Tag Archives: teasing

The DENIAL calendar

I remember reading about a woman who strictly controlled when her husband was allowed orgasms. They lived somewhere very hot; New Mexico or Arizona I think.  The method of controlling WHEN an orgasm was allowed was unusual and delightful. The method … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | 7 Comments

This or that? This then that!

Something I read years ago in one of the good old Madame magazines, was perhaps the best example of the hottest Domme sub dynamic I know of. The ‘rock and a hard place’ choice. A girlfriend had her boyfriend in long … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 9 Comments

How long for orgasm denial?

I received a comment on my last blog post along the lines of how I normally allow an orgasm for bitch-boy in the region of once every three weeks and, if I  ‘….ever decide to change it up a little … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , | 7 Comments

Heroes for Nicola and me!

Well many followers had a go at helping me and a few really did help. I thank those who tried a bit, although not even correctly identifying the easy to use braided collar style I was after. I thank those … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Nettle bandage leaf

Well while with vanilla friends in the middle of the deepest countryside I noticed the biggest stinging nettles leaves I have ever seen. Huge!  They were as large as my hand. It was a wetland area so I don’t know … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , | 4 Comments

That word, ‘Nope!’

I guess because I love words I wanted to post again, after thinking about the two recent posts, on the difference between, ‘no’ and ‘nope’. Excuse my self indulgence. I have been thinking there is quite a difference in meaning between the two … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

Sadism and power-rush pleasure is natural!

I read a science article recently on Big Think about childhood bullying. Most of it was irrelevant to my blog but one statistic caught my eye. Of the 3,600 people studied, 1,257 admitted as children to have systematically bullied one or more … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 11 Comments