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How hard to smack the object?

The wonderful Christine M left me a comment with this  question. Ms Scarlet I have always avoided spanking the penis out of fear of serious bruising, knowing there are so many blood vessels within. Can I therefore enquire, when you … Continue reading

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Maximising the effect on the submissive.

On the 2nd September I posted a theory on maximising the effect on the submissive. There was more detail, but the key I contend is that the submissive’s PERCEPTION of the dominant’s cruelty is key to maximising effect. I mentioned that if … Continue reading

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The science of stinging nettles

I thought I had banged on about nettles until everyone was bored rigid. However I received this question in a comment. P.S. Are you able / willing to share a photo of the type of nettles to look out for … Continue reading

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Deepest humiliation for bitch-boy, and so sore too!

Mistress Nicola visited again and through our emails since her first visit she had come to understand that I had not exposed to her my most EXTREME humiliations of bitch-boy; fearing the potential grotesqueness and weirdness of my approach may … Continue reading

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Maximising the effect on the submissive (part 2)

So far there has been universal agreement with the theory I set out in yesterday’s post, with one caveat. If the Domme makes it ABSOLUTELY clear to the submissive that the Domme is a sadist and many acts in which they … Continue reading

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Maximising the effect on the submissive

I am interested in comments from true submissives on the following: (I define true submissives as those who recognised their submissiveness before they reached puberty; before the age of say 11, and who have desired domination ever since.) Recent experiences … Continue reading

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A seat with a view of a seat

I know I do go on about ‘playing with his boy’s bits’. But it is something I do for between one and two hours each day I dominate bitch-boy. I have written about it before. LINK, LINK,  and posted a … Continue reading

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