An update: Mistress Serena and cuckold-maid Tiffany

From time to time I post updates I receive via Fetlife from cuckold-Tiffany-maid. It has been a while since the last one. Below are the latest mini-updates I have received. (I adore the attitude and behaviours of Mistress Serena!)

Further…. Ms Scarlet, just to add a little more to the previous comment. We purchased the Head Cage & Mitts a fortnight ago. Alas, i was in hospital last week for a ablation (heart procedure), which was extremely painful. As a result Serena and i have yet to fully experience the aforementioned cage/mitts to a great degree. ( When i spent an hour in them, hands were rendered helpless, and the head cage was a “tsd” experience (with an added blindfold) . The access to the items and immediate effect being an attraction.
The Holy Trainer is being worn 50% of my time ( i am always in chastity 365, 24/7) It is extremely restrictive and i am not sure yet if it is suitable for full time use.
Since Serena took up a new post (work) She has no time to do much housework etc. i have reduced my own workload to about 50% so i now do almost all the housework. (Dressed accordingly when able)
Nettles… used as always. We have a crop in the greenhouse, and more spread in corners and behind shrubs. All methods of application are used.
Cuckolding… Mistress continues to see Her long term lover. Spending every other weekend with him. i do not serve him in any manner, but am on friendly, talking terms with him, he obviously knows my status to Mistress Serena.
So… Mistress Scarlet… due to the procedure of the past week, my activities are hugely reduced till after easter. Once we get back to a decent routine i shall report accordingly.
( I shall post a pic on Fetlife of the Cage/mitts, and in a few weeks put one up of my wearing it)
Respectful admiration as always
tiffany

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An April Fool… Mistress Scarlet curtsy W/we trust You and bb are well and the drab weather this year hasn’t been too depressing.
April 1st is one of my relief/release days, Serena specifies a 12 week period of chastity hence 1st Jan, Apr, July, Oct are my “special days” when i am allowed to cum.
Being a Bank Holiday, i served Serena breakfast and went about my usual tasks. There was an unspoken atmosphere as i dare not mention the day, or my expectation.
Sure enough after breakfast Serena granted me the treat i had been waiting three months for. i need not have bothered…
Serena and i convened in the “Punishment Room”… my CB-X mini was removed as Serena orally teased me (the cage is 1.1”) . She then presented me with my blow up sheep. “You have three minutes” was all She said. i dislike the blow up sheep especially without lube. Inevitably, i wasn’t even able to arouse and remained in my usual state of being tiny, flaccid and useless.
Serena gave me a look of despair as the minutes ticked by, and sure enough within five minutes of releasing the chastity, it was back in place, locked for another 12 weeks.

with all my respect….. tiffany

Response from Mistress Scarlet

I do adore Mistress Serena. I wish to use your communication as a blog post. I would theretofore like some clarifications.
Orally teased you, actually means verbally, rather than her lips to your defect?
Was her look of despair, more accurately, a look of disdainful, mocking contempt?

Ms Scarlet curtsy … i was delighted to hear from You, as Serena & i have had quite a miserable time over the past 24+ months with work and health. Irrespectively, W/we have managed to maintain our F/l, D/s relationship, albeit on a lower level. Keeping in touch with You and updating You was always a pleasure.
RE. April 1st. Orally teased did indeed refer to Her addressing me in derogatory terms (understandable under the circumstances ).
Again, You correctly appreciated the phrase “despair”. It was precisely one of disdain and perhaps contempt on seeing Her “husband” fail so miserably.
Trust this is suitable confirmation, and of course please feel free to edit and post.
Hopefully, it is O/our intent to get back to a more intense and daily pattern, where and when relevant i shall post You accordingly.
Yours, as always and ever, respectfully… tiffany

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Ms Scarlet curtsy
As a postscript to my recent communication, i thought this would please and amuse You, albeit a tad repetitive.
Only a few days after my failed relief, i was released from my cb-x cage, alas Mistress Serena decided “clitty discipline” was required.
Hugely influenced by Your good self, i was hooded and funnel gagged, otherwise naked.
Strapped to the bed, Serena poured Her piss from a jug in measured amounts throughout the next two hours. Hot water & exfoliating scrub gloves, toothbrushes, brushes, plastic rulers where used to punish my exposed clitty.
This lasted 15 minutes. Next Serena placed the nettle apron over my waist, and very fresh, young nettles stroked/whipped my clit for 15 minutes (agony). Then, Serena place my now swollen clit in my nettle pouch for 30 minutes.
Despite my now very swollen and burning clit, “Lady Linnex” was applied and i suffered for a further period before release.
Very subdued, the CB-X was relocked in place, before i set about tidying and clearing up.
In truth, it was genuinely, one of the worst “clitty discipline” sessions i have experienced.
We attended a concert that night, and my clit was still stinging way past midnight.
Yet…. i slept soundly that night.
Ms Scarlet…90% of this activity is influenced by You. We both respect and thank You very much.
Yours in all honestly, respect and admiration
tiffany

Ms Scarlet curtsy
As a postscript to my recent communication, i thought this would please and amuse You, albeit a tad repetitive.
Only a few days after my failed relief, i was released from my cb-x cage, alas Mistress Serena decided “clitty discipline” was required.
Hugely influenced by Your good self, i was hooded and funnel gagged, otherwise naked.
Strapped to the bed, Serena poured Her piss from a jug in measured amounts throughout the next two hours. Hot water & exfoliating scrub gloves, toothbrushes, brushes, plastic rulers where used to punish my exposed clitty.
This lasted 15 minutes. Next Serena placed the nettle apron over my waist, and very fresh, young nettles stroked/whipped my clit for 15 minutes (agony). Then, Serena place my now swollen clit in my nettle pouch for 30 minutes.
Despite my now very swollen and burning clit, “Lady Linnex” was applied and i suffered for a further period before release.
Very subdued, the CB-X was relocked in place, before i set about tidying and clearing up.
In truth, it was genuinely, one of the worst “clitty discipline” sessions i have experienced.
We attended a concert that night, and my clit was still stinging way past midnight.
Yet…. i slept soundly that night.
Ms Scarlet…90% of this activity is influenced by You. We both respect and thank You very much.
Yours in all honestly, respect and admiration
tiffany

Blog etiquette and, The art of setting lines

Blog Etiquette

To all those blog followers who use a comment to ask a question about a particular blog post; please ensure you post the comment-question on the relevant blog post.

There have been a number of comments recently asking questions of Mistress Tracy about her last account, and the comment-questions are posted on the recent post of Mistress Suzanne’s latest account. This is simply discourteous to these generous Mistresses who provide the accounts and also it devalues the posts in question, as Mistress Tracy’s answers end up on the chain of comments on Mistress Suzanne’s account.

I will no longer be approving for publication, questions asked in a comment made on the wrong post. (I have to add I found Mistress Tracy’s last answer very hot indeed, so I provide it below.) The question was:

Mistress Tracy, Thank you again for continuing to update us. Moving in with your boyfriend is a huge step change for your slave. How did she react upon hearing the news that you both would move in with your boyfriend? How did the conversation go when you announced this change to your slave? I imagine considerable shock and humiliation for her and arousing pleasure for you.

Setting Lines

Many Dommes like their uxo to write lines; many many lines. Mistress Jess and Mistress Christine immediately come to mind. So below is an excerpt from a book; The Female Disciplinary Manual, published by the Wildfire Club, in the 1960s I think, and the famous lesbian dominant Miss Martindale was the author, (I think). It is a very long excerpt!

While on the face of it, it is about boarding school female pupils, it was in reality written for adult uxo female discipline, and uxo male discipline when the male is treated as a schoolgirl-of-the-past, as part of his punishment and subjugation. I enjoyed reading the excerpt, thinking of my uxo bitch dressed and treated as a 1950s schoolgirl, being one of the girls, about which the excerpt’s suggestions are aimed. Although I like my bitch to write lines on my toilet rolls, but this does not feature in the excerpt below.

The Excerpt

More from Mistress Suzanne

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One : punishment.

Two: extremeness

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More from LSK

Hello again,

To Mistrike’s comment, we certainly are taking a wide berth around exposing our child to anything other than a loving home. Part of our contract is that deeper and more formal submission begins after the child is asleep I kneel before my wife and ask her if I may serve her for the remainder of the evening. During the day she will text me anything that the child should not hear and I otherwise just display courteous and chivalrous behavior which I think a man should demonstrate for a child anyway, but there is nothing untoward or erotic about it. Just good manners.

We do both wish I could wear a chastity cage more often (as we had recently purchased a more snugly fitting one), but the risk of the child coming into contact with it while I wear it is just too high.

Last night was another experience that I know was influenced by your book, Gratifying Domination: A Guidance Manual, if not taken directly from it, because I have read a blog post here about “playing with the trinkets” or something like that and this was a very similar experience. As we were winding down for the evening and I had finished my nightly routine another part of our contract is that I have to strip naked and then thank my Miss for the privilege of serving her and ask her permission to enter our bed. She told me that I needed to go and get a shoelace which I retrieved. She then ordered me onto the bed on all fours facing away from her. She then proceeded to tie my testicles away from my penis and pull the whole package between my legs then ordered me to keep my legs closed with everything pulled back between.

As I was on all fours facing away from her I felt very vulnerable and exposed, as she was under the covers relaxing and munching on an apple (cut into 12 pieces, part of my nightly routine) and reading Miss Scarlet’s book mentioned above. As she read and snacked she would alternate between gently running a finger along my penis and using a rather concussive and hard smack to my testicles. As soon as I began to relax into the pleasure of the touching she would go back to hard smacks. There didn’t seem to be any discernible or predictable pattern as she was reading and idly tormenting me a bit.

After probably a half hour of the treatment she untied my testicles and told me that I could now lay under the covers with her. I spooned her and let out a bit of a groan as my very erect penis slid between her perfect butt cheeks as we came together in the spooning motion. I kissed her neck lightly and she told me if I was feeling pent up I could rub her neck a bit to work off the energy.

As I laid there rubbing her neck and feeling my penis throbbing and pulsing between her cheeks she told me how much she has been enjoying tormenting me and was very happy that tying me up and leaving me the other night had such an effect on me. She said she would be doing it again soon, but that she would be making it more difficult for me. She did not say how and my mind began wandering if she meant duration? Pain? Teasing? Maybe a gag? Maybe some other way in which it could be made more difficult? This is probably the first time she has identified something I truly did not enjoy (there are things I love to hate or it is kind of a secret that I do enjoy to some degree) but this is pure sadistic pleasure for her to have me suffer in that way, which feels like a massive breakthrough and has me feeling some genuine fear, which is very exciting as well as scary.

She then told me she can do whatever she wants to me and that she WILL be doing whatever she wants with me. This was driving me wild and I begged her for an orgasm and she laughed and said no. I pleaded with her a bit and she told me if I asked again I would be punished, so I stopped asking. A few minutes later she told me that my neck rubbing was sufficient and I may stop and we fell asleep.

I am still reeling from the past few days and think back on what has been happening and am just blown away by how things have taken such a turn so quickly. I’m trying to remain cautious in my optimism, but I really think that her reading has made something click for her and we will continue a deeper journey of greater suffering for me and pleasure for her which is very very exciting for me! I can’t thank you enough, Miss Scarlet, for opening this door into a deeper dynamic for us.

Thanks again,

LSK

Mistress Scarlet’s comment

The book for her certainly worked!

The vagaries of life!

For two reasons I was considering withdrawing from sale, for a while, my published book, Sex and Relationship Nirvana with a Submissive: A beginner’s guide. Reason 1, it refers to uxos as submissives so needs amending. Reason 2, I feel my imminent book, How to Entice her into a Female Led Relationship, (Even if you have failed before), should be read by the uxo before, A Beginner’s Guide, is passed to his wife or girlfriend.

Then I receive the comment below! What is a girl to do!?!?!?!?!?!?

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Mistress Scarlet,

I have read a great deal of your blog and feel that your approach and understanding of the uxoriously-minded male’s motivations and inner workings is incredible. I can only speak for myself, but your writing has truly struck a chord with me and I recently purchased your guide for my wife. It has paid dividends in a very short time. I do not believe she has even finished the book yet and already our dynamic is deepening and becoming much more rewarding.

I am cautiously optimistic that our bond and dynamic will continue to grow and it is thanks to your guide that we are furthering our journey. I just created a WordPress account for the purpose of expressing my gratitude to you for your writing and I didn’t know any other way to attempt to contact you.

Thanks again,

LSK

Mistress Scarlet’s response: Thank you so much for the kind words. It would be great to hear from you again with an account of what is happening.

Mistress Scarlet,

The severity and intensity of our dynamic pales in comparison to the tales recounted on this blog by yourself and others. I do not believe it would be of much interest. I am grateful for the increasing severity and intensity spurred by the purchase of your book. I’m dying to read it myself, as I’ve enjoyed your writing on your blog so much but my wife has told me “it’s not for you” and I will have to accept that.

Our history in a nutshell: I met my wife almost 10 years ago and we’ve been married for nearly 6. We have engaged in some level of an FLR since the beginning of our relationship. It was much more bedroom oriented initially with my orgasms being at her discretion and not a lot beyond that occurring outside the bedroom or 24/7. This was rewarding to some degree for each of us and the intensity and frequency waxed and waned with her libido. We welcomed our first child 2 years ago and that pretty much ended all kink in our lives for the latter half of the pregnancy until about 8 months ago.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder and my need to have that part of myself fulfilled became rather overwhelming so I did a lot of reading various blogs and other informational sources to try to approach my wife to reengage in an FLR type dynamic. Your blog in particular really gets to the heart of what I needed vs. wanted and how what I intellectually desired and wanted to ask for differed significantly from what I needed deep down. What I needed, was something that was difficult to ask for and seemed unfair to ask for since my wife had so much on her plate.

I broached the topic to my wife and stated that I would really like to reengage in the dynamic and that I think I could bring a lot more to the table in terms of domestic duties and service outside the bedroom. I also told my wife that I think that my submissiveness dissipates after full orgasms and the frequency should be curtailed a bit so she could get more out of me. This was scary for me because I really thought I wouldn’t be able to live with fewer orgasms, as I had been having them very frequently since I first became able to have orgasms. I was worried about being surly and have the whole thing backfire spectacularly.

We wrote up a contract and my orgasms have gone from daily to weekly to now probably 10-18 days apart with some level of daily teasing and some anal and ruined orgasms sprinkled in throughout the denial periods. My wife seems to have come into a sort of cool, collected, indifference towards my suffering and seems to be taking some additional pleasure in it. I do a greater share of the house work and help out where I can with increasing duties. Part of the contract is an exercise regiment and I find I have more energy now that I am not orgasming so often. My desire for my wife, which was already incredibly high, is off the charts with the teasing and denial. She has remarked that my obedience has improved. I was never disobedient, but this is more service with a smile I think and a greater enthusiasm for tasks that I would do in a begrudging manner in the past.

I feel that her threats are no longer idle and that she is willing to back them up. I feel that her demands and use of me are more unpredictable which is exciting. She seems to be wanting me to pleasure her more often, which is always a treat for me. She speaks to me in a more commanding manner. She dictates and doesn’t ask. She is becoming more comfortable using me to make her life easier, which I believe she struggled with a bit in the past. I spend more time giving her back rubs or foot rubs and she delegates more errands and that sort of thing than she has in the past. I work full time from home and she stays home with our child so I think she would feel guilty asking so much of me, but I truly do love and worship her and wish to make her life easier and she’s growing to allow that.

It is not always easy, I am horny constantly and lusting for her endlessly. Seeing her naked or scantily clad makes my brain feel like it is melting and my IQ has dropped 30 points. She gets a kick out of the affect.

The other night she toyed with my cock while we laid in bed. I was so hard and horny and close to cumming. Then she grabbed the back of my head and said “down boy” and pulled my head between her thighs and I orally pleasured her to orgasm. As she was approaching climax she said “I hope you enjoy this, it’s the closest you will be to an orgasm tonight” and then finished. I had trouble falling asleep that evening.

Two nights back she stroked my shaft gently up and down with one finger until I was about to burst. She then abruptly stopped and began slapping my testicles much harder than usual. I began to bring my legs up toward my chest in a protective posture and she cooly told me “legs down and straight” which was very out of character as well. She continued to slap my testicles until I felt I could no longer take it because it was so forceful. She then stopped and said “I hope your balls will ache in two ways tonight” and turned off the light and rolled over. Despite the physical agony from the slaps and the psychological agony from the tease and denial (had been about 8 days denied at the time which is still a pretty long stretch for me) it was so affecting and so erotic to hear her talk that way and treat me with so little regard.

Then just last night, something completely new for us that I have no doubt was a page from your book. She told me to join her in the bedroom after I put our child to sleep. When I entered she told me to strip. She then bent me over the bed and inserted a fairly large butt plug into me. She then ordered me to lay on the bed. She put a hood and blindfold on my head, chained my hands above me and padlocked the cuffs to the chains. She then cuffed my ankles together and put restraints around my ankles, calves, and thighs. I was immobilized and couldn’t see a thing. She then initiated a Facetime call from her phone to mine and muted her phone. Gave my erection a graze with her finger and left me there.

She has never left me alone like that for more than maybe 15 minutes, so I was expecting about the same. It was difficult to gauge the time passing and it was very boring and as time went on it became very difficult. After about 30-45 minutes she unmuted and told me she could do whatever she pleased with me and make me wait or suffer whatever she wanted for as long as she wanted. She asked me if I understood. I responded affirmatively, and she muted again.

After another 30-45 minutes she unmuted again and told me she was coming up soon and asked if I was ready for her to which I nearly shouted “YES MISS” I was so bored and alone and eager for any type of stimulation. Just hearing her voice was like water after days of wandering in the desert. A few long minutes later I could hear her footsteps on the stairs and my heart began racing with excited anticipation. She entered the room and began tracing two fingers down my shaft from head to base and telling me she could do whatever she wants with me whenever she wants with me for however long she likes. She asked me if it was boring and if it was tedious to be left like that. I responded affirmatively and she said “good.” I began squirming as much as I could under her touch and she slapped my balls and kept lightly touching and tracing down my shaft. Eventually she could tell I was about to orgasm and she removed her fingers and kept slapping my balls as I ruined all over myself. She scooped it up and into my mouth and then untied me and had me pleasure her. It was an evening unlike any other and I feel this was inspired by, if not entirely taken, from your book. If this were to be the only thing your book ever brings to our lives (which I severely doubt) it was well worth the purchase. I do not think that will be the end of it though as my wife has informed me she has something in mind for tomorrow evening. Hopefully something as difficult and affecting!

Respectfully Submitted,

LSK

How to entice her into a Female Led Relationship..

BOOK: How to entice her into a Female Led Relationship, (even if you have failed before).

I am seeking opinions on the cover of my forthcoming book, How to entice her into forming a Female Led Relationship, (even if you have failed before). You may wonder why. Let me explain why I really want the book to appeal to uxos. I have written the book for two reasons.

The first is to help uxos entice their wives/girlfriends into forming, for both of them, an utterly fulfilling symbiotic relationship that never becomes stale. It is clear that most uxos with vanilla wives or girlfriends all make the same catastrophic mistakes that result in failure. Mistakes that can all be avoided.

The second reason is, I think that, the more FLR relationships there are, the less stigma will be attached to them, and to uxos. AND the more FLR women there are, the more they will talk to their females friends and relatives about the benefits of being in an FLR.

My dream is to help more WOMEN become the Domme in an FLR. To be clear though, this book is for, and aimed at uxos; NOT vanilla wives and girlfriends. So, I am choosing the images for the cover, (produced by the talented Flair to my specification). There are five images below. I have chosen four. I could choose just two, so they standout clearly without being clicked on.

The fifth image is an option to replace the first image, so the women do not all have slim bodies. Is that better realism, or will uxos prefer the image I currently include? If I went for just two images, which would be the best two?

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IMAGE 5

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(And this is a link to Flair’s BSMLR site.)

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An annoying footnote for many on the issue of normalising FLRs

I will add, (to the chagrin of many of you), that I think the huge rise of one type of Findom provides a helpful phenomenon for the future. AND PLEASE DO NOT STERIOTYPE ALL FINDOMS AS BEING THE SAME. They are clearly on a spectrum with vile scammers at one end and almost- professional dominatrices at the other. HEAR ME OUT PLEASE.

Yes, there are scammer FIndoms, and Findoms that never meet their uxos. These two types are obnoxious and their uxos are the worst type of fools. But there are other Findoms, that do meet their uxos, in car parks? but often in hotel rooms, and I think they are helping normalise female dominance as an option for everyday women, and identifying the prevalence of uxos. They are so, so so much better than the other two available example phenomena; Femdom porn, and Professional dominatrices.

These ‘beneficial’ Findoms are almost all young, and young women today are much more open to exploring different relationships between men and women. And much more open with each other on such matters. Are there any young women who have never come across the Findom phenomenon I wonder?

But most importantly I feel, is that they provide videos of when they meet their uxos, in which, they do not wear leather, or rubber, or thigh boots; they wear everyday clothes. They do not have dungeons, they do not use lots of equipment, they do not draw blood or go to other extremes, like in Femdom porn. The Findoms that use hotel rooms are effectively professional dominatrices, WITHOUT, the paraphernalia that puts off do many vanilla women. But, they do their dominating just like any woman could do at home, like any wife or girlfriend could. They do not wear leather, or rubber, or thigh boots; they wear everyday clothes. They do not have dungeons, they do not use lots of equipment, they do not draw blood, etc.

I wonder are their forums where young women chat and ostensibly vanilla young women discuss such things as Findoms or FLRs?

Just thinking out loud.

Flair BDSMLR site

This is a link to the very talented Flair’s, AI art, BDSMLR site.

He is currently using his talent to obediently produce for me some images for the cover of my forthcoming book, How to entice her into a Female Led Relationship: (Even if you have failed before).The title could be misunderstood as the wife or girlfriend being manipulated into something for the benefit of the uxo. Of course the reality is that, my aim is for the wife/girlfriend to end up as contented as I am, running an FLR, and enjoying the huge amount of benefits, both day-to-day, and also knowing there is zero chance of my sex-life ever going stale, or of my uxo ever being unfaithful.

He will be adding to his BDSMLR site in due course. If you have a BDSMLR log in, it would be good if you re-blog any of the work he has posted on his site so far.

An amended version of the image below may end up as one of the images on the cover of my book. The book is aimed at uxos, not at vanilla wives and girlfriends!

I may even run a popularity poll here on his blog, to whittle down to two, the four images I have chosen that he is currently honing for me. Or I might go with all four, and an A4 size for the paperback.

When erections work against him

Below from a link chrissiegoerl sent me, is a list of activities entitled Viagra Femdom Ideas to Tease Your Chastity Cuck. It is from a website called, Lock It Up. I have not tried all the ideas so cannot vouch for their effectiveness. I can say other drugs are available.

I used to find the drug Cialis the best, before my bitch’s erections were all but eradicated. And he only has three or four left, before he never has one again. And each of those three or four will only last one minute max!

I did chuckle to myself, over how times change, because reading some of the ideas reminded me of something I used to do at the VERY, VERY start of my FLR. It was when we were out in the car, (he always drove), and we pulled into a service station for fuel.

As soon as the hand brake went on, I would stroke his penis through his trousers While I raised my skirt to the tops of my thighs, and he would get very, very hard indeed. (I do have great legs! Though I say so myself.)

Once there was a bulge in his trousers I would have him get out of the car and he would be so embarrassed filling the car while he had his bulge. He would even pause and wait before he went to the kiosk and paid.

This memory made me chuckle thinking how tame that all was compared to now, and how he would give anything for the chance to get hard, just for a few moments, more frequently than his current six months plus denial periods allow.

Viagra Femdom Ideas to Tease Your Chastity Cuck

by Andy M February 22, 2024

Viagra and chastity isn’t something you normally combine in your sex life. After all, if you’re locked in chastity you probably don’t need Viagra to have sex, right?

But Viagra can be a great tool in your femdom relationship.

After all, if you want to ensure your slave is constantly hard and frustrated in chastity, you won’t find anything better!

So if you’re looking for some naughty Viagra femdom ideas to tease and torment your slave, you’ve come to the right place.

This blog post will discuss:

  • How to use Viagra to tease your chastity slave
  • Kinky ways to mind fuck your sub
  • Edging and denying your slave to the brink of insanity

1. POST ORGASM TORTURE WITH VIAGRA

One of the best ways to do post orgasm torture is to use Viagra.

Why?

Well, because men typically go soft after they cum.

As a result, it becomes harder to do post orgasm torture if you want to milk him many times in a row.

Obviously, Viagra can help in this situation in helping your slave remain hard so you can keep going.

This will ensure that he is completely at your mercy and you can milk him several times in a row. All with ruined orgasms followed by post orgasm torture.

Oh god…that almost sounds too cruel. Almost…

2. EMBARRASSING SOCIAL SITUATIONS

Another fun femdom Viagra idea is to make your slave pop a pill before a family dinner or meeting with friends (basically any normal social interaction).

Then during dinner, do all you can to tease him to get him hard so that someone might notice the bulge in his pants!

Play footsie, give him an under the table footjob (or handjob), send him naughty texts with explicit content, you know anything to mind fuck him.

Before long, he’ll be hard as a rock at the table!

Then, ask him to bring something back from the kitchen or to pass the salt so that his hardon may be exposed for everyone to see!

I bet he’ll die of embarrassment haha.

3. THE PAINFUL SPIKED CHASTITY CAGE

One of the best (and easiest) ways to torture your slave when it comes to Viagra is to lock him in a spiked chastity cage and make him watch a few hours of porn.

This way he is continually aroused and the spikes keep digging into his cock. It’s a cruel and never-ending cycle!

If you want to tease him even more, put your wet panties (or dirty socks) over his nose so he keeps smelling your wonderful scent!

Then, stroke him every so often in the cage to send him deeper into desperation.

The great thing about this idea is he has to *eventually* get soft for you to remove the spiked cage.

4. TEASING & EDGING

As I mentioned before, the great thing about giving your slave Viagra is that he remains hard while you have him aroused.

That’s why it’s also a great time to tease & edge him when you have him hopped up!

Tie down your slave or put handcuffs on him. Then, edge him two or three times before locking him back up in chastity when the Viagra wears off!

If you want to be extra cruel, you can of course forgo unlocking him and keep him in chastity instead (to be edged).

In this case, use plenty of lube or baby oil to lube up his “manhood”.

Use your fingers, use your feet, or your mouth to tease him through the cage. The point is to bring him to the edge but stop short. Don’t even give him a ruined orgasm.

You want those balls big and blue after this!

5. THE IMPOSSIBLE VIAGRA FEMDOM TASK

This next femdom Viagra idea is soooo funny and is actually my favorite from this list.

Give your cuck a pill and take him out of the cage.

Let him stroke (or do it yourself) and get him nice and hard as fast as possible.

Then, inform him he has 2 minutes to get soft and back into the cage or you’ll add 2 weeks to his chastity lockup.

Watch the fear on his face as he tries to get soft and jam his dick back into the cage!

Trust me, this is HILARIOUS…

There’s something about being “under pressure” and unable to get soft again in time.

6. VIAGRA MAKE OUT SESSION

One of the best ways to tease your slave after you give him Viagra is to just leave him hanging!

I find that it’s best to do this with normal foreplay activities.

For example, invite him over to watch some TV show or movie on Netflix.

Then, slowly use your foot to play footsie with him, with specific emphasis on teasing his cock through his pants.

Then, begin a steamy make out session.

And when he wants to take things to the next level, you cut him off and send him away like a horny teenager!

Now, he’ll be hard and leaking for some time!

7. SEXT WITH HIM ALL DAY LONG

Drop a little pill of Viagra into your cuckold’s lunch box and instruct him to take it at work right before lunch.

Then, as the afternoon passes, you’ll start sexting with your slave.

Be extra descriptive about what you want him to do for you later.

For example, say things like:

  • “After work, you’re going to come home and peel off my gym sneakers and inhale my sweet before licking it up”
  • “I already texted Jamal. He said he’ll be in town this weekend and I should stop by his place…”

The idea is to get him all worked up so he’s horny and leaking at work!

This is also perfect if you make him wear a cage for you at work.

The FLR of Mistress Jess continues to evolve

Another update from Jess, one of the two fantastic flight crew Dommes that kindly contribute to this blog. Link to her last update, which links to the one before that.

Her uxo Eddison, demonstrating typical uxo behaviour, Jess writes: ‘…….. his unwavering dedication and admiration for me……..’ When an uxo feels helplessly in the power of a dominant women with a mean streak, he knows how privileged he is, and he accepts he NEEDS to regret what he wished for in order to feel totally content. And that contentment is addictive for him so, ‘….. It is so amusing to see how he reacts when I am ultra-strict, the enhanced respect and deference he shows me, which inspires me to be even more strict and pitiless!‘ The uxo feels even more privileged, and can’t help but show it, and so the ratchets keep on clicking!

Jess’s update

My apologies for not writing for so long. Seeing Mistress Tracy’s spurred me into action. Let me provide a belated and consequently rather lengthy update. 

Life continues to evolve in ways I never anticipated. With each passing day, I find myself delving deeper into the intricacies of my new lifestyle and the dynamics of our relationship. My FLR role as the leader has not only become second nature but has also brought about a profound sense of fulfillment and empowerment, particularly in the way Eddison’s servitude and devotion have evolved under my increasingly strict supervision and control. It is so amusing to see how he reacts when I am ultra-strict, the enhanced respect and deference he shows me, which inspires me to be even more strict and pitiless!

His responsiveness is a testament to his unwavering dedication and admiration for me. His willingness to fulfill my every command, no matter how demanding, reflects not only his obedience but also his deep desire to please and worship me. It’s a power dynamic that I relish, knowing that my authority over him is met with genuine respect and adoration.

One aspect that highlights the depth of Eddison’s servitude is his continued meticulous attention to all our household chores, with every task completed to perfection. This not only eases my responsibilities but also reinforces his commitment to serving me. Mind you, he knows he will be well punished if he should fall short on his tasks! 

I have forgotten what is involved in doing laundry or cleaning of any nature. Our house and garden are kept immaculate by Eddison. I have also had him completing a few exceptionally tedious, arduous, and very time-consuming tasks that would normally never have been done. These he has done at weekends when I am rostered for travel in my role as flight crew. 

One recent undertaking epitomized the depths of exhaustion and the relentless nature of such chores. I tasked Eddison with revitalizing our large brick patio and pathway at the front of our house. The transformation I envisioned demanded nothing short of pristine perfection, with each brick and its surrounding mortar to be scrubbed anew. To achieve this, Eddison found himself on his knees, scrubbing forcefully with a stiff brush, exerting immense vigour and dedication. Eight gruelling hours on a Saturday were spent in this pursuit, leaving him utterly drained and depleted by day’s end.

His day had commenced at the unforgiving hour of 5:00 am, as he was already burdened with the weight of his regular laundry and cleaning responsibilities. By the time he finally settled to write his essay, it was gone 7-00 pm. Tears were brimming in his eyes when I checked in on him a little later. Fatigue had settled deep, and he just wanted to have an early night, so the tears really fell when I refused to excuse him writing his scheduled essay. The following day, though less demanding, bore its own challenges as he tackled the remnants of his chores. 

I embarked on another weekend journey the following week, leaving him to complete the rear patio area, which is  twice the size of the front, and twice the strain on his weary muscles. The Sunday night that ensued witnessed a real battle between fatigue, tears, and his determination as he struggled to complete his essay.

The fruits of his labour have not been in vain. The patio stands as a testament to his hard work, ready to host family gatherings during summer. When I returned, I reassured him that his effort would not go unrecognized, by promising him that I would schedule both patios for quarterly maintenance to preserve their newfound splendour.

With rising costs, he has also been helping my mother out. She was paying for someone to mow her lawns, do the edges, and weed the garden beds. Eddison kindly ‘volunteered’ his services to save her some money. He also offered to assist with any other heavy yard work.

Financial control remains a pivotal element of our dynamic, with Eddison depending entirely on my management of both of our incomes. I now allocate him a reduced allowance of just £5 per week. This restriction not only emphasizes my dominance but also reinforces the necessity for him to prioritize my needs above all else. His initial reaction, which included tears and begging to have his old allowance back, was firmly refused. 

When I am home, we still lead a largely vanilla life-style. We go out frequently together; we spend time with family; and he still catches up with his mates, though only when we go out as couples. He has reluctantly accepted that he can’t afford to go out with ‘the boys’ by himself, and that I will not relent on his allowance. His free time is strictly monitored and controlled. 

I recently put an end to his slim hope of ever going deep-sea fishing with his mates again. Prior to meeting me, and in the early months of our relationship, he went deep-sea fishing nearly every Saturday. When I informed him that I had taken all his fishing gear to a charity shop, he was more than a little upset, but I made it clear he had neither the funds nor the time to go fishing any longer; so, it made sense to let someone else make good use of his gear. Once he got over his initial shock, he just held me tight, kissed me, and slipped into a state of submissive awe and, despite tears still pricking the back of his eyes, thanked me! It was devastating for him to accept, yet on another level, it warmed his uxo soul.

People do notice that I always cover the expenses when we are out, and that Eddison always defers to me regarding financial matters. Despite his initial embarrassment at this dynamic being known to others, he has come to accept and acknowledge that I will publicly display that I “wear the pants” in our relationship. 

On my end, I continue to regularly enjoy socializing whenever I wish, and I do so without consulting with him; catching with my work colleagues, friends, sisters, and mother. I frequently indulge in upscale venues and treat myself to luxury items without any hesitation. With his very high income, combined with my salary, and his financial restrictions, I am in a very comfortable position, reinforcing my role as the decision-maker and authority figure in our relationship. I love to treat my Mum to special coffee mornings when I am home. I still make savings, as I really only spend what Eddison used to spend on himself. 

I have also restructured his academic pursuits when I travel overseas. I take great pleasure in orchestrating challenging ‘homework’ tasks that Eddison must undertake in my absence, particularly in the realm of scholarly essays. This facet of our dynamic is very easily managed using modern technology to create thought-provoking, structured assignments. This is a source of great amusement and control for me. It takes me but a minute to craft an essay that will demand his utmost attention and effort for hours on end; after which it will take only a further minute to grade it! 

His written work is imposed on him after he has completed his day job and/or attended to all his household chores, adding to his already demanding schedule. His discomfort is palpable as he now must also wear the uniform of a schoolgirl before commencing his homework, a further reminder of his subservience in this domain.

This is all due to an AI program. I instruct it to generate an intricate essay topic that will require originality of thought. I don’t want him copying pages off the internet. ‘It’ delivers the topic and details the expectations for what the essay should encompass. His work is printed out and placed on his desk in sealed envelopes for each evening that I am away. He is not to open these until dressed and seated at his school desk, ready to start work. There is a camera in place to supervise, which also allows me to ensure he cannot reference his computer. He has access to a dictionary and a 1974 twenty-eight volume Encyclopedia.

He is tasked with handwriting the essay impeccably in neat print, using a fountain pen, a deliberate exercise in discipline and attention to detail. Once Eddison completes his essay, he scans it into an OCR program, and provides me with both the handwritten and PDF versions. I simply copy the text from the pdf and paste it into the AI program and instruct it to review and grade the essay. Its evaluation is of course analytically executed with clinical precision. It provides a brief review, highlights the strengths, areas for improvement, and provides a grade.

The intense stress that Eddison experiences cannot be understated. The process is so impersonal and cold, there is no human touch, it is just numbers and algorithms that will decide his grade, and ultimately the consequences that will flow from this if he receives a poor grade. This unemotional and exacting system of evaluation imposes immense pressure on him to meet the obdurate criteria of ‘it’. And of course, there is no appealing ‘its’ verdict!

The process of handwriting each essay and adhering to strict guidelines on presentation, adds to the mental and physical fatigue that Eddison must endure. Despite being only two pages in length, each essay demands a preliminary draft and meticulous rewriting before submission, which is very tiring and demanding.

It graded his last essay, ‘The Concept of Servitude: Navigating Power Dynamics and Personal Agency’: “The essay demonstrates a commendable effort in exploring the complexities of servitude. With improvements in clarity, organization, and deeper engagement with differing perspectives, it could achieve an even higher level of scholarly rigor and impact. Grade: B+.” He must achieve a C+ or better, so he did well.

With his first essay after cleaning the patio, I advised it that Eddison had requested if it would consider being more liberal in marking his essay, given he had had a busy day of hard chores. The result was…

“Your essay has been graded strictly according to academic standards. Grade: C (Fail). Your request for leniency was dismissed without consideration. Moving forward, any requests to influence grading will result in deductions or a lower grade.” I was giggling something crazy as he looked so forlorn while I read this to him. Still giggling, I then asked it to set a punishment which came back, “You will write a 3-page essay on academic integrity and ethical behaviour. Explore consequences of attempting to influence grading unfairly and the importance of impartial assessment.” I was still giggling as I told him this essay would be on top of any homework I would be setting when I next travelled!

Regarding his chastity and release. I initially contemplated easing the restriction I had placed over his permanently locked state and freedom from erections until September. However, after a conversation with Mistress Tracy, who advocated for an even firmer approach, I decided to maintain the status quo. He of course remains very focused on ensuring my regular pleasure!

I do allow him POV as I like to be pounded on occasions. This involves him taking some Viagra, followed later by me applying two coats of Emla numbing cream. He then wears two heavy-duty condoms and a penis sheath. He ends up ever so frustrated, but I have a great time. 

Additionally, Mistress Tracy shared a delightful idea for tormenting Eddison. With his “toy” securely locked in its tiny cage, I give him some Viagra before I tease him. The histrionics, tears, pleadings to be unlocked, together with his physical contortions as he squeals like a stuck pig for a couple of hours are ever so amusing and satisfying to observe.