So far there has been universal agreement with the theory I set out in yesterday’s post, with one caveat.
If the Domme makes it ABSOLUTELY clear to the submissive that the Domme is a sadist and many acts in which they partake are to satisfy their sadistic desires, then there is no need to verbalise their sadism. I will stress however that there must be no doubt in the mind of the submissive. Any such doubt should be eradicated by verbalising. If in doubt, verbalise.
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I have been a sub since my early teens and nothing excites me more than mean, playful / mischievous girls (then) / women (now) – Satisfying and amusing such women so they are laughing and having a good time, was and is far more interesting and exciting than anything
I didn’t discover that what I liked had a name / term: Femdom until my early 20s (early 90’s) when by chance I discovered in a newsagent the magazine Female In a World of Fantasy
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fluffy