We learned from the previous post regarding Miss Anne that her slave is cuckolded and in a severe chastity regime, that she puts him to work during his holidays from his usual job, she often has her mom over staying at their house, they both dominate Miss Anne’s slave and he is put to extremely arduous chore work and other tedium activities too.
More from Miss Anne
At first let me say I have been a bit hesitant to put comments on this wonderful blog more often because English is not my native language and I am not sure of my ability to share with you my thoughts. If you have trouble understanding what I am writing please let me know.
In my opinion the legendary Ms Scarlet has built a wonderful blog which has helped me a lot to invade deeper into my slave’s submissive mind and I got some wonderful creative and useful ideas to extended further his training and humiliation.
Ms Scarlet also knows some more things about me and my history in my female domination world and I am ready to share with you all a brief introduction so you understand the background behind my nowadays dominant personality and behaviour towards my poor but LUCKY slave.
I am not a model, I am just an ordinary woman 1.66cm height, 62kg weight, long brown hair, light blue eyes, go to gym 3-4 times weekly and I usually dress casual but I can be also elegant and classy on occassions. I have got a good job after many years of studying, got a PhD and my job has to do with human mind and their actions.
Although I live in a beautiful and wonderful country it is unfortunately still very conservative and still a male dominated society. I have seen and experienced a great deal of male aggression and control towards weak and defenceless women in my job. But trust me, that is not relevant to my dominant personality and treatment of my slave. It is not a revenge in the name of abused women. A dominant woman is cleverer than average majority and simply to seek revenge is too shallow an action for us.
I met my slave 10 and a half years ago and we were in love at first. Everything was incredibly good except one very important and basic thing for a vanilla relationship; sex. he wasn’t able even to got hard despite my efforts, dressing in sexy underwear etc. It led me to be desperate. I began having law self-confidence. I was anxious over my sexiness and appearance.
We split up after a short time and endless hours of me in tears, sad thoughts, and desperation. Later, when he confessed his real submissive nature, and that he was a born slave from his childhood, I learned the truth. He was really a virgin male. It was not me and my sexiness, but his ideas and beliefs of female superiority behind the fact he was not able even to get hard and have sex with me while we were in a vanilla relationship. This was the turning point in my whole point of view of life.
I have very few close friends who are aware about the true nature of our relationship that led to marriage a few months ago. (Only Ms Scarlet knows my real reason why I took this step and got married to him and I will not share it with anyone else). But this blog gives me the chance to hear comments and opinions from other folks, Dommes and subs, and from their experiences I can correct or change or add ideas for my marriage.
Of course it is a cuckold marriage as he remains a virgin. I must say that he, as my slave, has the desire to try and make love with me as he says he can get hard when submitting to me, but I choose to put him in a strict, stainless steel chastity device that prevents even the slightest erection. It just fits to the size of his birth defect, short and tight.
So you now know the background in my current relationship with him and you are more familiar now.
I will provide more about my relentless tedium tortures for him and why I get such a great pleasure from them. PS, Dear Ms Scarlet, you should not have any doubts, you are so right, enforced high standards in an ironing tedium torment of him is my thing, lol. I will provide more details of this.
It took me a long time and was slow progress to get used to my power over him and to learn how to boss him around. I was introduced by him into the wonderful world of female domination. The first thing I noticed was his willingness to suffer for me in any possible way.
So let’s discuss what is tedium chores, what is discipline and what is an important task. As Christine M. wrote, I don’t believe housework is a tedium chore for the slave. It is an important task to keep spotless and tidy the place we spend most of our free time and of course sleeping. So for him, to clean, cook, tidy for about 3 hours every day and from the sunshine till midnight on Saturdays is a good spending time to keep a healthy environment for us to live in.The same with him hand washing all our clothes and underwear.
Yes I know, there are laundry machines and we live in the 21st century, but the old traditional way of washing protects better the material so less money spent on buying new ones and on electricity. Besides this way, the slave can clean better the cloth and especially the hard deep stains. Mom says so and Mom knows best of course. About 8-10 hours weekly for hand washing our items is not such a long time and also helps him to be focused on a useful duty instead of being idle and this idleness let him make dirty or poisoned thoughts.
IRONING When I was a partner of him, I noticed in his house he didn’t even have an iron for the clothes. He was very spoiled by his family and his mother or sister ironed his clothes. I hate ironing and I believe most of the women here agree with my opinion, so when he became my slave, his first duty was to iron all my washed clothes. It took a few hours, it took some burned fingers, it took a look of desperation on his eyes, it took much sweat as it was a hot summer day. It took lots of discipline and lecturing, it took even a little bruised ass but the lesson was learned and successful.
The next 2.5 years was a good training trial period of his ironing skills for what would come after and the level of my demands and standards going up and up. Nowadays 10 years after his first ironing:
- 1. he is on ironing twice per week of my and Mom’s clothes
- 2. he irons weekly past 5 years the washed load of clothes of my 2 best female friends who are aware of his status, one of them is married with 2 kids.
- 3. At our homes, when he irons an item he has to kiss it afterward, fold or hang it on a hanger and with every single item to put in the closet then come back to iron the next and so on. This way the item will remain well ironed.
- 4. Of course each day and night he has to iron the clothes of the day.
In my opinion, 1&2 are just important tasks and discipline, 4 is an important task, 3 one can say it is a little tedium but I insist it helps him to remain disciplined.
WRITING LINES – One of my favorites activities from the beginning of our relationship due to my studies and I know how much help it can be for him to learned to express his spoken and written expression in a respectful manner. He must use five pen colours when he is writing punishment lines.
He has 5 different coloured pens, black, blue, red, green, gold. I choose for the slave to write punishment lines which are a multiple of 5, let’s say 15 words for a punishment line. He begins to write each word of the sentence in a different colour, and the row for the first 5 words are black, blue, red, green, gold, and fill the whole first line with these colours in that order.
The second line order must be blue, red, green, gold, black. The third line order must be red, green, gold, black, blue. So in the first 5 lines he starts the line with each of the different pen colours. Then for the sixth line the order is blue, red, green, gold, black and he must continue with this sequencing until he writes the 25th line. Then the order of colours is again like the beginning row; black, blue, red, green, gold and continue to the last line, lol.
It helps him on concentrate, focus his mind into the punishment, make him writes slowly, change anxiously the pen, and he is frightened for even one mistake as it will lead to writing the whole punishment page again.
An A4 page takes him about 60-75 minutes to be filled with the phrase of his punishment. He writes at least 3 essays of 800-3000 words every week on the various topics not strictly on femdom. He is not educated to my level and I expect my slave to make me proud of his ability, skills, and education, so writing on the various topics helps him to establish a good level of knowledge.
On the opposite, my Mom is on the lower level of education so she asks him to write some essays to “help” her to enlarge her knowledge. He also has to write at the end of the day his diary of at least half a page. The result is the same, a desperate and exhausted slave to write and write, and write.
To be honest I could not stand living such a writing relentless tedium. There are times I feel exhausted and sleepy just to watch him write endless hours and shaking his head to help him stay awake. Yes, it is half tedium but also discipline and an important task as it helps him to enlarge his horizons. I have to share with you in future comments many funny events when he is writing lines and essays, punishments and much more.
I have a plan for the next three months, beginning on 1st March, I own some helpful books about my profession and notes of my studying years and I plan he will write all of them on PC so I will save them in PDF format. I think it will take him a good amount of at least 3 hours daily to accomplish the task to the deadline.
When I am inspecting his punishment lines or read the essays, then I call him, he kneels before me and I usually let some moments pass in silence before giving my approval or making comments. I have asked him about his feelings when he is knelt at my feet and waits for my approval. He said he is always frightened at these times, he gets a dry mouth, heavy breathing, fast heartbeat, cramps in his stomach, his head burns and he is very anxious and nervous for my decision because he knows the slightest error will lead to re-writing the lines. To be honest I smiled but I was also feeling surprised.
Yes definitely yes, I get such pleasure from all the above. One huge thing I love in such a relationship is the contrast of feeling and actions, the contrast of rights and obligations, the contrast of power, authority and submission. It brings a smile on my face to know he is suffering for my whims while I have social public activities much more pleasurable and interesting than spending endless hours writing. I even get wet at times and of course, I admit in general, my libido has gone incredibly up from the moment I was involved in such a dynamic relationship.
I may get more and more sadistic tendencies and pleasure as I go deeper and deeper into this relationship. I have also noticed what the wonderful Ms Scarlet often writes, the more “bitch” and sadist I become, the more pure awe and obedience I can see in his eyes. He should not have a reason to complain about his life. I went beyond his crazy expectations as he has told me.
slave, be careful what you wish for…