Well it was a full-on domination day but it was also the day before bitch-boy had to go to hospital for a very personal examination. (Nothing serious.) I had decided to accompany him to the hospital. I had insisted he shave his genitals today so that would be an embarrassment for him at the hospital. I decided he could snap out his black, acrylic frenum piercing ring. I would have him glue another ring in place when we got back from the hospital.
However today, he was due a serious punishment for an infraction. I decided against the cane or similar as I did not want his butt all bruised and marked. I did not want to be reported for assault or domestic abuse. But he did need a punishment. I could not count nettles or Linnex to his clitty as punishment as he would be getting one or both anyway, just for my amusement. I could not count two hours in TSD as punishment as he would be getting that anyway, just for my amusement. The same for a substantial cock spanking with the ruler.
This quandary did bring home to me the tricky issue, (I have tried to deal with in my published manual), of differentiating between punishment for infractions and torment for fun. The submissive must know when each is happening and be very clear on that. They must also know that punishment can be avoided, (although torment cannot), if they do not commit any infractions. They must very much want to avoid punishment.
Because of my theory, detailed in my post of yesterday, I do not invent infractions to find an excuse to torment.
In the end, because I like thrashing his butt so much, I opted to postpone his punishment for three days until my next full-on domination day. I have adopted the habit of a very generous deterrent punishment at the beginning of a full-on domination day (as I mentioned in my post of August 28), and then around an hour later dishing out any actual punishment due. I am a serious sadist because I love to use my cane, paddle and quirt to punish those already red, sore and puffy butt cheeks. Oh poor bitch-boy is so full of woe and disbelief as I nonchalantly spend my time giving one stroke after another after another. His helplessness and pleading give me SUCH A POWER RUSH and associated arousal. And my clear and obvious sadism and pitilessness has him in awe of me when it is all over. Perfect symbiosis!
POSTCRIPT – There were two specialists working in the relevant hospital consultation area. A middle aged aunty type and a very attractive young woman. I knew either would be an embarrassment for him for different reasons, but JACKPOT! he drew the short straw and was led off by the very attractive much younger specialist for his personal examination.
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Brilliant!
When given the choice, I always request a Lady DR for my annual medical to ensure maximum humiliation of my small cocklet
Would love to hear BB’s side of this experience please?
kindest regards
cupcake
I had bitch-boy write a few words on his experience. As follows:
I knew I would be undergoing an examination as a middle aged man, with below average genitalia COMPLETLEY SHAVED. What the person examining me would think I could not imagine. Mistress accompanied me. She wore skin tight jeans tucked into high heeled boots, a tight sweater and a leather bolero jacket. Mistress looked intimidating and utterly relaxed and amused. In the waiting room it became obvious, as Mistress posted, I would be examined either by a middle aged aunty type or a very attractive young woman. No males were on duty. I knew whichever woman I ended up with it would be very shaming. I was very miserable when I was led away by the attractive young woman. I could not imagine what she thought as she examined me. And I knew Mistress would be in the waiting room, reading her book and enjoying mild pleasure thinking of my deep embarrassment. Very amusing for her.
Ms Scarlet
I have always avoided spanking the penis out of fear of serious bruising, knowing there are so many blood vessels within. Can I therefore enquire, when you use the ruler, can you give an indication of how hard you strike, and what might be a typical number of strokes? This is not mentioned in your Manual, which I have enjoyed.
At the end, is there much bruising, and if so, how long does it last?
It is hard to put into the written word how hard a smack should be. I can tell you that there is never any bruising afterwards as a result. I smack at least until the penis has been turned a shade of pink compared to its normal colour. As far as I can tell, if smacking with the force required for that, there is no limit to the number of smacks that can be applied. Quite a good smacking method, is two light taps followed by a serious ‘tap’. Then repeat that sequence of three – again, and again and again. A good way to judge the right force for the smacks is to experiment by smacking your own inner thigh or inner wrist. (Not in front of your sub). I have had many guests apply smacking and I do so at least twice a week, and there has never been any damage. I find a good smacking force causes whimpering and pleading, especially when applied to an already smacked-sore, pink penis, but does not cause shouting out or screaming. Please let me know how your first session goes and what if any of what I have written is helpful. I will then include any that is in edition 2 of my Manual at some point.
Ms Scarlet, I am new to your blog but I very much like it and have just purchased your manual.
I was wondering what TSD is? Apologies if this is a silly question.
Total Sensory Deprivation.
I actually enjoy when my wife beats my butt, so she doesn’t do that for punishment. I have told her that the answer may be to beat much longer and harder till I am not enjoying it all.
A few days ago she said that I needed to be punished for a misdeed. This is a rare occurrence (not because I am perfect, more that she is not a disciplinarian) and she was momentarily at a loss for what to do that would teach a lesson. She did begin by belt whipping my ass and my wide spread ass hole. I was liking that too much, then she used a riding crop on the soles of my upturned feet. ow, ow, ow, yikes!! I do not want that anymore. I did like that she took it a step beyond what she knew was pleasurable to me in my strange way. I told her that though I did not like the foot whipping, to please know that she is fully within her rights to do it when she sees fit to do so.