Well it seems to me that, when circumstances allow, it is worth stretching out the cuckolding experience for the sub to make the most of the subjugating effects of each stage.
(The sub’s lifestyle restrictions. For each of the four stages the following lifestyle restrictions apply. The sub is a born again virgin, in chastity, has not had an orgasm for a good while and will not be having one for a good while.)
Stage 1: A different location. You leave him in the house all alone, possibly with a list of chores to be done, while you go out to have sex with another. He knows exactly what will be happening. You have told him. When you get home, he can be told all about it in fine detail. Perhaps having to lick you while you tell him; and he is made aware with all his senses that you had lots of sex not long ago. Mutual rewarding, reciprocal, intimate sex that he never enjoys and never will.
Stage 2: A different room. Perhaps stage 1 has only happened once, perhaps several times but next is stage 2. Your lover visits the house. Your sub has to kneel outside the bedroom door and must listen, or is tied up in another room and hears EVERYTHING via a baby monitor. Before your lover leaves the house, he must thank her for providing his wife with fully satisfying intimate sexual pleasure he never can.
Stage 3: Gagged and bound in the same room. Wrists secured behind back, ideally balls tied to the bedrail at the foot of the bed, cock exposed for serious smacking and/or applications of Deep Heat or similar. Once he is sobbing, arousal in the lovers is high and he must watch as they fully satisfy each other, spoon while resting, perhaps repeat the cock torture followed by more sweet love making.
Stage 4: Helping. In his chastity device, in a sissy parody of a little girl outfit, standing at the side of the bed in fretting pose. His chastity on full display. When instructed, handing to, or taking from the lovers – vibrators, massagers, dildos, strap-ons, lube and anything else they need for their pleasure. Anything that has been inserted, must be licked clean before a sanitising wipe is used on it. He is ignored beyond his taking from and handing to. When finally the sex is over, the lovers spoon and fall asleep for a nap and the husband must stand still and quiet and await their awakening. Dreaming of the intimate, sex and closeness with his wife he witnesses her enjoying but will never be allowed to have himself.
NOTES: Two uses for the cuckolded husband I have not mentioned
The Human Dildo. Should one of the lovers enjoy penetration, then he might find himself helplessly bound on the bed on his back. At one side of the big bed. A posture collar holds his head very still. A dildo gag is strapped in his mouth and protrudes upward into the warm air. A lover sits on his face impaling herself on the dildo. He is not blindfolded. His nipples are pinched until he whimpers and perhaps his tears flow. The other lover sits on his chest and the lovers kiss passionately and caress each other. There is up and down movement. Massagers are pressed to clitori. Once huge orgasms are enjoyed, the lovers tumble gently to the middle of the bed, their human dildo left at the side and ignored as the lovemaking continues. He stares at the ceiling, the posture collar allows nothing else, and he listens with sadness, frustration and awe. He hears the peaceful breathing of sleep as the lovers nap. He has no idea what will be happening when they wake.
The Human Soap Dish. The cuckolded male is on his knees, wrists secured behind his back. Chastity device on. It has been on for many, many days. He kneels at the side and centre of a double ended bath. A large bar of soap held in his mouth. His wife and lover sit either end of the bath – full of hot water and soft bubbles. They sip on champagne. He is ignored throughout. After twenty minutes or so, his wife kneels in the bath and her lover stands and the soap is taken from the human soap dish and soft hands and slippery soap suds wash and caress, lingering here and there. The wet soap bar is returned to his mouth. Then the lover kneels and his wife stands. The sexually denied, born again virgin, husband cuckold watches as the lover’s hands explore his wife’s slippery, sudsy body, enjoying what he is never allowed to do and never will be allowed ever. Eventually the wet soap bar is forced back onto his mouth. Bathing over, the lovers stand and dry each other with soft, warm towels. Dry and content, the towels are thrown over the head of the cuckold and the lovers walk out, turning off the light. He is left alone; wet towels over his head, foul soap bar in his mouth, for how long he has no idea.
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