I have some photos for my followers to compensate that I have little new to blog about. This is not because the depravity in my life is diminishing – far from it! It is because I have a favourite selection of perversities I am enjoying so much, that I am doing little that is new.
For instance, bitch-boy finds himself in total sensory deprivation bondage on my new BDSM bed at least twice a week. Spending between 2 and 5 hours strapped down – blindfold, ear-plugs, funnel gag – unable to move an inch. His legs spread wide and up in the gynaecological type stirrups at the foot of the bed. I visit him every hour or so and he wishes that I had not visited. So, the first photo – the sunglasses pouch – into which his stiff little clitty is inserted when the pouch is filled with nettle leaves. Oh the whining and whimpering and panic!! So funny and so cruel. I pull the drawstring tight and even when he goes all limp and soft – contact with the stinging leaves remains.
Another regular favourite. The rotary clothes line routine. This is fully explained in my Journal No. 5. It happens at least once a week depending on the weather.
Another regular favourite – lunch outdoors. The photo below is of me and it is the view of me, bitch-boy gets when I eat my lunch outdoors, which he has prepared. He kneels and I drop scraps to the floor which he must then eat. Given he is often denied sexual relief for over two weeks at a time, when he has this view of me, I can understand his sexual frustration and desperation.
I will blog again with more photos showing other regular favourites if followers find this makes up for the absence of new behaviours on my part.
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Mistress Scarlet, i would absolutely love to see more photos. Thank you so much for posting these ones. You are an incredible woman Mistress bitch boy should be so honored (even if he is incredibly frustrated).
Mistress Scarlet, thank you so much for the foto. You are incredibly beautiful! I would wish to be at the place of bitch boy and endure the pain you inflict.
Mistress Scarlet,
I just wanted to let you know that I have become an avid reader of your blogs and journals. Just in the past month I have started a female led relationship and I couldn’t be happier. While my Goddess is new to this world she has been enjoying it tremendously. One activity we do is I service her pussy while I am naked and handcuffed while she reads your journals. The combination of the two brings her to great climaxes while I know I must wait days to be granted a release. So I just wanted to say hi and say keep up the great work. Bitch-boy is very lucky to have you and we are all blessed in being able to experience your world.
Hope all is well,
Rob
P.s if you have any pointers for my Goddess please feel free to share. I’ll make sure I pass your words onto her!
I very much enjoy the picture you paint. I love that my writing is being put to such a perfect use.
I would not be so bold as to suggest pointers without knowing anything of your relationship and routines. If however your Goddess has any questions – feel free.
You are very privileged to be allowed to serve such a woman. Make sure she senses you are aware of that!!!
Mistress Scarlet,
Thank you for such a quick response. I filled in my Goddess on what you have wrote. You see our relationship started similar to yours. I was the natural submissive and I came to her expressing my desire to be her pet (as we call it). It is my duty to show her things that i enjoy so she gains a better understanding. Your blog and journals being one of them. She wanted me to tell you that she has enjoyed the power she has had over me and that she learns more and more each day. She’s excited for her dominant side to continue to grow. Her questions for you are what are some ways that she could embrace her dominant side even more? Also, she is not much of a sadist…she doesn’t want to hurt me, although we have expressed our desires to purchase whips in the future but we are not there yet. She would like ideas for punishment. Just to fill you in she controls when and how I’m relieved and I am given Daily tasks such as I must send her a thing I love about her each day as well as write her fantasies often. Just to a name a few. We are very much beginers with all of this but in just a matter of a month we are fitting into our roles very nicely. We see a strong bond together through a FLR. And yes… i am so grateful for her and her willingness to accept her power over me. All my life i have wanted to worship my Goddess…words can not describe how happy I am to have finally found her and i make sure to tell her often.
Any words from you would be much appreciated.
Hope all is well and again thank you for letting us into your world,
Robert
My evolution to my current level of dominance was a series of step changes rather than a steady consistent trend.
One phrase which resulted in a step change came from reading some literature in which a Domme stated that her sub was not made of porcelain and would not break if she gave him say, 100 cane strokes or had him sleep on a stone floor for a week, etc. I have lived by the phrase ever since and so became released from a shackle of caution and false concern when crossing a previous boundary of mistreatment of bitch-boy. And the Domme was right. Try anything appealing to you which will not result in enduring damage of your sub. Why not? Subs are not made of porcelain.
More to the point in respect of your comment, another huge step change came from accepting that I was a sadist. In the early days after, say, becoming excited by pinching his nipple, slowly and viciously, and being called a sadist by bitch-boy – I disagreed vehemently that I was a sadist. For me then, the label sadist was associated with absolute evil and meanness of spirit. I learned however that I was a sadist and that was simply OK. I am not evil (ah-hem!), I support all fights against poverty and tyranny of minorities, and social injustice, etc. I am basically a good and ethical person who happens to get excited when inflicting physical and/or mental pain on bitch-boy and on others (female) who might request my ‘company’. I am released from another shackle of conformity.
(I actually believe all people have sadism within them. It is just that normally the pleasure of a sadistic act is responded to within us with feelings of shame and guilt – built into us by society’s conditioning norms. Bullying by children as young as 5 or 6 is common place. Bullying is sadism. It is clearly inherent in young children. Often children from the most ‘moral’ families. Many people will disagree with me on a number of aspects of this topic and I understand that they would. But I am clear in my views and have thought long and hard.)
I found embracing my dominant side became akin to an addictive drug. Having experienced being truly worshipped, being waited on hand and foot, having a human toy to ‘take down from the shelf’ and abuse whenever I wanted, a 100% utterly fulfilling sex life which never goes stale – I could no longer imagine a life without these things. Link that to the simple fact that bitch-boy sleeps with a deeply contented (submissive) soul (despite all he endures – or perhaps because of it!), and embracing the lifestyle did not just become easy, it became – and is – essential to me.
My regrets are that, firstly, I did not find out about the lifestyle while in my teens, and secondly, that I took over a decade to get to where I am now – which I probably could have achieved in a couple of years from finding out about the lifestyle, had I not been fettered by concern over society’s labels and by unnecessary caution. So my advice is to experiment with big step changes ASAP and if one experimental behaviour does not work out, chalk that up to the learning on the journey and keep experimenting with other big step changes.
Fantastic detail and insight… Our raw personalities are filtered to the purposes of society and culture at an early age. We are taught to suppress many innate emotions, drives, and desires.
The purity of emotion and feeling in this lifestyle is undeniable.
Interesting tidbit about acknowledging being a sadist. I have not thought twice about using it to describe moments with my girlfriend, who (as I mentioned in my comment on your advice Dommes page) I adore. Her expressions of emotion and feeling are very pure. I tell her often that the raw ecstacy written on her face during our lovemaking is an immense turn on. On the flip side, when she is inflicting pain on me, or slowly stroking her cock (that I care for and keep locked away between my legs) while she says “you’re mine” and keeping me at the edge before release, or doing something humiliating to me in front of people, that their is pure sadism written in her eyes. I’m not sure I have mentioned how deeply it strikes me. It is not a turn on, it is almost awe as you describe bb’s reaction to your cruelty, if I had to label the feeling. It’s certainly not a turn on or I would have been telling her about it already. I think I might pick a time soon to reveal that and give her space to be comfortable in that feeling and better soak up the raw feelings of power and control.
I don’t think it’s purely my technique or skill or own passions, but simply my desire and ability to give her space to feel and be without any judgement or preconceived notions of what being a woman are. She requites me this by allowing me to be completely submissive and vulnerable as a male; giving me comfort as her toy and pet, while sitting at her feet while we eat, or laying in her lap during a movie being petted while wearing only the cage on her property. Or simply speaking the truth of my thoughts to grow her understanding of my mind.
I’ve been away on travel and I’m due some harsh punishment and treatment for some indiscretions when we reconnect in a few days (after I relieve her sexual tension from the time away), so maybe soon I can start to reveal little tidbits of perhaps simply focus on making her emotionally comfortable in her harsh treatment.
very interesting, I would love to read more.
Love your confidence! The picture of you by the pool is sensational! You are one great female Dom. Subs must be lining up to serve you…
You are deliciously diabolical! You are amazing!
Those nettles……those are always fun (I assume) for the Mistress but from the sissies prospective…
they might not be so fun. So far, my Mistress has not discovered the nettles….thank God. (don’t they go out of season sometime????
i would love the view but of course i would also HATE THE VIEW!!!!!!!
You are such a SWEET Mistress, because this is what us subbie, sissie slaves enjoy.
Nettles go out of season and die back with the firs frosts. However they also lose some of their potency after they have flowered. They are best (most stinging!) before they have flowered. Isn’t bitch-boy lucky that I have studied the nettle lifecycle so well.
oh my, you rock so much Ms Scarlet, you are simply devine, I can never read enough about your use of nettles, much respect fluffy
Mistress Scarlet: yes”the pictures give me a more real life look at it all. You are soo beautiful which makes it all the more harder for bitch boy. I would go nuts if I was under your ruleing. The pictures are the cherry on ice cream. Thank you. Do you have a picture of your bondage bed?
I cannot show my bondage bed without showing my spare bedroom, so that it not ging to happen. I have fully describedit in Volume 5 of my journals.
thank you so much for the photos posted Ms Scarlet, I love them and your posts. If you are running out of ideas for fun with bitch-boy, do you like suggestions for new ideas?
much respect fluffy
Yes I do like suggestions for new ideas.
thank you for letting this slave propose some ideas for you to do with bitch-boy Ms Scarlet, I hope they inspire you and don’t waste your time or disappoint
so here goes:
Bitch-boy’s feed – feed him wet & dry pet food!
• I know you feed him what he hates – sweetcorn – but have you ever fed him cat or dog food? from experience, it is a tough ordeal to keep down and tastes absolutely foul!
• allergy testing (aka grimace testing) – trying out different feed stuffs suitable for slave boys
Bitch-boy playtime with his blow-up piggy girlfriend – bell him and point his toes!
• Not sure how often bitch boy gets such a treat, but perhaps to add to the ordeals he already experiences, it would be amusing to be belled and have to bend his knees and point his toes (red or pink lacquered toes?)
• get him a fleshlight, to consume his meals from, via licking it clean
Bitch-boy chores – work him hard!
• Guest and visitor car tyre cleaning with his tongue
Livestock Day
• spend the day as a pig or dog – no speech, just woofs or oinks
• put him somewhere and live stream him on the web
Scratch your sadist itch
• the US uses water boarding – so surely a slave boy should suffer more – so how about piss-boarding?
Cumming
• Test how desperate bitch-boy is to get a cum and end his cumless days – throw the chastity padlock key into a area of nettle growth and let him crawl in naked anytime he wants to fetch it
Some Other Theme Days/Nights
• “I love the smell of fear & humiliation on the morning…..”
• slave pen day -put him outside, in a pen or out-house filled with only prickly straw for warmth
• less than trash – a night of sleep in the big recycling wheelie bin
• kajirus refresher course with a Whip Mistress day
• teased to tears day
• kept outside day
• draft slave scrubbing & cleaning day
• Dance-athon day
• advanced boot cleaning, licking & nibbling day
Fun with electrics – shock him!
• electric shock roulette game: the countdown noise is super scary, especially after you know what is coming
• http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/lightning-reaction-…
• Electric fly swat: http://www.tauntonleisure.com/outwell-mosquito-hitt…
Collar – 100 levels of intensity
• http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/100-Levels-LCD-Remote-Ele…
I do hope you like at least some of the ideas, and would love to have your feedback
respect from
fluffy
tyou for letting this slave propose some ideas for you to do with bitch-boy Ms Scarlet, I hope they inspire you and don’t waste your time or disappoint
so here goes:
Bitch-boy’s feed – feed him wet & dry pet food!
• I know you feed him what he hates – sweetcorn – but have you ever fed him cat or dog food? from experience, it is a tough ordeal to keep down and tastes absolutely foul!
• allergy testing (aka grimace testing) – trying out different feed stuffs suitable for slave boys
Bitch-boy playtime with his blow-up piggy girlfriend – bell him and point his toes!
• Not sure how often bitch boy gets such a treat, but perhaps to add to the ordeals he already experiences, it would be amusing to be belled and have to bend his knees and point his toes (red or pink lacquered toes?)
• get him a fleshlight, to consume his meals from, via licking it clean
Bitch-boy chores – work him hard!
• Guest and visitor car tyre cleaning with his tongue
Livestock Day
• spend the day as a pig or dog – no speech, just woofs or oinks
• put him somewhere and live stream him on the web
Scratch your sadist itch
• the US uses water boarding – so surely a slave boy should suffer more – so how about piss-boarding?
Cumming
• Test how desperate bitch-boy is to get a cum and end his cumless days – throw the chastity padlock key into a area of nettle growth and let him crawl in naked anytime he wants to fetch it
Some Other Theme Days/Nights
• “I love the smell of fear & humiliation on the morning…..”
• slave pen day -put him outside, in a pen or out-house filled with only prickly straw for warmth
• less than trash – a night of sleep in the big recycling wheelie bin
• kajirus refresher course with a Whip Mistress day
• teased to tears day
• kept outside day
• draft slave scrubbing & cleaning day
• Dance-athon day
• advanced boot cleaning, licking & nibbling day
Fun with electrics – shock him!
• electric shock roulette game: the countdown noise is super scary, especially after you know what is coming
• http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/lightning-reaction-…
• Electric fly swat: http://www.tauntonleisure.com/outwell-mosquito-hitt…
Collar – 100 levels of intensity
• http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/100-Levels-LCD-Remote-Ele…
I do hope you like at least some of the ideas, and would love to have your feedback
respect from
fluffy
hi Mistress Scarlet it is a beautiful pic and i can understand why any man would love to be where bitch boy is
Hi Miss Scarlet
I just wanted to say the picture of you eating lunch is the best thing I have ever seen. Your legs and feet are truly amazing. Bitch boy is the luckiest sub alive.
May I ask how did he become so lucky to find such a beautiful woman with amazing feet, who is so powerful cruel and kind. It seens like a dream
In the introduction to each of my journals, I describe how we met and evolved.
You are so deliciously creative. What a lucky girl bitch boy is!
Mistress Scarlet, Thank you for posting the pictures. I love the pic of your beautiful legs. I am sure bitch-boy is so frustrated that he cannot climb between your lovely legs and make love to you!!! I know that I, and I am sure many others, would love to see more pictures of you!! But also some pictures of bitch-boy. I would like to see a pic of bitch-boy’s penis locked in his tube! I am curious of how the tube fits when he is flaccid as well as after you have been teasing him while still locked! I would also like to see a pic of your bondage bed, even better if bitch-boy was strapped to it. Perhaps you could cover the furnishings with sheets or edit the picture so only the bed is visible! I would like to know how you attached the stirrups to the frame and how bitch-boy is secured. I look forward to more of your pics. Thanks
I may post more such pics, but on my Tumbler account. I will ponder on it.
Love your writing. The picture of you by the pool is divine. Sensational legs and body. Would love to see more. Love your readers comments.
yes can Imagine bitch-boy getting really hot & bothered in his chastity tube if you Ms Scarlet are outside in your bikini with those sensational legs & pretty feet enjoying the gorgeous weather.
respect from
fluffy
Hello Mistress Scarlet, your figure, your feet and high heels are bautiful and marvellous!
Just like your writing!
Thank you
Mistress Scarlet,
very nice description of the step cycle you used to deepen your relationship with bb over time.
Thank you
Let him perform a ritual worship
Washing Your feet every night and drink the same water kneeling and with gratitude.
Wonderful photos Mistress Scarlet! To lick the soles and suck clean the heels of Your shoes as You enjoy Your lunch would be a divine gift and enough to soothe this sissy’s submissive soul!
ohh yes,,
I’ve never seen this picture in all of my years of visiting your blog. What a state you keep your pansy-piece is in.