The visit of my new Domme friend

So my new Domme friend spent the afternoon with us. I provide only a flavour of highlights here because I have started working on Volume 12 of my published journals and the visit will be a full entry in that volume.

With half hour to go before Mistress Nicola arrival, bitch-boy was dressed in his black and white maid’s uniform and could not have been more anxious, fretful, miserable and despondent. I kept rubbing salt into the wound, asking what he though Mistress Nicola  would think of him so attired, and if she would laugh at his pretty curtseying, etc.

While it transpired to be the case that inflicting humiliation was less important to Mistress Nicola than inflicting physical discomfort, bitch-boy was certainly very, very humiliated anyway! But the physical discomforts were considerable. Twice, bound face down over the dining table for some SERIOUS punishment with every implement I possess. NO mercy, NO pity. He had a purpose to suffer for our pleasure and suffer he did!

On the BDSM bed, with coolness and determination, (among other things), Mistress Nicola  made sure his clitty received very, very thorough coverage with the nettles. NO mercy, NO pity. He had a purpose to suffer for our pleasure and suffer he did!

Before we left him for an hour in TSD, while we went out and sat in the sun, my most sadistic side emerged and I gave the offending object a very thorough coating with the Deep Heat roll-on applicator, (by way of demonstration). I don’t know if the deep Heat reacted with the nettle stings or it was simply the extensiveness of the coating, but much sobbing and whimpering followed us as we walked from the room and downstairs.

Much, much more must yet be written about, in fine detail!

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A new Domme friend

Well I am about to spend time again with a new Domme friend I first met a short while ago. This week she is visiting bitch-boy and I and he has the nightmare of being introduced to, and suffering for a new Domme. It seems she is rather more into inflicting physical discomfort and restrictive bondage than into inflicting humiliation, so bitch-boy can look forward to a very affecting afternoon of a different hue to the hours of humiliation and tedium suffering he has been subjected to lately. How exciting for him!

I will report back on the event. I fear that bitch-boy does not share my huge enthusiasm for her visit. Poor bitch-boy.

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Not firm-but-fair, its firm-AND-UNFAIR in my household

There is the disproportionate punishment. The sub is sent to tidy the kitchen. The tidying is done and I am feeling like being a bitch so an inspection of the ‘tidied’ kitchen  is undertaken. In reality it is perfect, but I behave with incredulous annoyance. although I am acting, my voice carries controlled irritation. ‘Look at the third mug down on the mug tree, you slovenly slut, it is facing a different way to the other mugs; get over the dining table now!‘ A caning follows. It is excessively disproportionate to the crime; and all the more arousing for me for being so; and all the more subjugating for the sub for being so. (And a sub is never more content than when feeling subjugated.)

There is the deterrent punishment. I am about to begin a long day of full-on domination. One tribulation after another for my sub, for my perverted pleasure. I am bathed dressed and ready. My sub, as so often, hears the fateful words. ‘Get over the dining table pansy-piece, we are starting with a serious deterrent punishment. I want to be sure you know what will happen if you are disobedient today.’ It is unnecessary and gratuitous. He already knows exactly what will happen. But, it begins my arousal in earnest – half because it is so unfair and thus a clear indicator of my (sexually stimulating) power, and half – because inflicting pain and listening to whimpering and begging is so arousing. Again, subjugating for the sub because of the unfairness and again, a sub is never more content than when feeling subjugated.

Finally there is the just-because-I-can punishment. I have noticed it is a firm favourite of guests of mine when asked to babysit bitch-boy. I will have returned home and the babysitter has been thanked by bitch-boy and has departed, and I ask bitch-boy what he did wrong to deserve the caning he obviously received in my absence. (Obviously, because of the puffy red and striped flesh of his butt.) He answers mournfully.  ‘Governess xxxx announced she was going to punish me just because she can and so she then caned me for a long time Mistress.

So NOT firm-but-fair in my household. Why would it be fair if I want a contented sub and I want the feeling of absolute power. Yes power corrupts – it has certainly corrupted me!

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My Manual now available for Nook devices

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Cruel Decadence Extended

You may have read in my journals of one decadence I enjoy when Governess Lexi visits me. I find it very decadent to go up to bed for a lovely afternoon sleep for a hour or so. So when Lexi is here for the weekend, I do so and have Governess Lexi ‘babysit’ bitch-boy while I sleep. Well I have devised a way I can have my decadent nap even when I have no one here to ‘babysit’ bitch-boy.

Yesterday I was a little tired and poor bitch-boy was colouring-in with his dolly. Just full of both shame and tedium at the same time. Of course, using his hated timer as part of the of activity.

I announced I was going up to bed for an hour or so for a lovely nap and once he was prepared, he must carry on playing with his dolly, colouring-in, until I had finished my nap. He looked very confused. I padlocked his heavy rubber collar around his neck, so it could not be removed. I then chained the collar to a ring in the ceiling beam above him with a uniquely numbered plastic padlock. (A plastic padlock he could break so he could escape and wake me in an emergency). I then buckled a spiked leather strap around his flaccid clitty and padlocked his lockable plastic panties on him so he could not touch himself. I took a photo on my phone of the page he was colouring-in. I aimed a baby monitor at him. I spoke with amusement.

“Now then pansy piece I am going up for a lovely nap. You are going to carry on colouring-in with dolly while I do so. I will have the baby monitor receiver with me and so I will be able to monitor you while I am dropping off and also if I wake momentarily, and finally when I do wake up properly at the end of my nap. You will not know when I am awake or asleep, so you had better follow all the rules with the two minute timer and the whole sentences in your exchanges with dolly or you will get 50 hard strokes of the cane, preceded by a warm-up with the quirt. When I come back down, I will also compare how much has been coloured-in with the photo I just took. If you do finish the page you are on, simply begin the next page.

I know it is just so cruel and unfair that you will be suffering this deep shame and tedium with me not even in the room, and for a good proportion of the time, with me not even being awake. But your life is all about unfairness isn’t it. So that is that.”

I slowly drifted off to the sounds of the very miserable bitch-boy in verbal exchanges with his dolly and my power rush and sense of decadence was so extreme, I did have to make use of my massager for a lovely orgasm before sleep overtook me.

(It all went so well and made bitch-boy so miserable that I subsequently used the same technique while I sat outdoors in the sunshine.)

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My Manual on Kindle – Amazon, in paperback and ePub format

My guidance manual is now published as an A4 paperback and in ePub format and on Amazon Kindle.

      

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It will soon also be on Nook, Barnes and Noble and Apple iBooks. I will publish a post when it is.

This manual, of over 115,000 words, is for both beginners and for the experienced. (166 – pages at size A4.) This manual will work for any gender of dominant with any gender of submissive.

In section 1 you will find: # A chapter for submissives who wish to find a dominant partner or to influence their existing partner to become dominant. # A chapter for people who have a submissive partner and wish to tentatively explore dominating that partner. # A chapter for dominants, including the very experienced, who wish to maximise the pleasure and benefits for themselves and at the same time, maximise the contentment of their submissive. # Advice on managing that tricky balance between vanilla activity and domination activity.

In section 2 you will find a myriad of ideas, suggestions and techniques to explore and enjoy, including: # Advice on the use of different punishment implements. # Advice and suggestions on a multitude of physical torments, and humiliation and degradation activities. # A multitude of tips and ideas to incorporate in each of the five most popular enforced role plays.

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Guidance Manual now published

My guidance manual is now published as an A4 paperback and in ePub format.

      

Purchase Paperback                                               Purchase in ePub format

 

It will soon also be on Amazon Kindle, Nook, Barnes and Noble and Apple iBooks. I will publish a post when it is.

This manual, of over 115,000 words, is for both beginners and for the experienced. (166 – pages at size A4.) This manual will work for any gender of dominant with any gender of submissive.

In section 1 you will find: # A chapter for submissives who wish to find a dominant partner or to influence their existing partner to become dominant. # A chapter for people who have a submissive partner and wish to tentatively explore dominating that partner. # A chapter for dominants, including the very experienced, who wish to maximise the pleasure and benefits for themselves and at the same time, maximise the contentment of their submissive. # Advice on managing that tricky balance between vanilla activity and domination activity.

In section 2 you will find a myriad of ideas, suggestions and techniques to explore and enjoy, including: # Advice on the use of different punishment implements. # Advice and suggestions on a multitude of physical torments, and humiliation and degradation activities. # A multitude of tips and ideas to incorporate in each of the five most popular enforced role plays.

 

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