, she can always change her mind in the future. One huge joy for Mistresses, is they can change their mind. They can do whatever the hell they want.

      You ask, ‘…My Mistress also would love your opinion on what you think can be the most effective way to keep a submissive feeling dominated when there is not much time in the week for regular DS sessions…’. Curt instructions are one way, chores are the other. I am very confused with your comment, ‘…I am tasked with doing several household chores though not as much as my Mistress would like, and she wishes to increase the amount I do….’ Why she she not increased the amount????
      A third way is, to keep a list of infractions requiring punishment and when you have the opportunity, then punishment is given for the infractions, until you are pleading with all your heart for it to stop. and she still keeps going for a little while longer.
      My main message is that I was cautious, like her, in the first few years, and I cared about societies rules on rudeness and women’s polite conduct. I bitterly regret those wasted years.

      Are you in the UK?

      1. Mistress Scarlet, thank you for your reply.

        “Ask her, what is wrong with being rude to you?” – My Mistress said I did a bad job of explaining her feelings here. She says it is not so much that she has a problem being rude to me as she is free to be as rude as she wishes. Indeed she makes me say ‘thank you, Mistress’ usually after she mocks me. Rather she has the problem of it being instinctive for her to always say please and thank you and so when she gets into it she enjoys it but she often does not do it as it is not natural for her yet. She says she really likes the idea of making a conscious effort to do it in the evening and she hopes that if we can do that most evenings it will get more natural to do curt instructions where she will not have to consciously think about it so much.

        “This is easy. She makes you a BAV now and I will publish that on my register. I knw as a male, your incentive is massive to get a real orgasm instead of spoiled. Most importantly, she can always change her mind in the future. One huge joy for Mistresses, is they can change their mind. They can do whatever the hell they want.” – My Mistress appreciates your feedback here, she says that as she has not had intercourse with me for nearly a year now that she has found she does not really miss it as I am much better with the wand or my fingers anyway. She will think if she wants to let me have sex with her one more time before making me a BAV so that I can remember how it feels before denying me it from now on. Also she liked the idea she saw on your blog to track the last time something happened.

        “Why she she not increased the amount????” – She is nervous of moving too quickly and that causing problems and so she likes to introduce things more slowly and then give each new thing a few months to settle in before adding more. I am more keen for her to take as much control as quickly as she can and for her to be as demanding as she wishes. However, I of course respect it is my Mistresses decision alone and I do not want to rush her or put her off because I feel lucky for every bit of domination she has over me and she is truly incredible, terrifying and awe inspiring when she can express her more dominant side. It gives me a very incredible submissive feeling toward her. I am trying to go beyond what she demands in terms of household chores and service both to make her life easier and also make her see that I can do more so that hopefully she will start to expect that, as at the moment when I feel a bit lazy I know I can go back to doing a bit less which then makes me feel like a bad submissive.

        A third way is, to keep a list of infractions requiring punishment and when you have the opportunity, then punishment is given for the infractions, until you are pleading with all your heart for it to stop. and she still keeps going for a little while longer. – My Mistress is very keen on this and her only issue with it at the moment is a lack of time to do it with the little one in the house. She saw your post about WriteForMe and can see that as being a good option. She also suggested that we can have the grandparents regularly look after the child for a few hours each weekend and we can then use that time for more physical punishments.

        Are you in the UK? – We actually split our time between the UK and Germany. We met in the UK but moved to Germany and that is where we live mainly. As we have family in the UK and I am from there we do travel back and forth a lot. As an aside this has caused some awkward moments for me when going through airport security and they have checked my bag and found the chastity cage, or in one case a vibrating butt plug. Since then I have not taken a butt plug on the plane as that was very embarrassing for me but my Mistress still makes me take the cage so that I can put it on once the other side of security and she refuses to carry it in her bag.

        Another idea she suggested to me this morning is that she may demand that I call her ‘Mistress’ when we are in public as long as there is no one close enough to hear. Or something like ‘my Lady’ as that may stand out less in case someone does hear. She feels that may help remind me of my place more during the day and also help me to get out of my habit of interrupting her when she talks or trying to finish her thoughts.

        I hope this answers your questions Mistress Scarlet.

        Many thanks,
        Mistress R & Sub J

        1. Excellent. I found that I needed a trigger for me to get natural at curt instructions and at not saying thank you. My trigger was whenever I needed something, to stay where I was and that seemed to trigger that bb would have to get the thing, then the trigger hit and I told him to curtly. Having asked curtly, when he then arrived with the thing and passed it to me with both hands, it was easy to either ignore him, or tell him to fuck-off or ask him, ‘what do you say?’ he then had to thank me for the privilege of serving me. Recording dates is very powerful over time.

          Excellent on the BAV front! Saying you will be BAV after one final time is wonderfully like having her cake and eating it! You know you only have one penetration left and will then by a BAV forever, so you have 99.9% of the feelings of being a BAV. She could put-off the final penetration for months or years and you are stuck with a BAV headspace all that time. She could also at a later date, if she felt it was what she wanted, say she has changed her mind and there will not be a final penetration. She can do whatever she wants!

          There are also silent physical bedroom punishments that can be VERY effective. Application of Deep Heat or similar to the penis for instance. (But follow the intro rules to a new substance.) Sitting on a square of coir matting for a duration longer than 15 minutes is another.

          ‘..Mistress still makes me take the cage so that I can put it on once the other side of security and she refuses to carry it in her bag…’ Loooooooooove her attitude! WOW.

          ‘…. call her ‘Mistress’ when we are in public as long as there is no one close enough to hear….. ‘ Excellent!

          Always happy to provide more help if needed.

          1. My Mistress has now had the chance to fully read through your response and wishes to say thank you for all the advice and ideas. She is already trying to make the curt instructions work via text message and will try it more verbally in the evenings from now on as well.

            She hopes to be able to provide some updates on how things are going in a month or two.

            Thank you again for all your help.

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