Q & A’s for bitch-boy

How much do you dread the Nettles and interdental brushes? How painful are they? Do you get permitted a recovery period?

I DREAD THEM HUGELY. IT IS PROBABLY MY WORST PHYSICAL FEAR – THE MISTREATMENT OF MY LITTLE CLITTY (AS I AM INSTRUCTED TO REFER TO IT). AN EXTREME FEELING OF UTTER VULNERABILITY. THE BRUSHES GIVE A FEELING OF INTENSE INTRUSION AND PRICKLING IRRITATION WHICH PERSISTS ALL THE WHILE THEY ARE ON THE MOVE. THE NETTLES ARE JUST REALLY, REALLY PAINFUL AND I AM FULLY AWARE THE PAIN TAKES LITERALLY HOURS TO SUBSIDE. IT IS ALSO DEEPLY SHAMING THAT MISTRESS CAN MAKE ME VERY HARTD AND ERECT EVEN THOUGH I KNOW WHAT IS COMING NEXT. THE FEELING OF UTTER VULNERABILITY IS MAGNIFIED WHEN FULLY HARD AND ERECT, FOR SOME REASON.


Has the nettle treatments got any easier to deal with over the years?

NO. IT ALWAYS CREATES PANIC IN MY MIND.


How much do you hate the bells?

THE BELLS ARE ALMOST ALWAYS WORN, AND TINKLING, AT THE TIMES I LEAST WISH TO BE NOTICED. SO BECAUSE OF HOW I AM DRESSED OR WHAT I AM BEING MADE TO PERFORM, I WOULD MOST LIKE TO FADE INTO THE BACKGROUND AND BE FORGOTTON ABOUT, BUT THE BELLS BRING ME INTO THE FOCUS OF WHOEVER IS PRESENT WHEN PERHAPS, WITHOUT THE BELLS, I MAY HAVE NOT BEEN. THE BELLS ARE ALSO HUMILIATING IN THEMSELVES AS AN INFANTILE ADDITION.

What do you dread most?

THERE ARE TOO MANY THINGS THAT REACH 10 OUT OF 10 ON THE ‘DREAD SCALE’ FOR ONE THING TO RISE TO THE TOP.


What are the the things you get to do in serving that you like?

ORAL WORSHIP OF MISTRESS, KISSING THE TOPS OF MISTRESSES FEET. RUBBING MOISTURISER OR SUN CREAM INTO MISTRESSES BODY. SEEING MSTRESS IN HEELS AND LITTLE ELSE. SEEING MISTRESS KISS AND CARESS AND BE CARESSED BY ANOTHER WOMAN ALTHOUGH THE SEXUAL DENIAL MAKES THESE THINGS A TERRIBLE, TERRIBLE TORTURE TOO.


What goes through your mind when you are immobile in the stirrups and a blindfolded and you know the nettles are coming?

UTTER VULNERABILITY, PANIC, AN OVERWHELMING DESIRE TO PLEAD EVEN THOUGH THERE IS NO POINT.


If you could what’s the one thing you would change?

TO BE ALLOLWED TO FUCK MISTRESSES AMAZING BODY.


What’s been your most humiliating tasks or ordeals?

THERE ARE TOO MANY THINGS THAT REACH 10 OUT OF 10 ON THE ‘HUMILIATION SCALE’ FOR ONE THING TO RISE TO THE TOP. (DRESSED HUMILIATINGLY, THEN THE TIME WAITING FOR ONE OR MORE SUPERIOR FEMALES TO ARRIVE IS UTTERLY EXCRUTIATING.)


Has it got any easier to deal with to be dressed as a girl, learning nursery rhymes?

A LITTLE, IF THERE ARE NO VISITORS, BUT HAVING SAID THAT MISTRESS KEEPS COMING UP WITH NEW ADDITIONS TO THE SCENARIOS TO ENSURE IT REMAINS AWFUL.


What goes through your mind when you are immobile in the stirrups and a blindfolded and a new chunk of ice is deposited in your funnel gag and you await to discover the flavour today?

A PROFOUND SENSE OF HOPELESSNESS AND DEFENCIVENESS. AND THE (TRUE) FEELING OF BEING A TOY OR PLAYTHING FOR A CRUEL OWNER.


Describe the fear you have of Ms Sarah?

MOST RESPECTED GOVERNESS SARAH IS A COMPLETE SADIST AND IS UTTERLY RELAXED IN TAKING PLEASURE FROM HER SADISM. SHE TAKES HER TIME. SHE TRULY COMPLETELY IGNORES MY REACTIONS AND PLEADING.


What’s it like coming so infrequently and when you do with your inflatable sheep girlfriend?

FRUSTRATING LIKE AN GNAWING ACHE AND UNBEARABLY HUMILIATING.


As you were a sub before all the wonderful things Ms Scarlet has done to you, did you ever imagine experiencing such ordeals?

NOT SPECIFICALLY THE THINGS I NOW ENDURE, NO.

176 Responses to Q & A’s for bitch-boy

  1. tomilina says:

    Are you dodging the questions about most humiliating task or what you dread most? Perhaps none rises to the top of the list, but surely you could tell us a couple of hings about those tasks. I am sure it would be humiliating just to relive them, but even MORE SO to tell us all about them. Perhaps Mistress would like you to experience that. Also, many men are living vicariously through you and long to hear the details of your shame. I think you should give it another go. Perhaps we readers can suggest some activities for you to experience!

    • Posting about the experiences is not humiliating at all compared to living them. One factor is when there are three or more dominant women and in those circumstances, any of the following. Having to role play being a lisping little girl and playing with my dollies – speaking to the dollies and then speaking as though I am the dolly responding. This is equally humiliating if I am in the background doing this and the Mistresses are chatting, etc. Having to perform nursery rhymes with actions when I am the absolute centre of attention. Being introduced for the first time to one or more women in one of my maids dresses which come down only to my hips. My shaved genitals exposed with a large pink ribbon tied around. Fucking my girlfriend (inflatable sheep with orifice).

      Mistress is always interested to hear suggestions.

      • Fluffy says:

        Does your girlfriend have a name and do you have to treat her with great respect too, as she is female?

        Have you ever had to eat your sweet corn meals from your girlfriend’s orifice?

        Can you elaborate on you feelings to being introduced as a slave to new women? Is it worse if you already know them, like Ms Scarlets’ sisters?

        Have you ever been taken anywhere public as Ms Scarlet’s slave in front of others? How did that make you feel?

        Respect from fluffy

        • No she does not have a name and my Mistresses have never told me to treat her with respect. Their focus is always on maximising my shame over how it is my only physical penetrative sex with another entity.

          No I have never had to eat my sweet corn meals from my girlfriend’s orifice

          This is very difficult. It was terribly crushing being introduced to Mistresse’s sisters and have my standing in their eyes suddenly cut to nothing. However, waiting in my finery for a new superior female to arrive, given the vast unknowns involved, is terrifying.

          At Club Pedestal and sometimes at fetish fairs Mistress makes clear my relative status to hers. It makes me feel very inferior and embarrassed.

  2. house workboy says:

    How long did it take you to become proficient at ironing, and what item of clothing gives you the most trouble.

    • It took about 10 hours of ironing altogether I would say, but I get a cane stroke for every crease, no matter how small. The hardest items are Mistress’s stretch clothes and given her perfect slim curvy body she likes to wear a good number of clinging stretch tops.

  3. Robert says:

    If you were given ONE opportunity to leave Ms Scarlet, forever, never being allowed to speak to or see her again, and taking everything you own with you (which I suspect is nothing) and nothing else, or formally and equally forever accepting ANY treatment from Ms Scarlet as you do now but without ever again the opportunity to choose – which would you choose?

  4. Cats slave says:

    Having recently married my Mistress but knowing we are a lot further back down the road from you and your Mistress relationship i would like to ask if you regret your situation? i can see in the long years ahead that my slavery may become as absolute as yours, something which excites but also scares me witless!

    • I regret the loss of certain privileges like never fucking and I regret a number of default behaviours have been adopted such as nettles, Deep Heat and the awful role play humiliations. I do not regret my situation – not that it would change anything if I did.

  5. Andrew says:

    I have a few questions, if that’s not a problem.

    • I have a few questions, if that’s not a problem.

      Q: I’m sure that you don’t, in totality, regret your lifestyle, but do you ever have moments–no matter how rare or breif–where you feel regret, resentment, or depression because of it?

      I DO NOT REGRET MY LIFESTYLE OVERALL, JUST PARTS OF IT. I HOLD NO RESENTMENT AT ALL AND I AM NEVER DEPRESSED.

      Q: Ms Scarlet has expressed her increasing sadism over time. Is there a limit to what you think you can tollerate? What about when you get older and your body isn’t as capable as it used to be for service? What if you get ill?

      QUESTIONS OF A PURELY HYPOTHETICAL NATURE WILL NOT BE ANSWERED AS SPECULATION MAY BE MISLEADING.

      Q: The other side of the last question–what if she becomes ill, or dies suddenly (in a car wrek perhaps)–what would you do then? Has she planned for his possibility?

      QUESTIONS OF A PURELY HYPOTHETICAL NATURE WILL NOT BE ANSWERED AS SPECULATION MAY BE MISLEADING.

      Q: Do you feel loved?

      YES IN THE WAY AN OWNER DEEPLY LOVES HER PET OR A CHILD DEEPLY LOVES HER FAVOURITE TOY.

      Q: If you could choose one punishment to have abolished forever, what would it be?

      DEEP HEAT TO MY CLITTY

      Q: If you could choose one punishment to begin having done to you, what would it be?

      I WOULD NOT DO THIS.

      Q: Have you ever refused to obey a command? Are there any commands you know that you would disobey?

      IF I HAVE REFUSED I AM PUNISHED UNTIL I COMPLY.

      Q: Do you ever spend time together in a non D/s way?

      YES

      Q: Are you friends?

      YES

      Q: How many hours a day do you spend on your vanilla life (work, family, etc)?

      IT DEPENDS. SOMETIMES 24, OFTEN 0.

      Q: Do you visit each others’ families? If so, how do those interactions change compared with home? Or any public outing for that matter?

      I AM SUBTLY RESPECTFUL OF MISTRESS’S SISTERS AND AKESHA BUT NOT SO MUCH THAT ANYONE WOULD SUSPECT THE TRUTH. THEY GET EXTRA TIDYING UP AND FETCHING DRINKS BY ME THAN PERHAPS A GUEST WOULD NORMALLY DO. I HAVE TO OPEN MISTRESS’S CAR DOOR, ETC IN PUBLIC OUTINGS.

      Q: How many hours of sleep do you get a night?

      6 TO 7 UNLESS IT IS A SPECIAL NIGHT WHEN IT COULD BE 4.

      Q: Do you eat the same meals? Generally speaking?

      PERHAPS 50% OF THE TIME.

      Q: What is the happiest moment from your relationship (D/s or otherwise)?

      THERE ARE TOO MANY TO SINGLE ONE OUT.

      Thank you.

  6. Jack says:

    Does Mistress remove your tube for any reason other than to cause you pain?

    How often does Mistress remove your tube?

    Which ice cubes do you hate most? Cum or Urine?

    Does it give you satisfaction that Mistress gets so much pleasure from causing you pain?

    • My tube is sometimes removed when I am forced to dress as a little girl or school girl or sissy maid. In such circumstances a very large pink ribbon bow is tied on. If so and for periods I am outside of Mistress’s sight or the baby video monitor, the spiked leather strap is padlocked on.

      I really cannot choose which ice chunks I hate the most.

      I do get a sense of satisfaction that by enduring Mistress’s sadism (not that I have a choice), I play my part in her contentment and HER amazing sexual arousal.

  7. r says:

    If your Mistress offered you the choice to return to a “normal” relationship (or at least one where your slavery was consensual) would you take it? And how conflicted do you feel about the answer to that question?

  8. Roger says:

    What goes through your mind while being subjected to your Mistress’s lengthy TSD sessions? Do you think she will ever keep you in TSD for longer? 12 hours? Maybe even 24?

    • The biggest themes are how I am 100% a human toy or plaything, how really cruel my Mistress is and how utterly helpless and dominated I am, with no escape. Yes I do think she will end up keeping me in TSD bondage for longer, yes it no doubt will end up including for 24 hours.

  9. fluffy says:

    thanks so much for this new section to the blog – very exciting! some more questions if I may?

    • Can you recall the circumstances of the first time you encountered the stinging nettles and how it came about and the resulting fears from your perspective?

      IT CAME ABOUT WHEN MISTRESS READ OF IT ON THE INTERNET. I CANNOT REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME.

      How do you manage to get your ironing done without creases? Is this an impossible task, i certainly find it so?

      I CAN MANAGE TO DO SO WITH AROUND 70% OF ITMES, IT JUST TAKES TWICE AS LONG WITH TWICE AS MUCH CARE.

      If you like football or some other sport, does Ms Scarlet permit you ever to watch things like England matches at the World Cup?

      SOMETIMES MISTRESS DOES, SOMETIMES SHE MISTRESS MAKES A POINT OF NOT ALLOWING IT JUST FOR HER AMUSEMENT.

      What do you think about Ms Scarlet having so many avid readers about her domination of you and the exploits she puts you through?

      I UNDERSTAND WHY MISTRESS HAS SO MANY READERS. MISTRESS WRIES EXPERTLY. MISTRESS IS A PREFERCT STORM AS A LIFESTYLE DOMME. MISTRESS DOES NOT WRITE ABOUT VANILLA LIFE THINGS LIKE HAVING FLU OR A SICKLY PET. (btw WE HAVE NO PETS, MISTRESS SAYS I AM THE ONLY PET THE HOUSE NEEDS.) I ACCEPT THAT I FEATURE IN HER WRITING. MISTRESS’S GOAL IN WRITING IS TO PRESENT THE LIFESTYLKE TO OTHER WOMEN WHO MIGHT THEN TAKE IT UP.

      Aligned to the previous question, you are a hero (certainly mine anyway) to many of us subs out there, what do you think or feel about that?

      A HERO MUST MAKE BRAVE DECISIONS. I AM NOT ALLOWED TO MAKE DECISIONS.

      Can you describe the rotary drudgery from your experiences of enduring it?

      A COMPLETE HORROR. UTTERLY HUMILATING TO HAVE TO PERFORM SUCH A POINTLESS TASK FOR AN HOUR OR MORE EACH TIME. ITS ONLY PURPOSE BEING THE AMUSMENT OF MISTRESS (WHEN SHE CAN BE BOTHERED TO LOOK UP AND WATCH ME.) ANXIETY INDUCING BECAUSE I AM OUTDOORS AND FRIGHTENED OF BEING SEEN. TENSE BECAUSE AT ANY TIME MISTRESS MAY COME TO ME AND CANE ME TO ‘KEEP ME GOING’.

      Pre-being BB and just another sub, what were your dreams, turn-ons and fantasies about being a woman’s slave and plaything?

      I GUESS I DREAMED BROADLY OF WHAT I HAVE (EXCEPT FOR THE ROLE PLAY HUMILIATIONS AD THE 24/7 NATURE OF IT ALL) BUT REALITY IS FAR, FAR DIFFRENT FROM A DREAM!

  10. Rick says:

    BB, First I want to say that I am very happy that your Mistress has allowed us an opportunity to intreact with you. My question is this… In my own experiences I have often found that while I am forced to endure things I do truly hate, that my love for my Mistress, my need for my Mistress, and the fact there is no denying how thoroughly she owns me always makes me… grateful to suffer for her. Is this also your expereince as well?

    • I definitely have some parallel thoughts/emotions but I think I would use another word to ‘grateful’. When I have finished enduring for the day/night, I often get a sense of profound awe of Mistress and I look back on how cruelly she has treated me as though it was not me that was suffering, so I look at it as a third person, an observer, then I feel truly privileged that I am her plaything and slave because she has the capacity to do what she does for her pleasure with no guilt or mercy at all.

  11. Cats slave says:

    I can remember the feeling of utter dread but absolute joy when I realised Mistress had taken our lifestyle from being a game and turned it into a harsh reality. It is what true submissives are destined for I think. I truly believe it is my fate to serve and suffer for a cruel Goddess no matter how hard it can be at times. I think you understand my feelings of desperation but deep joy, knowing you are living the life you were meant to?

  12. Fluffy says:

    Thanks for your previous answers, you may not consider yourself a hero as you have no choice you just have to endure, but let’s just say from one sub to an other what you are endure is highly impressive.

    Some more queries if I may:

    • Ms Scarlet puts Your little clitty through many an ordeal, is it any worse for wear these days from what it has been put through?

      It sometimes gets some marks which last several days or even a week. It is not permanently scarred yet but it is clear that Mistress would have no qualms or guilt at all if she did permanently scar it by accident. Mistress would find that amusing. I know that will happen one day.

      On average, when in season, how often does Ms Scarlet put you through a good nettlling session?

      3 times a month.

      How much do you look forward to the time when nettles are not available?

      Very much, but then Mistress resumes with the Deep heat embrocation cream, and sometimes lemon juice.

      How long does it take to recover from the nettles? Did it tale longer after Ms Sarah very thorough (and extremely hot) experimentation to discover which part of the nettles sting which part of your little clitty the most?

      It takes between three and five hours. After about an hour the sting often reduces to a nasty prickling feeling which very slowly fades away.

      Have you ever been left alone and at the mercy of Ms Sarah for a day or more? If so what ordeals did she put you through?

      No I have not.

      Do you feel grateful that your balls are not put through the same ordeals? (That is my take out at least from the journals).

      Very grateful. Mistress is not interested in punishing my balls. She does say she wants my little clitty to be the entire focus of her attention so that I know, (A) how uselessly small it is and is only good for torturing, (B) that – as it is the ultimate embodiment of my maleness, it should be the centre of my suffering to remind me of my inferiority to superior females, and (C) that when it is time for her to be torturing for her sadistic pleasure, it does not get rest breaks (from Mistress concentrating on somewhere else for a time, like say – my balls.)

      Is a deep heat treatment truly worse than the nettles?

      I am unable to make such fine judgements. I fear them both terribly. The nettles last longer and are inconsistent so I am always unsure just how stingy any batch of nettles might be, which generates much fear. The Deep Heat just burns so much!

      Can you recall how you discovered femdom? (I did through a magazine called Madame in a World of Fantasy)

      I really cannot remember. I do remember, at less than 11 years old, fantasising about being helpless and being tormented by women.

  13. MaryMaid says:

    Three questions
    Has Mistress ever suggested charging you for the experiences she provides for you?
    Do you think Mistress will adjust the regime in the light or your replies ( ie will she demand more of particular experiences you find most humiliating.?
    How often are you on display to other mistresses and how are you introduced?

    • I do not think Mistress would see any purpose in charging me because Mistress already has unfettered access to all my money, possessions and assets.

      Certainly if Mistress were to learn that I found something very humiliating which she did not previously know about, Mistress would target that. But I think Mistress already knows the worst things as she targets them already.

      There is no set frequency for my exposure to other dominant women. Sometimes I go a month without it happening, other times it may happen every day for a week with the same woman. I am introduced to a new superior female (who is ‘in the know’) firstly by being given an introduction speech (Mistress has written) to learn off by heart and recite to the visitor when she arrives. An hour or so before the arrival time, I am dressed in one of my most humiliating outfits. I am normally then left to stand in front of the full length mirror and stew in my anxiety until there is the knock at the door. Mistress smiles and chuckles during the wait – really enjoying my anxiety.

  14. chastysissy says:

    I’m currently being made to practice singing 3 songs to ‘perform’ when I next visit my Mistress (‘Mummy’), each with the word ‘lollipop’ in them as I’ll be dressed as a little sissy girl and have been told that if I’m good I may one day get to suck a real ‘lollipop’ (I can imagine what Mummy means by this). If the songs are not performed to Mummy’s satisfaction She tells me that my punishment will include a caning and public humiliation.
    My question is this: I’ve done many humiliating things for Mummy’s amusement but this absolutely feels like the worst – what is it about singing that makes it so bad and how do you cope? Thanks.
    chastysissy.

  15. SweetSyn says:

    Hi,

    I’m an avid reader of Mistress Scarlet’s blog & frankly I am in awe of you. I could not ever imagine living a life you do.

    I just have one question. Do you have a safe word or anything similar, in case you were to ever feel truly in danger of serious injury or death? I know yours is not a life with much control but I did wonder if there were any limits.

    Eagerly awaiting vol 7 of the journals.

    Thanks

    • It is a fundamental (and correct) position of Mistress that a safe-word or slave-chosen-limit is equivalent to the slave being the person who is in control. Her most profound step change in her evolution was when she chose to withdraw from me the option of a safe-word or any limits of my choice.

      Mistress is highly intelligent and would never risk serious injury to me. Why would she want that? (That does not mean she has a problem with leaving a permanent scar on me, especially on my penis.)

      • SweetSyn says:

        Thank you for your reply. I didn’t mean to imply that Mistress Scarlet would be careless enough to seriously injure you. But accidents can happen.

  16. Bill Bithers says:

    How would you feel if your mistress, as the owner of her toy (you) decided to have you build a “toybox” to hold you while not in use?

    The “toybox” would be sufficiently small to keep you in a curled up, cannonball-like position, and of course dark, and uncomfortable, with hard walls to keep you contained for hours on end.

    Would that fill you with awe like her other exercises of power over you? Or more?

    • It is a bit of a hypothetical question.

      Mistress does have a dog cage in which I am unable to sit upright or extend my legs straight but Mistress has not used that for a while. I think, on balance, the toy box would be very much like the total sensory deprivation I endure except I would not be so vulnerable for CBT and would not have to deal with a nasty ice chunk in a funnel gag. So, it would be very humiliating and cruel but probably less frightening than the total sensory deprivation bondage.

  17. Fluffy says:

    Thank you for your answers and shedding light on your existence as Ms Scarlet’s plaything.
    Some more questions if I may:

    You spend a lot of time in situ in the stirrups, in sensory deprived bondage. With the addition of the outside rotary duties, how and what do you do to deal with the shear mental stimulation boredom of such situations?

    You could be seen as a domestic pet of Ms Scarlet, have you ever been fed wet or dry cat or dog food?

    Have you ever talked to another man about your submissiveness and liking of femdom? (I know I haven’t, not exactly what you bring up down the pub when conversation turns to girls!)

    Are there any men in your life, or is it all Ms Scarlet and her sisters/friends?

    Do you have to ask permission to go to the loo and do you have to use somewhere different as you are BB like an outside loo or a bucket?

    Has your secret life as BB or some of the situations ever come close to being discovered by a vanilla person, when you have been outside or dressed as a pansy?

    Respect fluffy

    • You spend a lot of time in situ in the stirrups, in sensory deprived bondage. With the addition of the outside rotary duties, how and what do you do to deal with the shear mental stimulation boredom of such situations?
      WHAT I THINK ABOUT WAS ANSWERED IN AN EARLIER QUESTION.

      You could be seen as a domestic pet of Ms Scarlet, have you ever been fed wet or dry cat or dog food?
      YES – BISCUITS AND CHOCLATE BUTTONS

      Have you ever talked to another man about your submissiveness and liking of femdom? (I know I haven’t, not exactly what you bring up down the pub when conversation turns to girls!)
      NO

      Are there any men in your life, or is it all Ms Scarlet and her sisters/friends?
      BUSINESS AQUAINTENCES AND A COUPLE OF FREINDS WHO I SOCIALISE WITH PERHAPS ONCE EVERY THREE MONTHS, BUT I DRIVE SO DO NOT GET DRUNK OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT

      Do you have to ask permission to go to the loo and do you have to use somewhere different as you are BB like an outside loo or a bucket?
      YES- I HAVE TO SAY THE FOLLOWING LINE – ‘PLEASE MISTRESS, PLEASE MAY I USE THE BATHROOM MISTRESS’

      Has your secret life as BB or some of the situations ever come close to being discovered by a vanilla person, when you have been outside or dressed as a pansy?
      YES – TREE SURGEONS AND A NEIGHBOUR UP A LADDER.

  18. PinkPantiesonMe says:

    I was wondering about your orgasm’s or releases. How do they come about? Do you ever or have you ever begged for one?

    • I beg often, particularly when Mistress has had me denied for a considerable period, or in fact, even for say 5 or 6 days and Mistress is posing in front me, naked in heels, or in a mini skirt, or topless in jeans, or in a skin tight mini dress, and she runs her hands over her body and laughs at me, asking me if I am desperate and what a shame it is. However, my begging has never resulted in being allowed relief.

      Currently my relief is ALWAYS when secured on the BDSM bed, in total sensory deprivation and after some painful dickie-discipline.

  19. zacary says:

    hi…
    i was wondering how often are you made to drink ms Scarlet’s golden nectar and how is the urine delivered to you other than the ice chunks ( directly from ms scarlet , from a glass etc….) and does it really taste good…??

    • Very often.
      During total sensory deprivation bondage Mistress does not just leave me alone with a nectar ice chunk. When visiting me in the room and tormenting me, it is sometimes tipped down the funnel straight from a jug and often injected into the funnel in a very controlled way using a syringe with a wide outlet.
      When Mistress urinates on me in the walk-in shower or on the lawn I often have to have my mouth open although I am not expected to swallow.
      When I am made to dress as a little girl, I have to drink the nectar from a baby’s feeder cup, normally watered down because Mistress does not want me to get dehydrated and it is the only source of liquid for many hours.
      Also I often have to lick Mistress clean after she has urinated into the toilet.

  20. Maid Mary says:

    Questions

    Rather a lot of questions Im afraid. Probably envy

    • How long are you allowed for showering and shaving in the morning ?

      It is not always in the morning and it depends on Mistress’s plans for the day.

      Is there an inspection ?

      If my genitals were not shaved properly I would be punished. After all these years I have become perfect at shaving my genitals.

      Have you ever asked to be punished/caned. Do you enjoy it ?

      No, why would I ask? No I do not enjoy it. A principle of Mistress’s regime is that a slave must detest its punishments and do all it can to avoid them.

      Have you ever asked for more punishment

      Only when the Obsequious Obligation rule is in force which was first detailed in volume 2 of Mistress’s journals.

      An extract from the speech you make to new mistresses ?

      ………It is an honour and a privilege to have you visit and witness my humiliation and submission ……….Mistress Scarlet will be very grateful if, during your visit, you would raise with her any element of my service or behaviour which is below the standard required to maintain your satisfaction so that she can immediately punish me to improve your satisfaction in your visit.

      Which songs do you have to lisp to ?

      Nursery rhymes with actions – I’m a little tea-pot. Mary Mary quite contrary. Little Miss Muffett. Three Blind Mice.

      Has she ever told you she was considering training another boi

      No, but Mistress sometimes points out how there are hundreds of subs who she could pick from to replace me with in an instant if I consider any rebellion against any element of my lifestyle.

      Are you ever in torn /worn / grubby /second hand sub clothing

      Yes, Mistress sometimes does what she terms ‘Sub-human slave.‘ A sub-human slave day is detailed in Volume 5 of Mistress’s journals.

      Why bother begging for anything when you know it only adds to her pleasure with no prospect of release

      I can’t help it.

      Have you been photographed/filmed

      Photographed yes, filmed no.

      Sensory deprivation /urine drinking is somewhat passive. Does Mistress ever suspend you for a whipping /stretch your balls and nipples/use you as a pony ?

      Suspend for a whipping from the beam in the sitting room – yes

      Rather a lot of questions Im afraid. Probably envy

  21. urMaster says:

    I would like to dominate Scarlet and her Sisters. Someone has to teach them how important men are. Can’t wait

  22. So my wife has found a inter-dental brush that she fits inside of my clitty while wearing my chastity cage. Have you ever done house work with the nettles or the inter- dental brush? http://www.viewpoints.com/DenTek-Easy-Angle-Floss-Picks-reviews

  23. fluffy says:

    are you looking forward to the long w/e?

    respect fluffy

    • Absolutely. No vanilla appointments at all, so three days of serious use and abuse of bb, and countless huge orgasms for me. Yesterday (Saturday) 5 massive orgasms for me. bb, among other things, did rotary clothes line duty until it started to rain, played with his dollies, had his boys bits played with on the sofa, had a long spell of TSD bondage with Deep Heat applicator in use.

  24. realist says:

    This blog should be required reading for anyone considering entering into a non-consensual relationship. Truly there are very few people in the world who could derive any satisfaction from being under the thumb of a monster. I know it has totally changed my own desire to submit. Good luck to you in your own lack of a life.

    • ‘Lack of a life’. You are funny.

    • Cats slave says:

      I’m sure bitch boy is very content in his absolute submission. Some of us have struggled most our lives with the feeling of discontent in not being totally enslaved. We were born this way and it’s an itch that doesn’t fade until we fall into the clutches of a true Superior Woman

  25. Jack says:

    Since Mistress started harvesting your semen every time she allows you an orgasm for use in an ice cube, does that knowledge, knowing that you will be consuming your cum dampen your desire for an orgasm in any way? Or are you perfectly willing to eat what you output anytime you are permitted the opportunity to have an orgasm?

    I am sure you hate the ice cubes, but I assume in the buildup and at the moment of orgasm, being as they are so rare, you really don’t care what she does with your semen if you are allowed to cum.

    • It is actually a moment of deep submission. It makes me feel very, very controlled by a completely pitiless, cruel woman. I truly hate the taste and degradation of a semen/water mix ice chunk slowly dripping into my mouth over a long period. I really hate it. So, in the brief run-up to full orgasm, during those seconds of knowing I am going to have a full orgasm but it will result in the formation of a hated semen ice chunk; I simultaneously feel hugely aroused and elated, and, utterly helpless and controlled and mistreated.

  26. Has she tried the ice cum lollies yet that I suggested for your most favourite time of playing with your dolly ?

  27. fluffy says:

    disappointed the season for stinging nettles is coming to an end?

    • Very but, they are still around at the moment and in this weird UK late summer, new stems have grown with all the fierceness of spring pre-flowering stems. Which I am making full use of.

      • tiffanymaid says:

        Its now November and the nettles remain vigourous. Mistress Serena has had me pot up many nettles in greenhouse which peaked at 82 degrees today.

        • I am very interested to learn about the effectiveness of these post summer nettles. Last weekend I used nettles on poor bitch-boy. On interrogation of him I was told that while the stings at the time of application were as bad as ever, they only lasted about 20 minutes. Stings from early summer nettles last 4 hours, so I wonder what the situation will be with yours.

          • tiffanymaid says:

            Mistress Scarlet *curtsy*
            my experience ( inferior and limited compared to bitch-boy ) was similar. The stings at time of application were the most intense i have experienced, but similar to bitch-boys, post application lasted maybe an hour, but less intense. The nettles are transplants and not established, and as a result may give false implications.
            i shall update any further any observations.
            Sincerely… tiffany

  28. brad says:

    Dear bitch-boy,

    My name is brad and I am submissive to the core such as yourself. I have read (and am still reading) the journals. I find them both titillating and terrifying. My cravings are not to imitate your life, yet I am consumed with thoughts of emulating the level of subjugation yourself and Mistress Scarlet experience.

    My dearly loved has decided to adopt the lifestyle but She reads very infrequently. Is it appropriate to read the journals aloud to a budding female dominant, or would this be viewed as trying to coerce the direction?

    Hoping Mistress permits your response.

    brad

    • This depends on a number of things. First, what does it mean that your ‘dearly loved has decided to adopt the lifestyle’? does that mean wishes to go all guns blazing, or, wishes to try a few tentative steps? Also, some women are quite un-shockable and can be intrigued or amused – hearing of the most extreme activities and domination lifestyles. Others would be put off forever hearing such things and need to be gradually introduced to the activities and lifestyle – gradually evolving. Having said that, access to the imaginations of Mistresses like Mistress Scarlet together with others on the web, will expose far more ideas to try than any single person’s imagination can do, which can bring real pleasure to a new Mistress.

  29. roger says:

    Why do you think your mistress has decided to put so little attention into using your ass?

    • I guess it just is not something she is into. I think I can understand why. It is less humiliating than the humiliations I suffer and less physically painful than the physical torments and punishments I suffer.

  30. fluffy says:

    HI BB
    just wondering if Ms Scarlet takes advantage of the FrightNight aspect of Halloween to spice things up and put even more fear of God(dess) into you or invite her sisters around for some themed games?
    respect from
    fluffy

  31. tomilina says:

    It would be for him to go”trick-or-treating” at the homes of each of you Domme Friends, and instead of a treat he would be forced to do a trick!

  32. Fluffy says:

    Clearly u spend a lot of time being sissified so I wonder what are the most ‘ manly’ things Ms Scarlet lets u do? Both as BB and when you are in the vanilla world outside and not directly serving your Queen?
    Do u ever get to have a beer with the guys? Watch the football or rugby?

    Respect from
    Fluffy

    • I cannot think of anything manly while sissified.

      In the vanilla world I do occasionally get to have a beer with the guys. I do get to watch rugby, football and cricket from time to time, although not often. I rarely get to see football live as the time of day and day of the week usually clashes with when Mistress Scarlet requires I am her maid or plaything. I am sometimes allowed to record the live match and then watch it after Mistress Scarlet has gone to bed.

      • Fluffy says:

        I wonder how years of being BB has effected you with other men in the vanilla world?

        For example when meeting other men does your voice go to a higher pitch as u recognise them as more alpha than you?

        Are u pee shy? Do u find yourself intimidated alongside other men at a urinal and find you can’t urinate how ever much u need to until they are gone?

        • I am surprised at the question. You have not read much of what Mistress Scarlet has written about me in the vanilla world. I feel absolutely no submissiveness towards men at all. In the vanilla world, I am an Alpha male. (Although always courteous to all women.) I am confident and assertive and relkaxed in male company and in the business world.

  33. My wife has found a couple of bathroom items that she enjoys using. One in an exfoliating glove. Either dry or with a light lubricant applied to my clit is both extremely stimulating and agonizing @ the same time. The other item is a toilet brush with the wire squeezed to where the nylon bristles are fairly close together. She allows me to use this while she watches. It is horribly painful.

  34. Well I was suggesting it for a looped toilet brush substitute. I thought Belindakins might like a potty seat. She seems to wet herself quite a bit.

  35. fluffy says:

    hello and happy new year BB

    couple of questions come to mind, excuse the pun, but it is a clue to my questions:

    can you recall when you last had full on sex? & how long ago was it?
    can you recall the last time you had a no limits wank, without any control from your betters? & how long ago was it?

    respect from
    fluffy

    • I do not know the exact date of the last time I had sexual intercourse. Once I was in chastity, Mistress Scarlet began gradually reducing the frequency of me penetrating her, the times became longer and longer apart until one day it just never happened again. Because I know which house we lived in at the time, I do know it was at least 7 years ago.

      My last wank without another person present was even longer ago, as soon as the first chastity device was introduced.

  36. fluffy says:

    Ms Scarlet seems to delight putting you in sensory deprivation a lot. However do you deal with the many hours of confinement and sensory deprivation, it must get so mind numbing?

    respect from
    fluffy

    • I do not deal with it. I hate it but I cannot get out of it. It is mind numbing as you say. It just fills me with a feeling of helplessness and vulnerability and makes me feel exactly like a toy that has been put back on the shelf until I am needed to play with again. Mistress Scarlet has made it plain, and it is obvious when I have looked at her while begging for this particular torment to be dropped, that Mistress really, really enjoys it. Mistress says it makes her feel so very powerful while Mistress is downstairs relaxing and engaged in things she enjoys, that I am upstairs, blind, deaf, immobile, vulnerable and constantly tasting piss or semen for two or three hours. It is something she really loves. Very often after, I later discover, around two hours have passed, I can sense her laying by my head and after a while the bed shudders a little and I know Mistress has bought herself to climax because she has been so turned on downstairs with her mind occasionally turning to my predicament, she has had to come upstairs to satiate her arousal. I have to say I do not deal with it. I hate it intensely.

  37. fluffy says:

    Now we are officially into Spring 2015 – are you looking forward to the return of Stinging Nettles in and around our houses and gardens? Does Ms Scarlet make you inform Ms Sarah as a reminder that a fresh season of stinging nettles is returning?
    Has any stinging nettle session you have experienced ever come close to how you suffered at the hands of Ms Sarah when she carried out her little experiment? Has Ms Sarah ever repeated this with you, to see and record whether different seasons of stinging nettles vary in strength?

    • Ms Sarah has not repeated the experiment. Mistress Scarlet undertook a similar experiment while we were away on holiday once. I have no doubt that Ms Sarah does not need reminding when the nettles have emerged.

  38. Kimmy Beyah says:

    I know you believe that this is.. normal. But you are in a great deal of trouble. Your wife by her own admission states that she has absolutely no compassion for you when you’re ill or suffering, she has completely dehumanised you. She boasts that the last shred of humanity she had is gone, you are utterly meaningless to her except as an instrument to torture.
    Whether you want to admit it or not this is pure psychopathy, the total objectifying of a victim to the point where absolutely all human pain, emotion, suffering and torment of the victim is meaningless to the abuser. This will end badly for you, she will kill you or render you so damaged or injured and she won’t care and you can justify it, intellectualise it however you want, you are in a deeply dangerous situation, for your own sake and safety you should speak to the police, but you won’t, you are a victim. So good luck, you are seriously going to need it my friend. I don’t look forward to reading about your death and the charging of your wife with murder, but it’s heading there, make no mistake.

    • I wonder if you have developed these fantasies about my life for your own exotic tastes. You make statements for which there is no evidence in support, and you also ignore evidence on the blog which rubbishes your statements.

      I do not believe my lifestyle is normal. I am not dehumanised, I run a very successful business which I doubt I could do were I dehumanised. My Mistress is full of humanity. Caring, among hundreds of compassionate topics, about starving and abused children, oppressed people (particularly women) around the world, cruelty to animals and political and big business corruption and misleading propaganda. I am far from meaningless in my Mistress’s life as my Mistress has stated, I am the source of the vast majority of my Mistress’s pleasure and of her support and security. So the concept of my Mistress damaging or killing me is farcical. My Mistress spends a good deal of time and effort ensuring I am physically fit and healthy. Before commenting again, try looking at the objective facts rather than inventing a fantasy scenario that you can get condescendingly earnest about.

      • James says:

        In all fairness to the previous commenter, her comments are made out of concern for you. It doesn’t take “fantasies” to become alarmed by what is said here.

        I’ve just read this entire Q&A section, and it is extremely difficult to figure out where she draws the line at what she would or would not do to you. She has also said that you do not have the ability to leave (in particular because you have no independent resources), which is really disturbing.

        When a sadist says that someone is the “source of the vast majority of [her] pleasure”, it’s a bit difficult to take that as an indication that the person — as an independent human being– is meaningful to them because there is “meaningful” as a readily available subject of torture and “meaningful” as a human being with hopes, dreams, wants and needs, the quality of whose life you actually care about.

        Deer hunters would say that deer are the source of a good deal of their pleasure, but that’s not really a good thing for the deer.

        That being said, perhaps your Mistress should consider how important it is to make sure you remain alive and intact because if anything were to happen to you, there’s enough on this blog to put her away forever.

        • Your alarmed, mawkish, patronising, hand-wringing, melodramatic, condescending, alleged ‘concern’ for me is laughable and based on your inability to look at the facts with objectivity. You have an agenda and you interpret what you read to suit your agenda. I am addicted to my Mistress. I do not wish for a life devoid of her so I have to accept life 100% on her terms to be part of her life. Perhaps you need to read more of the blog. My Mistress writes the following in her ‘Adopt the lifestyle’ section. – ‘My bitch-boy happens to be the most intelligent and courageous person I have ever met. Should we find ourselves in a dodgy part of a city at night, for instance, there is no one I would feel more secure with. If I have a tedious problem to resolve, he takes on anyone or any organisation on my behalf, with assertiveness and solutions to problems.

          I suggest if you have time to spare to help people in need, then direct that time to helping Syrian Refugees; or oppressed women in Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan; or secularists in Pakistan or Bangladesh; or homeless children in Latin America.

          • James says:

            Thank you for alleviating me of my concern for you. You obviously don’t know when someone cares about your well being.

            I read what you quoted. Somehow, a few statements of praise did not negate your Mistress’ statements like the following about how you are “trapped” In particular (3) and (4):

            “He is trapped in 4 ways. (1). After 8 years of continually increasing levels of daily subjugation by me, he has forgotten what is fair and normal and what is not. His sense of reality has shifted to where I do not think he can imagine a life free of his endurances, so he does not even consider escaping them. (2). He has a submissive soul and although that was the genisis of a few bedroom games and has now gone way past what he fantisised about, I am not sure he could contemplate a life without being able to submit to a truly dominant women like myself. (3). All things material (house, cars, etc) are owned by me. What can he do in practical terms. (4). I am sure he would fear me explaining to family and friends why he ran away.”

            I’ll stop reading the blog and wait for the [snuff] film.

            • By this blog, my Mistress is attempting to educate the spouses of true submissives so that a symbiotic, deeply content (although paradoxical) relationship can be created for both parties. My Mistress’s knowledge has been gathered from the submissives she has known and hundreds of comments from submissives on this blog.

              What is despicable about your comments is that you justify your belief about me possibly having no escape with a little evidence in support – and then make a jump, for which you have zero evidence, that I could or should be suicidal, or that if I were to die my Mistress would be considered a murderer, or that my Mistress will kill me in a snuff film. (You seem obsessed with me dying!) It is this jump which is despicable and exposes your prejudices and has the potential to be damaging. You should be ashamed of yourself.

              I quote you below:

              That being said, perhaps your Mistress should consider how important it is to make sure you remain alive and intact because if anything were to happen to you, there’s enough on this blog to put her away forever.

              In that circumstance, there would be only one way out. How he keeps from taking it, is beyond me.

              I’ll stop reading the blog and wait for the [snuff] film.

              • James says:

                In the excerpt I quoted, Your mistress said you can’t even judge what’s normal and fair anymore (“After 8 years of continually increasing levels of daily subjugation by me, he has forgotten what is fair and normal and what is not”), so this discussion can’t really go anywhere. My statement about how the blog would be judged if something happened to you is based on how it would be perceived by people who are “prejudiced” like I am. The cruelty comes out way more than anything else when you read the blog.

                Given her description of the effects of her treatment of you, the fact that you would lash out with hostility is not too surprising.

                I certainly hope you survive and thrive and that you are there because you want to be, not because you are trapped, notwithstanding your hostility towards me.

                • In your last comment you said you would stop reading the blog?

                  I have been hostile because of your behaviour, not because of the behaviour of my Mistress. I made clear the reason for my hostility in my last comment.

                  By this blog, my Mistress is attempting to educate the spouses of true submissives so that a symbiotic, deeply content (although paradoxical) relationship can be created for both parties. My Mistress’s knowledge has been gathered from the submissives she has known and hundreds of comments from submissives on this blog. Intelligent readers of this blog quickly pick up on the positive contribution for submissives. If you read the exchanges recorded and stored under the advice tab, you will find couples who have been helped a great deal by this blog and by my Mistress.

                  Your comments about snuff movies and me being suicidal, coming solely from your prejudiced mind, supported by no evidence, despite plenty of evidence to the contrary, are destructive and could not be more unhelpful. I am sure you felt very superior and big as you typed though, despite revealing the substantial shortfall in your analysis of what you have read here. I am not lashing out. I am hostile to you though. I have explained why. I suggest you do as you said you would and stop reading this blog.

                  • James says:

                    Well, you’ve made it so fun to keep the dialogue going.

                    I do not feel superior or big compared to you and did not feel anything like that typing this. Not for a minute. It’s exactly the opposite. My comments that provoked your hostility were based on my projecting how I would react to your experiences because I couldn’t handle them. That’s obviously not at all how you react to them.

                    You are incredibly tough. I couldn’t handle 0.1 percent of what you handle for a second. When your mistress says she feels safe with you in a bad part of town, I absolutely believe that 100%. If I could handle what you handle, I’d be fearless in that kind of situation.

                    • Well although you could not help yourself but be condescending in your first sentence, the change of tone in the rest of the comment is welcomed and it takes a big person to change tone. Respect to you. My addiction is more relevant than my toughness.

  39. Maid Lacey says:

    Dear BB, Thanks so much to Ms. Scarlet and you for this blog. A sissy friend told me about it, and I think it is wonderful. I am a sissy, admittedly past my prime and no longer in service. I am impressed by the many creative disciplines you are subjected to. I particularly like hand sewing because I have experienced it myself and found it very controlling and humbling. Have you done cross-stitch embroidery? It is not difficult to learn, and when you do, you can make letters and therefore little signs, including name tags. I think it would be wonderful if you had a name tag that you stitched yourself. Also, when I was a maid, I had a behavior chart consisting of buttons that I was required to sew onto it — pink for good behavior, black for bad. I had to wear the behavior chart on the front of my apron bib. Here is a pic of my behavior chart, from my flickr page: https://www.flickr.com/photos/30405993@N03/4129491407/ And here is one of me wearing a “name tag” of sorts: https://www.flickr.com/photos/30405993@N03/3899345622/ You can see many other pics on my flickr page of me modeling outfits that include my cross-stitching, including baby outfits. If you are unable to access flickr, I could send you a few such pix. Last, I think “colouring in” is a lovely sissy activity. I would love to see photos of your completed work. I am sure all these activities help to make you a better sissy. Thank you again so much for the wonderful blog. Curtseys, Maid Lacey (aka P.J. Prettybutton)

  40. Steve says:

    Dear BitchBoi,

    This may sound unusual but I really envy your situation and I truly wish to commence such a situation in my relationship with my wife. She is a strong independent woman who I believe truly enjoys ordering me to her commands but I am too weak and spineless to know how or what is the best way to make my feelings known to her. Any advice that Ms Scarlett or yourself can offer I would be truly and forever grateful.

    Steve

  41. Steve says:

    Dear Ms Scarlet (curtsies),

    Many thanks for taking the time to respond to my post, I am honoured you took the time to address my query. Your post of the 28th May was very insightful, informative and enlightening. I will start with tidy and replenish. In your experience is it better to replenish all food items or focus on her favourite treats. Will I need to tell her I am doing that or shall I do it off my own back without telling her so she can see how useful and subservient I can be without being asked?

    Many thanks again,

    Steve

    • I think you are asking questions that I am ill qualified to answer as I do not know your wife, or your current relationship well enough. So I will have a go, but you may know better than I.
      I think you should tell her with words along the lines of:
      ‘I have been thinking how much I adore you and frankly feel privileged to be your husband. So I have been thinking of ways I might make your life easier and more pleasurable. So I can do more to deserve being your husband. I have decided from now on I would like to tidy up after you. Which means you can leave the sitting room, kitchen, bedroom or bathroom in a real mess when you have finished in a that room and I will make sure it is tidied up before you next use the room. Also I will be making sure all your treats and other things are replenished so whatever you want is always available, like .[examples]……’ I hope this will make your life easier and more pleasurable and please make sure to tell me if I fall short with these things at any time. Is this OK?’

      Obviously use your own words.

      • Steve says:

        Dear Ms Scarlet (curtsies),

        Once again many thanks for taking your valuable time to assist me, I will definitely try the approach you have suggested. Bitch boi is very very lucky to have you indeed.

        Steve

  42. goutham22 says:

    Hello bb,
    I was a sub for over 2 years to a mistress via Internet though.so obviously I involved in self punishment which includes ballbusting, tying up of balls for an hour,belting balls,gagging.All these were of my intensions.now I got out of it but when I smoke the next day I get dry and my sugar level goes down. How do yu think it relates to my sexual activities.I smoked up only 1 cigarette.

  43. fluffy says:

    hello BB – i have read in the past that MsScarlet likes to have small roll on in her bag when she is out about, so that she can easily apply it to your appendage but at times it has been unavailable

    well something for you to let her know, I’ve seen this in Boots, you will be pleased to know:

    http://www.boots.com/en/Deep-Heat-Muscle-Massage-roll-on-lotion-50-ml_1727294/

    is this the one MsScarlet already uses?

  44. cynetta says:

    How much of the time during a week do you spend dress en femme?
    Are you wearing makeup at those times

    How often are you in TSD and for how much time each week?

    Other than your outdoor exercise, do you ever go out in public en femme?

    • I never go out in public en femme. Mistress does not want any trouble with neighbours or the law.

      I am made to wear little girl or maid’s outfits whenever it suits my Mistress. When we are at home on a weekend, I have to the whole time. Some evenings too when my Mistress does not get home from work late. The Christmas break, and holidays abroad in rented cottages – it is every day, all day.

      I am in TSD for around 2 hours each weekend day at home when it is just the two of us. If Mistress’s girlfriend is over for the weekend, then I am in TSD on Saturday for 5 to 6 hours. It is terrible. And Sunday for 3 to 4 hours. And when the TSD is over it just means I will then be used and abused and humiliated for hours and hours more by both of them. But they are very beautiful and I Know I am very privileged to be in their presence.

  45. fluffy says:

    Did you like your Xmas presents and were you suitably grateful to Ms Scarlet for such dedicated thoughts in her gifting? Did you give anything in return to your Mistress and her girlfriend?

    respect from fluffy

    • Among other things Mistress Scarlet bought me the most humiliating dress it is possible to wear, with a matching, huge ribbon bow to be worn on the head. She paraded me in front of Governess Lexi in the outfit and commented that it would be impossible to design anything more humiliating for me. Mistress Scarlet is absolutely right about that. I bought Mistress Scarlet some very expensive items including jewellery. I would not presume to buy a present for Governess Lexi. Mistress Scarlet and Governess Lexi bought each other expensive personal gifts.

  46. fluffy says:

    do you still have to practice your nursery rhymes and performing routines, such as for I’m a little teapot?

    • Every time Governess Lexi visits, which is often, I have to perform nursery rhymes with actions in front of both Mistresses. They have taken to telling me to keep repeating again and again while they kiss, or even give each other orgasms.

  47. fluffy says:

    Now it’s Spring / BST are you looking forward to your first nettling of 2016? or has it already happened? Is it the sort of thing Ms Sarah will have on her calendar? Time for her to do another one of her imperial experiments? Nettles vs. Deep Heat vs. Interdental Brushes?

  48. jealous and scared says:

    Just curious if Ms Scarlet was aware of the effects of water on the Deep Heat cream? I’ve heard it should re-awaken the cream and make it even more intense. Has that ever been tried on you?

  49. slave N says:

    All inferior males should be kept in long term chastidy, only allowed release kneeling before two or more Superior Women, kissing thier shoes and verbally acknowledging the Total Superiority of Women. slave N

  50. makqua says:

    Just wondering BB, what are your sleeping arrangements? Do you sleep in your own room? Do you have a bed? Do you sleep on the floor?

    • I am sometimes made to sleep on the floor.
      When Msitress’s girlfriend lover is over I am sent to the guest bedroom. I often sleep with my Mistress. Mistress likes the warmth of my body and how it teases me to lay next to her naked perfect body while I am always so sexually frustrated. I have to get up without waking her and bring her tea at the exact time she has specified.

  51. scherzo says:

    Do you feel less enthusiastic about your slavehood right after being permitted to release because of the release of your sexual tension at that moment? And if so, how do you work past that and typically how long does it take to once again embrace your role?

    • It is a good question, and quite difficult to explain my answer. I am always, without exception, in extreme bondage when Mistress allows me an orgasm. And it always immediately follows a session od dickie-discipline. Sometimes I am immediately released and told to prepare a meal or do tidying or another chore. When this happens, because I know my Mistress knows I am feeling my least submissive, but she treats me harshly anyway, I feel submissive to her immediately because I know she knows she is being so hard expecting complete submissiveness when I am at my least submissive. That makes me submissive.

      Sometimes Mistress leaves me alone in the bondage for about ten minutes.

      Because the shortest period between orgasms for me is a week and it is routinely between ten days and three weeks, one orgasm is not actually enough to leave me feeling completely free of sexual tension. That takes two orgasms within the same half a day, and that now never ever happens. So the sexual tension comes back after about ten minutes anyway. I hope I have explained it.

  52. fluffy says:

    How’s the 2016 crop of stinging nettles? More potent than last year or the same?
    Bountiful enough for weekly sessions or more for Ms Scarlet to amuse herself with?

    • Extremely stinging, (because they have not yet flowered). Agonising. And Governess Lexi insists on using the nettle pouch during every single visit. And once the pouch is pulled on she squeezes all around the pouch. It is pure agony.

      • fluffy says:

        So who is more scary Governess Lexi or Ms Sarah when it comes to the nettles?

        • It is equal. Neither has even the smallest bit of pity for my pain and anguish. They are both sadists and do what they want to do with the nettles – utterly regardless of my anguish or my begging or whimpering or tears. They are calm and happy as they torture.

  53. fluffy says:

    has MS Scarlet ever tried something like this with when you sojourn to Europe on your secluded summer holidays?

    respect from
    fluffy

    • Not with biting ants, But I did have him colouring-in with a dolly on a blanket most days in one location where large ants would frequently be roaming across and he would have to repeatedly brush them from his thigh or the page of the book. An added irritant to his humiliating tedium.

  54. fluffy says:

    How has this season’s stinging nettles treated you?
    Is Ms Scarlet happy with the crop?
    There have not been many nettle updates, so just wondering if you have got off lightly this year or Ms Scarlet has grown bored of them?
    If they have been lackluster in 2016 perhaps your Mistress or even the divine Ms Sarah would be interesting in conducting one of her empirical studies with you based on this article:

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2148089/The-10-painful-stings-planet-self-sacrificing-man-tried-150-different-varieties-science.html

    • On average through the summer I have suffered the nettles about once every 10 days. It has become a routine for my Mistress and Governess Lexi. I am not sure they think it worthy of comment any more, it has become so routine to them. Governess Lexi really likes using a pouch and once it has been pulled over my hard penis, Governess Lexi squeezes all around the pouch moving her hands up and down. It is agony. The nettles are a big part of this summer.
      It is clear nettles before they have begun to flower sting worse and the stings last much longer.

  55. fluffy says:

    sorry – wrong link (though interesting) this is the one I meant in my last post:

    http://phenomena.nationalgeographic.com/2014/04/03/the-worst-places-to-get-stung-by-a-bee-nostril-lip-penis/

  56. Derek says:

    Hi
    I am going to be visiting the UK early next year, and having read so much of Bitch Boy’s travails, I would really like to take the opportunity to experience a nasty nurse session, but especially the use of stinging nettles, which we do not have in my country. I was wondering therefore if you might be able to recommend the services of a professional mistress who offers this service?

  57. Derek says:

    Thank you

  58. Male Pet says:

    You started out like every man with kinky sexual fantasies. Yet when they try to introduce it with their partner, many times it fails to bring their dominance out. You have experienced the transformation of your wife into an uncompromising Mistress. You have suffered at the hands of many sadistic women. You have experienced first hand what thrills women about taking the dominant role. What don’t the kinky sub men understand about the appeal of dominance for women? What should they do differently if they really do want to bring out that side of her?

    • Mistress Scarlet has set this out in the draft of her manual. There is a short chapter on what submissives should do to coax their partner into being dominant. A chapter for potential dominants explaining the benefits and the transition steps.

      And for completeness I should add there is a chapter for committed dominants wanting to optimise and also a huge chapter, partially written, on techniques, methods, ideas, etc. Having read the first two chapters I mention above, nothing I could write in a short response to a comment would be adequate.

      • Male Pet says:

        I look forward to what Miss Scarlett has to say in her manual. However, I am interested in your opinion. You know the dreams of the submissive male. You have gone through the reality of those dreams being implemented in ways you never imagined. Let me rephrase my question: what have you learned about the nature of women from your experiences?

        • I have only learned about the nature of the women I have been in contact with. Obviously, all women are different. I have learned that they can be 100% merciless. I have learned that, if bisexual or heterosexual, they can get very sexually aroused by inflicting physical and or mental suffering and from wielding absolute power. I have learned that, if lesbian, they can still get huge pleasure, with no sexual arousal, from inflicting physical and or mental suffering and from wielding absolute power . I have learned they really enjoy ganging up, in groups or a pair on one helpless male. I have learned they do not feel guilty.

  59. Male Pet says:

    Thank you for your candor. BB, I have to admit I think of you from time to time. I am living my daily life and then I reflect of what ordeals you might be suffering at the moment. It puts my submissive fantasies in very real context. You have made the ultimate sacrifice to the pleasure of your Mistress. You endure for Her, day to day. I temper my fantasies by the reality that is imposed on you. You are very brave for following your Mistress so far out onto the edge. I am sure there are other subs that envy you, but realize they have no capacity to endure like you. We cannot lighten your load, but please realize that your sacrifices are not in vain. We see your endurance, and are in awe of it.

    • You offer me praise that I am not due. I have not made an ultimate sacrifice, that suggests a decision of free will. I am not brave, that suggests decisions of free will. I endure and sacrifice because I have no realistic alternative. I am addicted to, and subjugated to, Mistress Scarlet’s beautiful mind and beautiful body and I either endure or I have no more contact with her and all that entails. No chosen sacrifice or bravery, simply caught in a trap of my own making.

  60. Miguel says:

    Mistress Scarlet

    Love your blogue, is amazing and all days i read all of you write and I dream to serv you

    There is any chance to be your slave? i have no limits…

    At your feet

    • No chance. No vacancies.

      I suggest you work hard at perfecting skills like cooking, housework, laundry, ironing, massage, pedicures, cunnilingus, yard work, gardening. That you earn good money, and are physically fit – that you are not obese. Then seek a mistress by sensitive wooing. In all things, be tolerant, be unselfish, be patient. Act with kindness, maturity and wisdom.

      If you are dating a likely candidate, serve her, for instance – start by opening all doors for her, waiting on her hand and foot, doing chores for her, giving her lots of orgasms while you have none. Buy her flowers and gifts for no reason. (Do not buy chocolates or candy if she is trying to lose weight – that is lazy and insensitive). Keep all this up until she would miss such devotion were it to stop, then gently introduce the subject in tiny increments.

      If you are not dating, then I suggest BDSM contact sites, but it seems there about 100 submissive men for each dominant woman – so you are in a competition – you have to deserve a Domme to get one by how you act, not by what you think! You may perfect all the skills I mention and still not be lucky. Good luck and best wishes.

  61. Louis-Philippe. says:

    Hi, I’m a real obssessed foot fetishist and(I’m sorry in advance for my average english, this isn’t my first language.) since I follow your Tumbler I’m VERY thrilled to know if bitch-boy could have this privilege to be your foot slave(and your friends, sisters and girlfriend), I don’t read anything about it except for your shoes. Could he smell, lick or touch your barefeet? Dirty or not?

    Thanks id advence for the answer and please never stop to be cruel and sadistic to your slave, congratulations for your girlfriend!🙂

    • On special occasions he gets to kiss the very soft top surface of superior womens’ feet when the foot is in a shoe, or the toes sometimes when the foot is in open toed sandals. That is the only contact he gets with the skin of feet. It is good for his subjugation, reinforcing his lowly status, that he usually only gets to kiss the leather surfaces of the footwear, especially licking the soles clean.

      I am sure he gets the smell while kissing the work shoes I am wearing each morning before I go to work.

  62. fluffy says:

    are you fretting about any last hurrah of this season’s stinging nettles before they die down for the winter?

    • They are being used on every opportunity and Mistress now has a shaped leather ‘sheet’ with a hole in which fits over my stomach between my thighs and my cock pokes through the hole. It is then whipped with nettles and my thighs and stomach are safe meaning all the pain is focussed on my cock.

  63. Riley says:

    Forgive me for using a reply for this purpose, but I’ve found no other way to get in touch on the site. I’m a regular reader and have found Mistress Scarlet’s writings interesting. In fact, they inspired me to write of some of my own experiences. My question is this: would she be interested in a pre-pub copy of the book I’ve written? I’m seeking reviewers and would appreciate her comments and/or mention in the blog if she finds it worthwhile.

  64. Slave says:

    Have you ever been punished for something that you did not do wrong? Or suffered as a result of Ms Scarlet’s mistake/forgetfullness?

    • Yes I have been punished in that way. I also often receive a deterrent punishment at the beginning of a domination day just so I know how a punishment will feel if I do disobey at any time during the day. And my Mistress’s girlfriend often punishes me, as she says, ‘Just because I can’.

  65. maid jessica says:

    Have you ever had to dress as a maid and been taken to your mother in law’s home where you had to serve her.

    • No, for practical reasons. Mistress Scarlet would not hesitate however, to leave me at any superior woman’s house, or the house of a ‘man hating’ lesbian couple, to do housework, (likely dressed as a sissy maid), if any such women were local and contacted her on this.

  66. fluffy says:

    have you ever been put outside for the whole day or a night in the summer?

  67. Mistress Mala Rara says:

    bitch-boy, My understanding is that your 10th anniversary of new-born virgin status is coming somewhere this month. 2 questions:
    1. How is your Mistress planning to celebrate it vs. your expectations/dreams?
    2. How do you feel as a “virgin”? Do you think that not being an actual virgin makes your situation more frustrating since you’ve experienced the warmth of your Mistress’ pussy and you know how wonderful it feels? Or do you think that if you would have never experience penetrative sex at all you would feel more desperate to try it?

    My personal slave is actually a virgin, he never had an opportunity to stick his little clit into a woman’s vagina and will never, ever have this opportunity as long as he deserves to be My slave. Definitely I can see lot’s of signs of his desperation coming from huge urge to penetrate (since he is still quite young) and curiosity of trying sex for the first time in his life. My personal belief is that this state is the pick of male’s frustration. Please tell Me what are your thoughts on this.

    With all the respect to your incredible Mistress,
    Mistress MalaRara

    • Mistress has not mentioned it and I doubt it will be celebrated because Mistress considers such a given A simple matter of fact. And the actual date of my last fuck is unknown.

      I think both my condition and your salve’s condition are equally terrible. I do know how wonderful it feels, and miss it so very much. It is the top thing I would change if I could change one thing. I would continue with all the terrible humiliations and the tedium torments physical torments, if I could be allowed to feel penetration just very now and then. Mistress will not even allow once a year.

      Your slave no doubt imagines how it would feel and his imagination would create a feeling beyond sublime, so he believes he is missing out on some sublime feeling, that he may even be imagining is better than it is, although it is tough to imagine that.

      • Mistress Mala Rara says:

        “Mistress will not even allow once a year.”
        Very good. Why would you even think that you would deserve such a privilege?
        A lot of Mistresses don’t agree with Me on this particular matter but I personally strongly believe that slave’s clitty should never even approach Mistress’s superior vagina. Otherwise you end up with the conflicts of statuses.

        your last sentence is extremely puzzling. It sounds like you believe that it’s possible to imagine a feeling better than the actual feeling of penetrating a pussy. I thought that the penetration of a vagina is the maximum for a male?

        BTW. does your Mistress gives you liberty to just hop in on Her website and write answers in this sections whenever you’ll spot a new question? Or rather your Mistress reads all the questions and then orders you to write a response?

        • Yes in my last sentence I was suggesting it may be possible, if you have never experienced penetrating a pussy, to imagine it feeling better than the actual feeling does. With respect, I was considering that one cannot know how good something feels if one has never experienced it.

          My Mistress expects me to monitor for questions on the blog asked directly of me, and to answer them without recourse to my Mistress. From time to time, my Mistress does check that I have been scrupulously honest in my answers.

  68. fluffy says:

    missing the stinging nettles?

  69. I have read a lot about your day to day torture and punishment. However I can’t recall seeing anything about you being punished for any particular infraction. You seem to be a most well behaved and obedient submissive, so I am curious. Are you punished just because Ms Scarlet wants you to be, or are there things you have done that warrant punishment above and beyond the day-to-day? Thanks in advance.

    • I am punished for infractions. Punishments are harsh and I try hard to avoid them. I am confused as to what you mean by beyond the day-to-day? Can you explain?

      • What specifically do you do wrong that deserves punishment? I don’t see any disobedience or mistakes, so I was curious what you did that got you punished above and beyond your normal torture sessions. I hope that makes sense.

        • I get punished if I forget to replenish something, if I forget to curtsey to both Governess Lexi and Mistress Scarlet on entering or leaving a room they are in. I get caned for each crease in the ironing I have to do, or if I fail to use both hands when passing something to or picking up from the hand of my Mistress or Governess Lexi. I get caned if I go over a line when doing the hours of colouring-in I have to do. The list is endless.

          • Thank you so much for the reply. I love that your Mistress shares your life with the rest of us. Very interesting reading. I’d love to try your lifestyle sometime, but don’t think I could do it for a very long time. I’m envious.

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