My Manual now available for Nook devices

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Links to all my published journals detailing my day to day life.

 

    

 

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Cruel Decadence Extended

You may have read in my journals of one decadence I enjoy when Governess Lexi visits me. I find it very decadent to go up to bed for a lovely afternoon sleep for a hour or so. So when Lexi is here for the weekend, I do so and have Governess Lexi ‘babysit’ bitch-boy while I sleep. Well I have devised a way I can have my decadent nap even when I have no one here to ‘babysit’ bitch-boy.

Yesterday I was a little tired and poor bitch-boy was colouring-in with his dolly. Just full of both shame and tedium at the same time. Of course, using his hated timer as part of the of activity.

I announced I was going up to bed for an hour or so for a lovely nap and once he was prepared, he must carry on playing with his dolly, colouring-in, until I had finished my nap. He looked very confused. I padlocked his heavy rubber collar around his neck, so it could not be removed. I then chained the collar to a ring in the ceiling beam above him with a uniquely numbered plastic padlock. (A plastic padlock he could break so he could escape and wake me in an emergency). I then buckled a spiked leather strap around his flaccid clitty and padlocked his lockable plastic panties on him so he could not touch himself. I took a photo on my phone of the page he was colouring-in. I aimed a baby monitor at him. I spoke with amusement.

“Now then pansy piece I am going up for a lovely nap. You are going to carry on colouring-in with dolly while I do so. I will have the baby monitor receiver with me and so I will be able to monitor you while I am dropping off and also if I wake momentarily, and finally when I do wake up properly at the end of my nap. You will not know when I am awake or asleep, so you had better follow all the rules with the two minute timer and the whole sentences in your exchanges with dolly or you will get 50 hard strokes of the cane, preceded by a warm-up with the quirt. When I come back down, I will also compare how much has been coloured-in with the photo I just took. If you do finish the page you are on, simply begin the next page.

I know it is just so cruel and unfair that you will be suffering this deep shame and tedium with me not even in the room, and for a good proportion of the time, with me not even being awake. But your life is all about unfairness isn’t it. So that is that.”

I slowly drifted off to the sounds of the very miserable bitch-boy in verbal exchanges with his dolly and my power rush and sense of decadence was so extreme, I did have to make use of my massager for a lovely orgasm before sleep overtook me.

(It all went so well and made bitch-boy so miserable that I subsequently used the same technique while I sat outdoors in the sunshine.)

LINK to the published journals providing full details of my life.

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My Manual on Kindle – Amazon, in paperback and ePub format

My guidance manual is now published as an A4 paperback and in ePub format and on Amazon Kindle.

      

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It will soon also be on Nook, Barnes and Noble and Apple iBooks. I will publish a post when it is.

This manual, of over 115,000 words, is for both beginners and for the experienced. (166 – pages at size A4.) This manual will work for any gender of dominant with any gender of submissive.

In section 1 you will find: # A chapter for submissives who wish to find a dominant partner or to influence their existing partner to become dominant. # A chapter for people who have a submissive partner and wish to tentatively explore dominating that partner. # A chapter for dominants, including the very experienced, who wish to maximise the pleasure and benefits for themselves and at the same time, maximise the contentment of their submissive. # Advice on managing that tricky balance between vanilla activity and domination activity.

In section 2 you will find a myriad of ideas, suggestions and techniques to explore and enjoy, including: # Advice on the use of different punishment implements. # Advice and suggestions on a multitude of physical torments, and humiliation and degradation activities. # A multitude of tips and ideas to incorporate in each of the five most popular enforced role plays.

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Guidance Manual now published

My guidance manual is now published as an A4 paperback and in ePub format.

      

Purchase Paperback                                               Purchase in ePub format

 

It will soon also be on Amazon Kindle, Nook, Barnes and Noble and Apple iBooks. I will publish a post when it is.

This manual, of over 115,000 words, is for both beginners and for the experienced. (166 – pages at size A4.) This manual will work for any gender of dominant with any gender of submissive.

In section 1 you will find: # A chapter for submissives who wish to find a dominant partner or to influence their existing partner to become dominant. # A chapter for people who have a submissive partner and wish to tentatively explore dominating that partner. # A chapter for dominants, including the very experienced, who wish to maximise the pleasure and benefits for themselves and at the same time, maximise the contentment of their submissive. # Advice on managing that tricky balance between vanilla activity and domination activity.

In section 2 you will find a myriad of ideas, suggestions and techniques to explore and enjoy, including: # Advice on the use of different punishment implements. # Advice and suggestions on a multitude of physical torments, and humiliation and degradation activities. # A multitude of tips and ideas to incorporate in each of the five most popular enforced role plays.

 

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Rubber band tormenting his hardness

A great implement for hotel rooms and other places where quiet torture is required is the humble rubber band.

I had bitch-boy with his wrists bound to a collar in a hotel room very recently. He had not cum for sometime. Sitting between his legs I touched and teased and he became so hard, (and desperate – poor boy), I then looped the rubber band, I had brought with me for the purpose, over his little erection, pulled one side of the loop as far away as it would go from the sensitive tube of flesh and then released it. An almost silent nastily stinging contact was made!

I repeated and repeated until the hardness was going. I stopped with the rubber band, teased and tickled until the full hardness returned, and then back to work with the rubber band. Sometimes I pulled the loop away from the underside, sometimes from the upper side. Thwack, thwack, thwack, thwack, thwack, again and again. There was much whimpering and a very sore little clitty by the time I had finished enjoying my sadistic game!

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Seeking playmate(s)

Well I have all this extra time available now, including weekdays. Do any of you lovely followers of my blog know which are currently the best contact sites for all gender BDSM or lesbian BDSM UK contacts? I used to use Alt.com and I will probably pay to do so again. I am on Collerspace. I am on Fetlife but cannot see a way to use it for searching.

I am seeking only females. A long term relationship or one-off experiences. These females may be straight, bisexual or lesbian; dominant, submissive or switch. The scope of their possible pleasure preferences that would suit me is huge, for example – but not only:

A lesbian who never wishes to meet bitch-boy but with whom I can cuckold him. Single, (or a couple), of man-hating lesbians who would enjoy abusing bitch-boy but are not interested in being intimate with me. Straight/bisexual women who would enjoy abusing bitch-boy with me, with or without intimacy with me. A dominant women who has her own male or female slave and would like to visit me alone to double-domme bitch-boy and, in reciprocation,  I would visit her alone to assist her in double-domming her slave. A submissive/switch lesbian/bisexual for me to dominate who would also enjoy double-domming bitch-boy with me when in her dominant mode. A woman with aspirations to be a dominatrix who would like to visit to practice whatever she wants on bitch-boy. A woman who is not sure about BDSM but would like an introduction, aligned with her fantasies – involving bitch-boy or never, ever meeting him. A couple of submissive lesbians.

When it comes to activities with another dominant or submissive I have to say I am very accommodating because my tastes are soooooo varied and eclectic.

 

 

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Serious Control Technology

I have been looking at burglar alarm camera systems to monitor my subs, (see the perverse details below). I would like advice. It seems the following specification is possible, but IS IT?? Please only leave a comment on this if you are sure.

SPECIFICATION. Cameras (vision and sound and night vision)  – perhaps one in bedroom one and another in bedroom two. One in the bathroom, one in the kitchen, one in the dining room, one to move about on a table stand and two outdoors. Cameras which are battery powered and wireless broadcast to a receiver App. A receiver App on a smart phone on which I can easily switch from one camera to another to observe activity in the desired room or outdoor area.

This would allow me to do any of the following.

  • A sub in each bedroom in sensory deprivation bondage – monitored for safety reasons and monitored for the pleasure of seeing them while I relax on  my sofa or sun bed and they suffer their extreme bondage and blindness listening only to white noise – for so, so long.
  • A sub undertaking rotary clothes line duty while I am elsewhere in the house than my conservatory. Occasionally observing them to check they never stop their blind, slow shuffling around and around and around for an hour or two.
  • While I ‘entertain’ a female in my bedroom or lounge having bitch-boy do colouring-in with his dolly in another room. Occasionally observing him to check at least every two minutes he is engaging in a verbal exchange with his dolly about the colour to use.
  • A sub, dressed and treated as a parody of schoolgirl, in the dining room toiling away on two or three hours of detention line writing, while I relax in the lounge or on the sunbed. Occasionally observing them to check they never take a rest for a single moment and never look up from their pad of paper and perpetually moving pencil tip.
  • At the end of an evening, the receiver Smart phone connected to ear buds in bitch-boy’s ears and him in his bedtime bondage, (including chastity of course), while I make noisy love with a woman in my bedroom and he can fitfully, eventually fall asleep listening first to his wife having sex with another, and then the cuddling and sleepy sweet nothings until she and I fall asleep. And he can think about how he NEVER has sex with his wife, (or anyone else!), and has been denied sexual relief for quite sometime.

Very detailed accounts of such events are to be found in my published journals.

 

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