More extreme and more satisfied

I have posted a new string of correspondence between myself and a couple in a real FEMDOM relationship in my ADVICE section. The delightful couple have made a step change in their relationship as a result of reading my published journals and my blogs. The Mistress, Mistress Serena is wonderfully sadistic and exploiting. I cannot begin to express my satisfaction when I hear that I have assisted another woman in increasing the pleasure, amusement and ease in her life in some small way through dominance over a male.

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Volume 7 in the Apple iStore and on Barnes & Noble

Amazon V7 copy

Volume 7 of my journals is now available for Apple devices. Much quicker than expected.

It is also now on the Barnes & Noble site.

Link here, for further outlets/formats.

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Its all true

I know some readers of my blog and journals doubt the whole truth that this life, as described, is actually led by bitch-boy and I. This does bother me a bit because I want all women to know just how relaxing and exhilarating a life with a real sub can be, when you adopt it and then ensure it  evolves fully over the years. Below I evaluate some of the doubts that have been expressed to me. I always welcome these doubts so that I get a chance to address them. (Keep them coming.)

Too much for one man to take. Firstly, bitch-boy did not go from zero subjugation to where we are today. I evolved, and my lifestyle became more extreme over – coming up for – 15 years. So, much like how – if you slowly heat a pot of water to boiling point with a frog in it, the frog never jumps out – bitch-boy has been conditioned to just take more and more, his evolution of deepening acquiescence following my evolution of ever greater control and cruelty. Secondly, he is deeply, deeply submissive to women and has been since before he was 11 years old. So when faced with say, me and my two sisters for the first time taking utter control of him – three, tall, attractive, highly intelligent, very dominant women – his submissiveness overwhelmed all other traits in him and despite the terrible humiliation on that day, he was a deeply submissive rabbit caught in the headlights of intractable female dominance. (And having submitted once, the future led only one way.) Thirdly, he has managed to compartmentalise, mentally, the different aspects of his life. Within half an hour of the most terrible humiliations, he is able to, just about, deal with a business call. He can switch either way with only a little duration of transition. Fourthly, there are our practical lifestyle arrangements. He is awake for an average of 122 hours per week. Running his business takes only about an average of 22 hours per week, most weeks, (he works from home for 90% of that), leaving him 100 hours. Chores, garden and yard work take about 21 hours per week. This leaves 79 hours per week – when I am not at work, to use and abuse him. Deducted from that is vanilla interactions with family and friends about one weekend in four. So, it is not too much for one man to take. And I know of real Dommes, some of whom I have met, who have a lifestyle considerably more extreme than mine!

It is fantasy that you would have the sisters you do and meet the women you have met. Practical matters. (A) In the world, there are millions of families that consist of  a mother, father and several daughters. It is a statistical certainty that a percentage of these families will be led by a dominant mother who raises very dominant daughters. My family is one – even if such families are rare. (B) The children have all flown the nest and live some distance away. We moved to the countryside leaving all our family members and friends some distance away, we also have only a cordial nodding relationship with our few neighbours. This all means we never have people simply drop in to see us. All visitors are by appointment. (C) See above, bitch-boy runs his own business, works from home 90% of the time, and we both earn very good money. (D) In nearly 15 years, I have met only a handful of women who have wished to join me in my life with bitch-boy. Some moving in with us for a while, (one at a time! over the years) – most visiting regularly for a while. (Plus my sisters and Akesha).  Life is change. The women move away or abroad with work, they move for family reasons, they meet a sub of their own and stop visiting – so these are transient relationships. Over such a number of years, is this small number unbelievable? Given I have been on a number of BDSM contact sites and I visit fetish fairs and fetish clubs such as Club Pedestal. (And yet again, here is an invitation to any woman who wishes to join me in the use of abuse of bitch-boy (without bringing a man with them) although I am happy to have them come to me alone and then, me go to them alone, if they would like to double-domme any sub they own. (This is just how I like to take pleasure – a single male the absolute centre of attention! – Its my thing – I don’t know why.)

Equipment and apparel. Look on the internet or in the high street. All equipment I use is out there and most of it (not including BDSM beds) is quite low cost.

 So in conclusion. My life is real. Ladies who have a sub as a partner – try it. Ladies who have no partner – find a sub and try it. (There are 100 male subs looking for each Domme!)



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Involuntarily drops to his knees

In the comments section I received a question which having answered it, I thought it worthy of a blog post. It is below.

mistress Scarlet…
out of curiosity has bb ever broke into tears during any of your torments to him and begged at your feet for mercy , if so what made him break down and what was your reaction towards him.
Thank you for taking the time to read my comment and i am looking forward to your reply

Yes on a good number of occasions. The two which recur and come to mind are:

In the early days of having a dominant female visitor (or two) come to our house. I would dress him up in a ridiculous, shaming outfit at least an hour before the planned arrival time. I would then have him just stand in the middle of the room, doing nothing, other than thinking ahead to the arrival of the other female(s) and watch him fret and fret. On these occasions, in the early years, he would inevitably drop to his knees, sobbing and kiss my footwear while he begged and begged for me to cancel the visitor(s). This gave me great pleasure and a power rush as did, my response to him, that I had no intention of cancelling and his utter mortification and misery was precisely the point of the exercise.

The other recurring occasions are when he has been sexually denied for over three weeks and I put on a little sexy show for him. Naked in heels, or in a tiny mini skirt and heels, rubbing my hands up and down my body. He inevitably drops to his knees, sobbing and kissing my footwear while begging and pleading and crying that he just can’t take it anymore – really, really can’t take it. My response – he can take it and I will prove that to him because he will not be cumming today or tomorrow and perhaps not for weeks yet.


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Volume 7 now available on Amazon Kindle, Paperback and Epub

Amazon V7 copy

Amazon Kindle links.

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Volume 7 Published

Volume 7 is now published on  The events detailed within are actually all from the first 6 months of 2014. This gives testament to the fact that after dominating bitch-boy for over 13 years, I have recently evolved to desire extreme domination and torment sessions on an at least weekly basis. Previous time consuming pastimes of mine, like long walks in the country, have been forfeited in favour of serious blocks of time spent on serious domination. I don’t know if this is a good thing for journal content but it is where I am – so that is that. Enjoy!

Amazon V7 copy


LINK Paperback

LINK Epub version


I will post again when it is available on Amazon Kindle, Barnes and Noble, etc.


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Favourite Things

I recently received a question about what are my favourite things I do with bitch-boy. I think favourite things come and go and so I am sure 6 months ago my favourites were different and probably will be different again in six months time. But as of now:

1. bb doing his rotary clothes line duty for at least an hour while I read or make phone calls. This occurred just yesterday. Over an hour and half, during which time I did make two very long phone calls. Sitting in the conservatory, chatting on the phone, watching my slave blindfolded, helpless and enduring utter tedium on a pointless, humiliating task. I did go outside three times and caned his arse a little to keep him motivated! Pure power rush the whole time.

2. Playing with his boys’ bits for at least an hour while watching a foreign language DVD.

3. Having him role play being a little girl, while dressed as a little girl, and playing with his dollies. For several hours – especially like on my summer holiday this year – six afternoons in succession. I read a novel or two and the whole time I am amused and relaxed and imbued with a sense of serious power as he continues his shaming, tedious, never-ending nightmare. (Fully detailed in Volume 7 of my journals to be published very soon.)

4. Having him strapped down and helpless for hours in the BDSM bed with gynaecological stirrups. Full sensory deprivation and visits every half hour or so to him, to torture his little clitty with stinging nettles.

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