On the theme of yesterday’s post, (and previous posts), it dawned on me that so many Dommes will miss out on this powerful, stimulating activity because I don’t believe cock-stomping stages are available for easy purchase, not even on-line.
It is possible to cock-stomp without a stage if the male’s birth defect is resting on a pile of thick hardback books or a coffee table but these options do not any where near provide the full subjugating experience for the male or the full powerful, stimulating experience for the female. I think there is a gap in the BDSM equipment market!
Fortunately for me, bitch-boy is great at things like carpentry so I instruct him to make a cock-stomping stage and I get one. And it is custom made for his body size and my requirements. (For example, my requirements did include that the stage be easily big enough for my girlfriend and I to both be standing on it in an embrace, or side by side.)
I think a fairly humorous documentary compilation video could be put together on cowboy built home made stomping stages. I have noticed in videos, stage legs too short so the stage precariously rests and rocks on the males stomach and the Domme needs surfing skills to remain standing. I have also noticed stages with a board of insufficient rigidity so it sags with the weight of the Domme as she moves around and again she needs surfing skills to remain standing.
There are two distinct types though. One type has a hole just the right size for a cock to poke through. The other type has a hole big enough for cock and balls to poke through. My stage is with a cock only hole. The cock is so robust that I feel unfettered in what I do to it with my shoes and boots, while the balls can be damaged fairly easily and require hospital treatment and I do not want to have to be careful when I am stomping. There are however plenty of videos of balls getting astounding treatment from women who are not being careful on stomping stages!
The legs are easily removed for storage with the stage I had bitch-boy make. Perhaps I should have him make an alternative top with a bigger hole so I can choose on my whim which top to use on any given day? I did wonder if I should have bitch-boy set up a business providing custom built stages!
If any blog follower knows of a retail source of cock stomping stages, please leave a comment. Considering some of the amazing (and expensive) BDSM furniture that is available and that a good stomping stage is so easy to make, and that the experiences of uses are so intense, I am amazed these stages are not more readily available.
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wonders if you have combined your loves of cock-stomping with stinging nettles for BB to experience?
Not yet. I have a list of things I will be trying in due course but at the moment I just love doing what I do.
The list includes:
An array of nettles on the platform under his birth defect.
Using my flogger to thrash the birth defect.
Wearing my walking boots.
Wearing my walking boots covered in fresh, wet mud.
I’ve provided a link to a stomping table. It looks of reasonable quality, unfortunately, it’s located in America. As a matter of interest, I thought I would point it out to You.
http://www.bdsm-gear.com/cbtstompingtable.html
Regards.
Thank you for finding what seems to be the only offering on the web. And it is flawed in several ways which helps to prove my point I think.
It is too small for two people to stand comfortably on.
The whole is too big for the birth defect without the balls.
It looks like the sides are much too tall unless the male is quite obese.
And of course, apart from those in the USA, the cost and risk of getting it through a European customs system without potential embarrassment is pretty high!
Dear Ms Scarlet,
I am sorry, but I do not have source for a stage matching your requirements.
I do however have a question: the clip you linked is incredibly good but seems to involve a high level of risk of major damage to the penis. I am always so nervous about partaking in such an activity at that level – especially with the boots. When you subject BB to this – are you as rough as the woman in the video? Have any lasting effects occurred?
I am trying to gauge the amusement/arousal/risk threshold – the video is good reference but I would be extremely gratful for your feedback regarding repeated sessions of that kind.
Thank you in advance.
I have found the cock is a very robust object. When flaccid I have pressed down on it until it is almost completely flattened and no damage has been done. I have stamped down quite hard as well.
When half erect or erect it actually cannot be squashed flat but I have pressed down as hard as I could with no damage and kicked it from side to side quite hard with no damage.
This treatment (and others done with other activities) have sometimes left bruises but these have cleared up in a week or so and there was no damage.
I have pressed down on the shaft with a narrow stiletto high heel hard enough to elicit pleading, but what I would never do is press down fully hard with a narrow stiletto high heel. I imagine that might cause medical damage.
I suggest you start light and feel your way into it. Also watch lots of videos and note the treatment dished out
on the same male
in different videos in a series where obviously no harm was caused.
Thank you very much for your detailed reply, very helpful!
Do you tie his hands and legs when you crush his birth defect?
His wrists are secured to the platform legs. His legs are trapped within the confines of the underside of the platform and the platform legs.
I could watch that video all day. There’s so much there: the boots, the smashing, and best of all, her total disregard of his presence.
In a previous blog entry, you correctly stated that there are countless male subs for every dominant woman. For those of us on the outside, still seeking, it is easy to understand the degree of punishment and humiliation the males are willing to withstand. It’s far worse being without a superior woman in one’s life.
Your short comment manages to pick up three significant themes.
1. The partial to total ignoring of a sub, who is undergoing considerable physical and or mental anguish, provides a profound indication of the pitilessness and power of the Domme. It is something I do often by various means. It is very hot for the Domme because its is so mean and it is very affecting for the sub; making it clear to him how insignificant he and his suffering is, and are, to the Domme.
2. That there are so many male subs and so very few female Dommes. This is why I write my blog and published journals and my BDSM manual. I sincerely want more women to discover and explore the amazing life that can be had owning, using, and abusing a sub. A sub who then sleeps truly contented sleep, despite, but because of, the use and abuse. A paradox vanilla people need to understand. For a blog post on 25 May this year I wrote a faux article for publication in a young women’s magazine extolling the lifetime orgasm quality/frequency from becoming a Domme. I would like to add to that faux article the benefits of fidelity that are also secured, and actually send it off anonymously to women’s magazines; BOTH HARDCPY AND ON-LINE. I just do not know which are the magazines that might publish such an article, especially in the USA. BUT THESE THINGS DO NEED MORE MAINSTREAMING TO WOMEN!
3. ABSOLUTE POWER comes simply from the supply / demand ratio that exists, as you imply. My bitch-boy introduced me to Femdom and I quickly realised I could do whatever I wanted with him, including much he does not like. Because in order to be sure to get that feeling of submissive contentment he so craves, he has to take all that he endures, or I could very easily and simply find another sub BUT he would struggle hugely to find another Domme.